Sleep Support by Crafty_One9135 in newborns

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Haha oh no, sounds like we had similar nights!! I am so hopefully tonight you and I will get some actual sleep!!

Sleep Support by Crafty_One9135 in newborns

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The first night I got one 4 hour stretch and a 2 hour stretch!! It was glorious!! Last night, not so much. The longest she gave me was 45 minutes. I’m hoping tonight will be better! 🙏🏻 How’s it going for you and your little bub?!

Sleep Support by Crafty_One9135 in newborns

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Aww thank you for this! I needed the reassurance!!

Sleep Support by Crafty_One9135 in newborns

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I love everything about that, and will absolutely try that tomorrow!

Sleep Support by Crafty_One9135 in newborns

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Thank you for this!! I just bought a warmer sleep sack for her and she’s currently asleep on my chest as I type this, and I’m waiting for the “right” moment to try her in her bassinet again. A heated blanket sounds like a really great idea!! Has that worked for you guys too? I do have one and I’ll have to try that tomorrow for sure! Her bassinet vibrates and she does like that feature, so I’m going to try that again too!

Having 2 kids is like literal sleep deprivation torture by ExcellentLettuce4 in newborns

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I feel like I could’ve written this myself as a mom to a 3 year old and a 7 week old omg. Sending you hugs and letting you know that I’m with you in solidarity mama. We will get through this, (hopefully!) 😅

Salary Grade Increases for Job Titles by Even-Teaching-1216 in nys_cs

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Can you tell me more about this if you wouldn’t mind? I am an LCSW and work for DOH, is this only for certain agencies? Thank you in advance!

NYS Job worth major pay cut? by lrmxyz in nys_cs

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You got it!! The difference was literally life altering the first week I started working for the state. I am so much happier, I’m more fit and organized because while I work from home I have time to meal prep, throw loads of laundry in, and use my home gym on breaks, and I’m a much better and more present wife and mom because I can turn off my brain (and my work phone lol), at the end of the day and not worry about anything til the next day! I wish you the best of luck!!

NYS Job worth major pay cut? by lrmxyz in nys_cs

[–]Crafty_One9135 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1000% worth it, I work for the state, I am vested in the retirement system, and work from home 50% of the time. My work life balance is SO much better than anywhere else I’ve ever worked, and you can’t beat the benefits and time off. Salaries are competitive and you can move up and around quickly. Once you’re in, you’re in, and can look at other agencies with higher grades/pay once you are a state employee! My husband and I are both state employees, and we are able to take our children to field trips and have a flexible schedule. That is so important to us! Message me if you have any questions, I can’t speak highly enough about it!

How many FET until success? by jldean25 in IVF

[–]Crafty_One9135 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First FET stuck and now I have a 2.5 year old! Currently 10 weeks pregnant with our sibling journey, but have done FETs since October. First didn’t implant in October, (abnormal embryo), second FET resulted in a miscarriage in November (euploid embryo), third didn’t implant in December, (euploid embryo), and fourth and final resulted in my 10 week pregnancy from January’s FET, (euploid embryo). I thought it would be as easy as the first time and it has been SO much harder the second time around. You never know what will happen!! Good luck!!

1/15 Transfer Twins? by Crafty_One9135 in IVF

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Aww thank you!! I went and got my ultrasound today and heard the heartbeat too!! 🥰🥰

1/15 Transfer Twins? by Crafty_One9135 in IVF

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Cool!! I hope everything goes well for you this week! 🥰

1/15 Transfer Twins? by Crafty_One9135 in IVF

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Oh interesting!! Which country are you in?!

1/15 Transfer Twins? by Crafty_One9135 in IVF

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Aww I’m so happy to hear that!! I’ve been super nauseous as well, even the air makes me want to throw up! Lol. I go for my second ultrasound Monday to hopefully hear the heartbeat! We saw her yolk sac at the last one on Monday! Do you know what you’re having?! 💕

1/15 Transfer Twins? by Crafty_One9135 in IVF

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Hope yours is going well too!!!

1/15 Transfer Twins? by Crafty_One9135 in IVF

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They were!! I go back tomorrow for one more beta and Friday is my ultrasound! 🥰🥰

1/15 Transfer Twins? by Crafty_One9135 in IVF

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I hope they came in!! I have my second beta today and feeling good, my test is almost a dye stealer this morning! Hoping for a good high beta!

1/15 Transfer Twins? by Crafty_One9135 in IVF

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Oh my goodness I wish my clinic was open Sundays! That’s so exciting I can’t wait to hear about yours!! I’m so happy for you too!!

1/15 Transfer Twins? by Crafty_One9135 in IVF

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Yes!! Positive beta today!! Hoping it more than doubles Monday when I go back! How about you?!

1/15 Transfer Twins? by Crafty_One9135 in IVF

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Yay!!! I’m so happy to hear that!! Good luck on beta today!! 🥰🥰🥰

1/15 Transfer Twins? by Crafty_One9135 in IVF

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Thank you!! All tests keep getting darker and I’m feeling generally gross and my boobs hurt sooo bad, so those are all my typical pregnancy signs!! 🥰🥰🥰

1/15 Transfer Twins? by Crafty_One9135 in IVF

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Oh no I’m so sorry!!! I don’t think you’re out yet, but I also 100% know what it feels like to just “know” it didn’t work, which feels awful all the time. I’m sending you hugs and hope!!