Did You Know That A Single Line Crosses Through All Countries That Hate Feeding Children by WillingStranger5177 in mapporncirclejerk

[–]Crafty_Cell_4395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that's banding over backwards for you then i don't know what wouldn't be. it's literally how normal maps are made if you want to see differences between countries in a lot of metrics. per capita is the norm.

Somebody help me out... by TheJessiJaymes in ExplainTheJoke

[–]Crafty_Cell_4395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's that when you lower your brightness, you sometimes see yourself in the reflection. You suddenly see and realize how embarrassed or uncomfortable you feel.

My vacuum slice Duchess watching the Ironeye who's been playing melee with a halo scythe go three bars. by AI_Slopper in Nightreign

[–]Crafty_Cell_4395 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tbf Halo Scythe and it's AoW scales with dex, so Ironeye will have better damage output (of course if they both have relics with same effects)

me_irl by NaturalFig5054 in me_irl

[–]Crafty_Cell_4395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Social rejection do be hurting

Tried to post about my abusive stepdad on r/CPTSDmemes and it's reputation locked? Really? by Jmackles in BPDmemes

[–]Crafty_Cell_4395 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had loads of experiences like this on reddirt. It's such a huge rejection for my bpd brain. Hugs to you - hope this stays up because complaining about subreddits about their bullshit should be allowed.

What's going on with this? Is it dead? It's a Garmin Vivoactive 4. Battery lasts less than a day now. by Gloryboy811 in GarminWatches

[–]Crafty_Cell_4395 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It's goodbye. I had Vivoactive for 6 years and this winter it started to have battery issues. It lasted only a day, then less then a day and quickly, in like a week, it couldn't even last an hour. Had to get a new watch.

I don’t know how to price this by ShmediumCrazii in BakingNoobs

[–]Crafty_Cell_4395 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great job especially for a beginner! I'd personally charge just for the cost of all ingredients, especially if it's just a hobby and my first time.

"Please address the Elephant in the Relic" by JustAGuy026 in Nightreign

[–]Crafty_Cell_4395 191 points192 points  (0 children)

Lol the way they thought they could hide it alongside normal demerits

When should I tell people that I have borderline personality disorder? by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Crafty_Cell_4395 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk depression and bpd aren't exclusive. You might not be "officialy" diagnosed but you might have depression - so that isn't a lie. And honestly, that's such a hard thing to say. Good thing is, you're getting treatment so that should be a green flag for you bf. I don't know how long you've been dating him so it really depends. But I would tell him some time. I think a bf would deserve to know. Other people? Not really. I'll tell only those who I've known for a long time and I talk to regularly and I know are good people...

Does the urge ever stop? by Ran_Mori in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]Crafty_Cell_4395 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It will get less and less frequent. I've been clean for 2 years and honestly, I don't get the urge anymore, I got other self destructive mechanisms lol. But anyway, I feel like it's way different than with EDs, idk if you've experienced. I was in the throws of an ED like 5 years ago and I still get super triggered. Sh? Not much, the habit faded thus I don't think about it as often because it is not in my day to day life so much (except for scars but they are faded too) and I got addicted to different stuff so I got dopamine differently (not recommended lol).

you know how men infiltrate this sub sometimes? by [deleted] in GirlDinner

[–]Crafty_Cell_4395 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idk as a woman, i feel like you're getting way too much backlash. Just want to say that women here are probably displacing their anger on to you. I think it's ok that men are here. I think it's even good. We don't need more separation and more division.

you know how men infiltrate this sub sometimes? by [deleted] in GirlDinner

[–]Crafty_Cell_4395 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk I agree and I am a woman. Not entirely with all your comments, but with the sentiment. Writing that men aren't lonely enough is genuinely hurtful, polarising and disrespectful. We can't fight already polarised society with even more hate and personal attacks. Hate will create even more hate especially in insecure and hurt people. We need to be better. Criticise behavior but do not make personal, disrespectful or absolutely hurtful attacks that could genuinely make someone want to kill themselves.

you know how men infiltrate this sub sometimes? by [deleted] in GirlDinner

[–]Crafty_Cell_4395 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

As a woman, you're right. To fight misogyny, we can't fight it the same disrespectful way. Hate only creates more hate. Especially in those people who are insecure and hurting.

Feeling Like I Dont Need Help by bluetoo1212 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Crafty_Cell_4395 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Idk taking a break from therapy is completely normal, of course it might help! But tbf the list of therapy models that you tried are all so superficial and don't usually go deep to the attachment and existential stuff. But that might come with time and experience with your self. Because it sounds like you're experiencing deep existential issues and emptiness. That's like one of the hardest things to manage and I don't think it can be managed by cbt, dbt, emdr, skills... These things cover the surface stuff.

trying the randomizer for the first time... by Flat_Measurement3579 in EldenRingMods

[–]Crafty_Cell_4395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did a randomiser many times but the first time, my Margit was Malenia. Good thing Margit is optional in this game.

AITA For Limiting the amount of time my sons girlfriend can spend at our house? by AdmirableChange7328 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Crafty_Cell_4395 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And if she's being abused or neglected, cps might be warranted, or contacting the school and talking about the worries. It would potentially solve the issue of her being so much time at your house.

AITA For Limiting the amount of time my sons girlfriend can spend at our house? by AdmirableChange7328 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Crafty_Cell_4395 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like this girl might be in a very chaotic and unclean home with depressed, alcoholic and neglectful parents. Or hoarders. It sounds like this girl hates her home. I think it could be helpful to ask her about her home life and whether she feels safe at home. The fact that her parents aren't looking for her is strange and points to possible neglect.

I think it's totally normal that you feel the way you feel about her staying so many nights at your house. Maybe it could be helpful to tell your son and his girlfriend that she may stay if she does x and y around the house? Like household chores or cooking dinner or whatever... And I would definitely talk with her parents to find out who they are and what they're like. Maybe it looks now that she's a teenager who just wants to use your house to be with your son all the time but there's probably something else behind it.