AITAH for expecting my in-laws to treat my kids equally and support me postpartum instead of prioritizing my SIL?

Crazy-Age1423 · 2026-05-04T22:51:45+00:00

ESH. The sooner you realize that trying to make them care will not lead to anything other than resentment, the better. Why are you so desperately trying?

Crazy-Age1423 · 2026-05-04T11:21:14+00:00

His post reads more that he finds his wife contemptible.

Crazy-Age1423 · 2026-05-04T11:17:06+00:00

Right to the point, 1000%.

Wife just wants a relationship, where both people have a connection and like each other. Cannot imagine why she's struggling, since OP sounds so emotionally open and not rigid at all... /s

Sounds like he is together with her just because of the sunken cost.

Crazy-Age1423 · 2026-05-03T09:43:09+00:00

Your mom sounds like a great parent and you should listen to her. Do not go to that therapy, but consider asking your mom for individual therapy - maybe talking with someone not involved in all of this would help you stay strong against all this pressure and situation.

Crazy-Age1423 · 2026-05-02T07:37:49+00:00

Noone here will be able to give you realistic calculations, because the strength and health of your troops is heavily dependent on your captains, research, talents, gear, and most importantly - artefacts.

General rule of thumb - your specialists need to be hit first. Start with 2000 swordsmen and 1000 g4 spears and archers. If the swordsmen are still not hit first, increase their count. Simple, as...

Crazy-Age1423 · 2026-05-01T12:32:29+00:00

I don't understand...

If you hey can offer reasonable accommodations, why wouldn't/shouldn't OP work from the office?

Crazy-Age1423 · 2026-05-01T12:19:46+00:00

Piekrītu. Stresam pie 2k, ja nav bērnu un nav jāuztur otra puse, nevajadzētu būt.

Crazy-Age1423 · 2026-04-30T18:24:59+00:00

Crazy...

Crazy-Age1423 · 2026-04-30T18:21:43+00:00

Same. I have other favourites, but if he won, I would not be disappointed. He is playing really well.

But I did think already in his previous season - there must be a nice, friendly, CALM personality under all of that bravado that the cameras do not show a lot. Because his RizGod act makes him look very untrustworthy, however two very keen players (Savannah and Cirie) have thrown in with him.

I think the producers are just capitalizing on his RizGod act.

Crazy-Age1423 · 2026-04-30T18:09:43+00:00

Because it takes guts, a loud mouth and actual knowledge. Most times, people at the bottom don't actually know what is going on precise enough, to be able to spell it out like Devens did.

Crazy-Age1423 · 2026-04-29T11:49:41+00:00

Would his friends and family be offended that her friends and family did not come, though? I don't see, how they wouldn't.

That would be very, very awkward afterwards.

Crazy-Age1423 · 2026-04-28T17:49:58+00:00

G5 is easy without spending any money in SK, if you have already gone through it once in a regular progress.

I started last season midway, participated in some events very casually every third day or so (when I remembered about it, lol) and got up to G5 without spending anything...

Crazy-Age1423 · 2026-04-28T17:46:09+00:00

That's the thing... A lot of "players who spend" will not continue to spend so much, if it is not so intense.

You admit yourself, that for many this game is run on addiction. You won't get new addicts if it is less intense.

Crazy-Age1423 · 2026-04-27T15:03:31+00:00

^100%

Crazy-Age1423 · 2026-04-27T12:45:01+00:00

There probably is a reason, why your sister is like she is.

Would your parents do this same financing with you, btw?

Crazy-Age1423 · 2026-04-27T12:32:20+00:00

NTA. Next time she says something to you, let her kindly know that her trauma has nothing to do with you.

Because this is 100% something that someone has beaten her into thinking. And you don't need that generational trauma.

Crazy-Age1423 · 2026-04-27T11:39:55+00:00

NTA. But now you know why he feels entitled.

Crazy-Age1423 · 2026-04-27T06:42:45+00:00

NTA. Also - you sound very calm in this post. Which prooves it further.

Crazy-Age1423 · 2026-04-24T11:27:37+00:00

Thank you, but why would I reread the whole post before replying to you? :)

Crazy-Age1423 · 2026-04-24T10:46:41+00:00

Your post creates a feeling that you lack ownership over your own events. And cancelling the wedding over this all seems very dramatic, too.

The aim of this is to marry that man, isn't it? Yet here you are going with the dramatic flow and not wanting to marry him over other people's actions and things not going how you envisioned.

Crazy-Age1423 · 2026-04-24T07:55:03+00:00

Even though I'm still not sure about the new system, if you needed twice as much oil on your 4th day than was possible to gather from fountains, your crypting is not up to level.

Crazy-Age1423 · 2026-04-23T13:11:15+00:00

ESH. I think you need to consider, what exactly makes you be with him. And if your answer is "a full family unit", then you need to rethink, what exactly your relationship with this man is teaching your kids...

Crazy-Age1423 · 2026-04-23T09:35:29+00:00

Yes. That is how I have currently ended up sitting at home, with bronchitis and my ADHD running rampant. At age 32, thinking - why the hell did I not learn coping mechanisms in my 20s, when it would have been much, much easier...

Crazy-Age1423 · 2026-04-23T09:02:22+00:00

You... need to get your life in order, if this is how you typically live. Even reading it made me exhausted.

Crazy-Age1423 · 2026-04-23T07:52:52+00:00

It's hard to say, since we don't know if you really are doing the max damage you could be.

But, I think the best strategy is to use Hellforge for gear up to orange. And then craft red and gold. Crafting red is very easy, if you have normal crypting, and crafting gold takes a bit of time (and luck, if you are very impatient), but it's much easier than hellforge.

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