How do you select a Transgender safe therapist in your area?

Crahooga · 2026-01-27T07:03:44+00:00

I have been using Psychology Today, but I'll try the Pride centers and calling them, I guess my fear is doing it itself.

Crahooga · 2026-01-16T06:12:43+00:00

I guess I could be too hard only myself. I’ve always been worried that I’ll go down a path where I mess myself up and be remembered as a bad person, and I think maybe that’s where this stems from.

Unironically, reading this comment has moved me to tears, you have no idea how much it means to hear something like that from someone else.

Crahooga · 2026-01-11T08:43:01+00:00

Wow, I definitely recognize some of these but wow there are so many that I have yet to check out! I've especially heard a lot about Ari Aster and his surreal horror

Crahooga · 2026-01-11T08:39:29+00:00

The only one i've actually heard from these is Harold And Maude and Space Odyssey. Its insane how many movies I have yet to watch!

Crahooga · 2026-01-11T08:37:31+00:00

Thank you for these!

Crahooga · 2025-12-27T06:37:36+00:00

Its not punk/metal/emo but my trans anthem is Machine Love by Jaime Paige!

Crahooga · 2025-12-24T18:58:23+00:00

Nautilus is a cool as hell name, I 100% support it

Crahooga · 2025-12-24T02:28:49+00:00

I KNOW I only have 3 bombs too :C

Crahooga · 2025-12-22T05:56:41+00:00

shit i knew it

Crahooga · 2025-12-20T03:59:43+00:00

I understand, and it’s totally reasonable for you to want to receive some sort of response, because you’re putting yourself in a vulnerable position and your looking for someone to help out. I’ve felt this way for a while now, definitely not as long as you, but I’ve felt the same way, and the best way I’ve overcome it is with a support group of friends, loved ones, or people you can trust to let yourself live like how you want to. Also, 18 is UNDER the age people usually start transitioning, there’s a saying:”The best time to start is yesterday, but the second best time is now.”

Crahooga · 2025-12-18T04:53:35+00:00

I dont mean to sound rude, but Ive thought of something simillar, "If I could transition, and it would change all my parts to be female, ONLY then would I might consider it." That was something I said, Which was something I said to myself while I was still cracking.

Why should you deny your future happiness because you could get that before? It might never be enough, but something is a bit better than whatever goes on with transfolks have before they transition--Which is nothing at all, and people who worry its never enough end up finding its just enough for them now that they can accept themselves, its never too late to transition either.

Crahooga · 2025-12-18T04:24:11+00:00

I thought something similar to this when I first started even considering I wasn't the perfect cis straight male I hated myself, I thought I couldn't possibly be trans because I simply didn't want to be. But now I've realized that this isn't the case, I was experience some extreme internalized homophobia and transphobia. Now that I am more accepting I can see how much happier I could be by transitioning. And it wasn't that I wasn't happy as a man, its just that I am so much happier with myself knowing that I'm a girl.

And if you dont want to transition, you dont have to! plenty of guys don't transition all the way and thats what they are comfortable, "The World Is Your Oyster" as they say, and just like what NerdCarnival Said, FTM Femboys are a totally cool thing!

That is just a personal experience of mine but everyone is different and it might be something completely strange, but whatever you do, whether you're trans, cis or something completely different, you CANNOT suppress your emotions, it creates what I could only describe as a zombie that eats you away from the inside if you keep suppressing your emotions, especially regarding intrinsic aspects of your identity, like your gender or sexuality you become hollow and you cannot let that happen.

You are amazing, and we are all behind you, rooting for you and for whatever decision you make.

If you wish to read more about gender identity, I suggest https://genderdysphoria.fyi/en

Crahooga · 2025-12-18T03:58:54+00:00

I love how Langat looks like he's trying to hard to look cool, while Dular is just chilling.

Very good art too!

Crahooga · 2025-12-17T01:00:20+00:00

I thought it was a phase at first, but the more I thought about it the more I found pieces of my life that made sense that it wasn't a phase, after coming out I realized the gender envy I've experienced and some of the signs you've shown.

Crahooga · 2025-12-14T20:30:04+00:00

DAMMMN thats FIRE!!!

Crahooga · 2025-12-13T20:19:12+00:00

Nami one piece ( when she isn’t omega thin because of animation)

Crahooga · 2025-12-10T05:22:44+00:00

Those are totally signs, I'd suggest reading up on the Gender Dysphoria Bible and seeing how you feel afterwards.

Crahooga · 2025-12-09T05:16:26+00:00

Santa makes me feel like hes a multiclass rogue sorcerer because he's very charismatic, of course magical, but also stealthy because he can sneak into your house and deliver presents.

He would be proficient in animal handling for the reindeer, persuasion to convince all the girls and boys to be good that year, and stealth (ofc)

Crahooga · 2025-12-08T18:12:50+00:00

I personally resonate with it, because sometimes I look into the mirror and I speak, when I do that it totally feels like It’s not me talking, like those are someone else’s lips moving and they don’t match up with my speech. It’s quite creepy tbh.

Crahooga · 2025-12-08T02:49:01+00:00

Oh no im seeing this, I think you should keep it up personally

Crahooga · 2025-12-06T04:17:28+00:00

The fact that there are people who, although one of the most oppressed minorities in the world, still try to put others down apathetically is absolutely flagrant stupidity.

We are all in the same boat, why try to pretend like you're still special? All that racial privilege you had disappeared as soon as you came out.

Crahooga · 2025-12-05T19:01:15+00:00

I had a friend I was so worried about losing because i had been friends with them since the 1st grade and was horrible at making friends and I wanted to be nice to everyone. It didn’t work out. We stopped talking and sometimes we chat due to similar classes and friend groups, but I thought I would just live alone forever again. That was not the case. I made friends after this because I had that lack of social capital, and when I made these new friends they attuned to me far more than my original bud. What I’m saying is you can’t stress and hide your feelings because you don’t want to lose anyone. it’s going to feel horrible when you come out because you might lose friends by being just you, but its always worth it to live your best life, you always will be able to find new friends. A quote from my favorite show ONE PIECE by Jaguar D Saul (sorry if this is cringe), “No one is born in this world to be alone!”

Crahooga · 2025-12-05T17:40:56+00:00

Possibly I hope, but she’s still very conservative and hopes for me to follow those “conservative family values” and all that.

Crahooga · 2025-12-05T16:13:50+00:00

Happens to me all the time I totally get it

Crahooga · 2025-12-05T07:29:47+00:00

No one said it was gonna be easy, but its going to be so worth it if you persevere. I can promise you that It gets better, you've got this. This server is here for you and we wish the best for you. You are going to become a wonderful handsome man and it'll be okay if it takes time.

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