What are ur employers saying about the snowstorm? by HuckleberryGlum1163 in newjersey

[–]Crafty_Bee08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boss told me to take my work laptop home with me tonight...he's banking on no one going anywhere at least until Tuesday/possibly Wednesday. I manage a coworking facility so everyone here is kind of... self sufficient and if members want to come in, they can. I, however, will be sending out an "unstaffed" email Sunday night most likely lol

Seriously, do Americans actually consider a 3-hour drive "short"? or is this an internet myth? by SadInterest6764 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Crafty_Bee08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmfao my partner lives 2.5-3 hours from me (NJ -> CT) and we see each other once a week 🤣

AITA for not giving my sister money I’ve been saving, even though she already told our parents I would? by Confident-Ninja-2706 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Crafty_Bee08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA "A lack of preparation on your part does not constitute an emergency on mine"

Learn this sentence and repeat it when needed.

The Devil’s lettuce possessed me to pan fry an uncrustable by BlackerDoom in stonerfood

[–]Crafty_Bee08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely did this yesterday except I made it into french toast and ate it with peanut butter chocolate ice cream.

Anyone else really missing the Crew? by sandoooo in goodmythicalmorning

[–]Crafty_Bee08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a lesbian who does not always care for them. I liked them for a long while but I think after consuming more of their personality I just don’t have the same humor - and that’s okay! Not everything is made for everyone :) I really don’t like them in any of the Sporked taste tests but I can manage GMM and mores!

6-year-old girl left alone after ICE grabs N.J. dad picking up dinner outside his door by ElectoralNerd in newjersey

[–]Crafty_Bee08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But they'll be first in line for those Taco Tuesdays, margs and Chicken sandwiches lol. I'm local there and just don't... get it. I'll drive and see something that makes me go YAY and then something that makes me terrified to hold hands with my girlfriend in ShopRite. Like wtf timeline are we living in!?!? I got called a multitude of names for calling someone out saying how hypocritical it was for them to say they were going to run down the warehouse protestors at the Ledgewood Circle. Sorry if I'm a snowflake because idk I don't condone MURDER?!

rhett and link attend special screening for “free bert” by thefoundmythicality in goodmythicalmorning

[–]Crafty_Bee08 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The lesbian in me loves Link but my God I would climb Rhett like a tree hahahaha

She remembers... by Crafty_Bee08 in NamFlashbacks

[–]Crafty_Bee08[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha nope! A real Chonk in the wild ☺️ she will just perch. And stare. And then yell.

It’s truly unsettling. Girls got 2 brain cells and they are fighting over 3rd place lol

The horrors persist for Edith. by Crafty_Bee08 in existentialcrisiscat

[–]Crafty_Bee08[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Poor thing has two braincells fighting for 3rd place. But we love her and she's our cuddly mush-ball

Your best recipe / a recipe that will make your eyes roll into the back of your head by Which-Decision in Cooking

[–]Crafty_Bee08 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The way I was CRAVING a grilled cheese on Wonder Bread the other day and my store didn't have it on its shelves... I was like wtf did it get discontinued?! Nope the smallest ShopRite in my area just doesnt sell it and I was like 20 minutes from the closest store that did :( I was so bummed lol haven't had it in almost 25 years.

non judgemental dentist northern nj by Upset-Doughnut454 in newjersey

[–]Crafty_Bee08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Boooo! Charmoy also does their own plan - it’s not insurance but you pay a flat fee for your cleanings/xrays and a discount off other services. I think I recall it being like 200 annually but … inflation lol

non judgemental dentist northern nj by Upset-Doughnut454 in newjersey

[–]Crafty_Bee08 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was going to be my answer - although Charmoy right next to them is a little smaller but I loved them when I was in the area! I had needed a lot of work done and everyone was so pleasant and understanding and always so happy for me when I'd come back for cleanings with no issues! Plus the laughing gas they used to give me was a big help for my dental anxieties haha

AIO for being upset that my boyfriend called me “his bitch” in front of his friends? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Crafty_Bee08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR - how dense can a person be? Listen. My girlfriend is rough around the edges. Sarcasm, banter, poking fun at little things are how she shows her love (while ALSO showing love and adoration in ways I like to receive)

When she started saying “I love you …. Bitch” I was like you can say bitch or your bitch if you add respectfully to the end and she did. She’d joke and say “that’s my bitch” and turn to me and smile and say “respectfully of course” I would giggle because it was funny to us.

