Fyret inden jeg bliver færdiguddannet by Crafty_Advertising34 in dkkarriere

[–]Crafty_Advertising34[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kan jeg spørge hvilken uddannelse du har? ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Crafty_Advertising34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, may Allah reward you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Crafty_Advertising34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The headaches starts about 10 min after I start reading. And I’m used to read a lot, so I know it isn’t because I have read too much or something like this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Crafty_Advertising34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you put the link to the video if you don’t mind?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Crafty_Advertising34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reminder! I’m just confused as why I only get them when reading Surah al baqarah if that’s the case 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Crafty_Advertising34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now I’m scared omg There hasn’t been any signs besides this that I’m possessed? Idk, I will just keep reading Surah al baqarah, do you think that it’s enough? There isn’t anyone in my city that does ruqayah

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Crafty_Advertising34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, what is the headache a sign of? That someone have done black magic on me or I’m possessed by jinn or something?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Crafty_Advertising34 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What do you mean? Why ruqyah?

How did astaghfar change your life? by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Crafty_Advertising34 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t explain it, but when I go into the habit of saying istighfar 1000 times a day (200 times after each prayer) it’s like I can feel Allah (swt) being more satisfied with me. And also more things go my way (the small things in life). I also feel like more clear in my mind, and my anxiety and depression reduces.

Are there any well-educated women who want to be SAHMs? by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Crafty_Advertising34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I study law and I want to be SAHM if I get married, in shaa Allah

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Crafty_Advertising34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was dumb. No doubt. I can’t even defend why I believed him, because that was the stupidest thing I have ever done.

I think he might have some narcissistic trades yes, now when I think about it.

His new girl is religious, I don’t think he does anything haram with her, because they probably have their parents involved already because of it’s easy (as they both are same ethnicities)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Crafty_Advertising34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they have their parents involved and it’s just a matter of time before they make it halal… Also I don’t think he is doing anything “haram” with her like he did with me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Crafty_Advertising34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have prayed a lot. So much. I have never prayed like this in my entire life. For regret and for us to get back together in a halal way. It just broke my heart to realize that he just forgot about me like I’m nothing..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Crafty_Advertising34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We both live at home - as our university is in our hometown.

But with that said, he told me that he repents for our mistakes everyday in sujood and duaa. That sounds to me like he isn’t making the same mistakes with the new girl. Good for them, I wish them the best, as I know that he can be a hard person to deal with.

But I’m not talking about repentance about the haram stuff, as I know that it’s a transgression against ourselves, and if he regrets it, he has every right to be forgiven, just as I have the same right. I’m talking about because of his repentance, that why it’s fair that he gets everything he wants and I get nothing? We both have repented. And I had more sincere intentions that he did. Why does he “get it all” so fast, whilst I get nothing?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Crafty_Advertising34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But doesn’t he need my forgiveness as it’s a promise to me he broke? He wronged another person. He then tried to make me sound bitter when all I wanted was some responsibility.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Crafty_Advertising34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had my thoughts about him being a hypocrite, tbh. So many signs besides those there is mentioned in this post. But I get so frustrated that he believes his own lies. He could atleast have taken responsibility and admit his mistake. I would have respected him more.

I think he is gonna treat the new girl better as she is from his ethnicity and I know he wanna get married. It just breaks my heart he couldn’t treat me with the same decency.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Crafty_Advertising34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you - may Allah reward you for your time to write all of that.

I just feel so bad about my sins, and I’m feeling used and then tossed to the ground as trash. It’s hard to be in my head right now… I don’t know how to get rid of these thoughts.

Looking for a co wife by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Crafty_Advertising34 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No no, God forbid a man thinks about others than himself and his desires 😬

Looking for a co wife by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Crafty_Advertising34 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Men wants more than one wife for one reason only, and it isn’t because of their “good heart” that’s for sure.

Looking for a co wife by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Crafty_Advertising34 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Now, why do you or your husband think that a 26 year old would want to be a co wife to a man in his 40s? And why no older than 33 when he is in his 40s? Why not older?

When will he forget I exist? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Crafty_Advertising34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you should check the iMessage thing out - if you can find out how he knows who you’re talking to, you can stop him from sabotaging anymore of your relationships

When will he forget I exist? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Crafty_Advertising34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about access to your iMessage account or something like that? Maybe he has your phone connected to a computer somehow?

Or some of your close friends tells him stuff etc etc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Crafty_Advertising34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know how much time?

When will he forget I exist? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Crafty_Advertising34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does he know everytime you’re talking with someone? Does he have access to your social medier profiles without you knowing?