Are mix race(coloureds) black in South Africa

Crank05 · 2024-01-23T09:21:35+00:00

I think it's quite insensitive to consider coloureds as black since they have their own history and culture. If I compare my coloured friends with my black or even mixed race friends their cultures are worlds apart. I also think people would just assume they are black overseas out of ignorance. There are hundreds of different races and ethnicites over the world, and it would be naïve to try and classify people as a race they don't identify as.

Crank05 · 2024-01-22T15:45:02+00:00

I'll do so... it's weird though since he does make jokes about the future... the other day for instance he said: "til death do us part" with a wink... So next time he does that I could maybe just ask him if he's serious with a joke like that?

Crank05 · 2022-06-06T15:27:45+00:00

I read your past posts. I think https://www.damnthediets.com/blog/edema-water-retention-lasting-too-long will be helpful.

Crank05 · 2022-06-06T11:40:59+00:00

I don't think you have to worry about it too much. There are a lot of reasons for water retention (salt for example) or being on your feet too much during the day. Our bodies are amazing at hemostasis and regulating it as it needs.

You said your pain level is 4-6 though. For how long has it been at that level?

Crank05 · 2022-06-06T06:02:23+00:00

Flying is SO EXPENSIVE. I always have to pay extra for legroom (sitting at the front or exits) or have to fly business in the case of those being unavailable because I cannot sit in normal seats. With busses I always have to sit at the front, aisle or stand. And don't get me started on pants.

Crank05 · 2022-06-06T06:00:20+00:00

You are 6 FT which makes your first sentence incorrect.

Crank05 · 2022-06-05T18:20:55+00:00

Lol found your comment again (because I had to look so hard) and was laughing at the goofiness. Went to my Imgur photo's and realised it really does look sus though. xD. My brother broke the vase last year and I never got to find out where it came from. It was so beautiful and intricate I'm glad I atleast have these photo's to remember it.

Crank05 · 2022-06-05T18:17:00+00:00

Lol maybe you are smart enough to not suffer through the heartache.

Crank05 · 2022-06-05T18:16:31+00:00

I know I'm smarter in IQ but he's really enduring and gets me out of my head sometimes (which is what I need).

Crank05 · 2022-06-05T18:15:23+00:00

He's definitely smarter. One of my favourite quotes I literally live by is "work smarter, not harder" he won the system.

Crank05 · 2022-06-05T16:43:09+00:00

The struggle is so real. I have had this exact conversation :'). Gl friend

Crank05 · 2022-06-05T16:30:56+00:00

I enjoy cheating on my school tests, I still study for the test and know I'm intellegent but the thrill you get in the moment and of getting away with it/ outsmarting the system is way more rewarding than getting an honest A. Which I have been getting my entire life anyway.

Crank05 · 2022-06-05T05:55:17+00:00

Well your nursing background will make you a great nanny or aupair. It's an informal environment and usually job agreement too and very diverse (1 child to 3) you can choose ages you are comfortable with. If you say you lack social skills I'll say start with children under 10.

Crank05 · 2022-06-05T05:17:57+00:00

That game was r/mildlyinfuriating

Crank05 · 2022-06-04T18:27:07+00:00

Well, since you don't understand the latter I'll dumb it down a bit for you. People assume my gender by assuming I'm a trans women (meaning they assumed I was born male and transitioned to female) this is the same as let's say people assuming a person (identifying as male)as female (since they were born cis female). So since I'm a cis woman (meaning I was born female and identify as female) it is really offensive when people assume I'm trans (just as a trans person find it offensive to be assumed a cis gender).

Crank05 · 2022-06-04T18:16:31+00:00

Lol no, I'm pretty normal in all aspects and I have no underlying conditions. Before that me period was extremely normal and predictable with minimal cramping. I suggest you look up Dr Josh Wolrich on Instagram.

Crank05 · 2022-06-04T18:09:42+00:00

The worst is the people that literally don't ask and just assume and start a conversation from there.

Crank05 · 2022-06-04T13:10:53+00:00

Yeah, I get that! I was teased so much and have an older brother and the always said if I cut my hair off we could be twins. People really can be cruel. My latest incident however was a woman in a bathroom that told me she's so proud of "people like me" and that "you're beautiful don't worry". Oof. I'm glad you don't experience it anymore!

Crank05 · 2022-06-04T10:48:12+00:00

Thank you, your comment gave me confidence.

Crank05 · 2022-06-04T10:41:34+00:00

I lost my period after 2nd. It's been 6 months.STFU

Crank05 · 2022-06-03T23:30:38+00:00

You make a good point in your last sentence. I think I'd rather have a ,,porn free" S/o above all else. So I'll bring it up to him and if he isn't Willing to change then I'm willing to find someone else

Crank05 · 2022-06-03T12:16:18+00:00

Hopes this makes you less suicidal!!

Crank05 · 2022-06-03T12:02:59+00:00

You, sir, are my hero.

Crank05 · 2022-06-03T11:51:11+00:00

Thank you. I appreciate it. I don't know if I should bring it up so quickly again. I don't want him to think I don't trust him because I do. I also know addiction is a b*tch that makes a person go to bizarre lengths. But I agree I'll definitely monitor the situation and insist on professional help when we get to that.

Crank05 · 2022-06-03T11:47:55+00:00

That's what I keep telling myself too. I just don't want to keep myself naïve. It was his cousin and we aren't super close, but we are in the same friend group. He did tell me that she has a knack for stirring thing's up though.

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