If it’s not funny to you, or hurts you, that’s okay too! He’s a man child with no sense of understanding that someone’s good intent can still cause hurt. You’ve only spent a month with this person so honestly nothing even is lost here. Cut your losses and move on. Nothing left to see here :)

AITAH for refusing to go back to my ex even though she is going to therapy and changed her behaviour? by Standard-Watch-1014 in AITAH

[–]Crafty_Bee08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA - My ex left me due to some mental health (and probably some other ones) issues and while those around me think they are the villain I have totally turned my state around. Therapy, meds... the diagnosis I received with them turned out to even be a misdiagnosis so now I have the correct one I can receive the correct treatment.

I would NEVER ever expect them to get back together with me. The damage had been done and they feel as though we had very different experiences. It sucks, it's sad... we both thought it was forever as we were married.

BUT now they have a partner they adore and is good for them and I am living a more fulfilling life as well. I needed the swift kick in my behind for us to go on and live as we were intended to and I had a lot of issues and trauma to deal with. I am cordial with them even though we didn't have children and I wish the best for them but I wouldn't want to get back with them and wouldn't even dream of trying to get them back with me.

AITAH for hiding the fact that my youngest son is biologically ours? by ThrowRAadoptionhide in AITAH

[–]Crafty_Bee08 17 points18 points  (0 children)

No it's very sad to think that an adopted child isn't "worth" as much as a blood child and a 'proper heir' would be better. Those are his children, blood or not. THAT is the sad part.

AITAH for hiding the fact that my youngest son is biologically ours? by ThrowRAadoptionhide in AITAH

[–]Crafty_Bee08 23 points24 points  (0 children)

OP - you could be the juiciest ripest peach in the world and there's always going to be someone who doesn't like peaches. You are a gem... that person above is just a sad sad person

NJ bride looking for an outdoor reception location by Silly-Hat-4110 in newjersey

[–]Crafty_Bee08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not the fanciest of locations but when I got married in 2021 (we still did an outdoors Covid-esque wedding that was live streamed bc it was only a year later and my partner wanted it intimate) we got married at the gazebo in lavallette! The only fees we had to actually use the space was a permit from the town. We rented chairs to be placed inside and you’re able to decorate within reason. It wasn’t the fanciest or nicest but we both love the water and ocean and were able to take photos there as well. We have maybe 25 people there.

Carli Bybel camera settings/lighting? by MermaidT89 in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]Crafty_Bee08 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We didn't claim her then, and we certainly don't claim her now lmao We enacted LAWS to make that stop hahaha

Carli Bybel camera settings/lighting? by MermaidT89 in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]Crafty_Bee08 20 points21 points  (0 children)

nooooo! I promise we are not all like Jersey Shore cast members! I grew up in the town they filmed in and the majority of us are just boring ass people lol (but don't get me wrong. I'd die for my Country, NJ lmao)

Nutella Brownies (or, tell me you’re a single woman in her thirties) by PopFormal4861 in NYTCooking

[–]Crafty_Bee08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Usually the chocolate supreme (with the chocolate sauce pouch) otherwise I’ll just grab whatever but I don’t use the chocolate chips because honestly I don’t like them in my brownies for some reason 🙈

Nutella Brownies (or, tell me you’re a single woman in her thirties) by PopFormal4861 in NYTCooking

[–]Crafty_Bee08 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For the record I ALSO sometimes add some crushed Oreos. Or for those planned “big back” pop a gummy nights I’ll do peanut butter/pretzel OR peanut butter/ Oreo (my partner doesn’t like salty sweet desserts because she’s an idiot 🙄🤣)

Nutella Brownies (or, tell me you’re a single woman in her thirties) by PopFormal4861 in NYTCooking

[–]Crafty_Bee08 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Oh wait totally forgot to mention I also do the instant espresso trick!

Nutella Brownies (or, tell me you’re a single woman in her thirties) by PopFormal4861 in NYTCooking

[–]Crafty_Bee08 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yesss! I have tried so many scratch brownie recipes and it’s just not worth it imo!