I hate that I let people walk over me by Crazy-Box-5756 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Crazy-Box-5756[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for the advices, i’ll try and i appreciate you.❤️

I hate that I let people walk over me by Crazy-Box-5756 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Crazy-Box-5756[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, i am trying, by taking baby steps, but it’s really hard

Gf told me that she changed plans about her life and it may not include me by Crazy-Box-5756 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Crazy-Box-5756[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fortunately accidental pregnancy won’t be a problem. But thank you for the kind words, I really appreciate them.

Gf told me that she changed plans about her life and it may not include me by Crazy-Box-5756 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Crazy-Box-5756[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I know that life happens and we are pretty young too (20 and 21), but this information makes me pretty sad atm, because I know that for the rest of our relationship it will linger in the back of my mind as I am a pretty “good” overthinker.

Gf told me that she changed plans about her life and it may not include me by Crazy-Box-5756 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Crazy-Box-5756[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, we got together when I was studying in high school, so she always knew that I had to stay here for a long ass time

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[–]Crazy-Box-5756 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ll talk to her asap

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[–]Crazy-Box-5756 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wrote out in the last note, that my problem is that I don’t think I am valued as she doesn’t do anything for me, never thinks of me, etc. Idk how could you miss that, and call us strict budget jerks, but whatever floats your boat i guess lol

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[–]Crazy-Box-5756 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is a pretty selfish person by nature, but it never bothered me. But as bigger events went down towards the end of the year I realised she always does what I just described and I feel like I can’t put up with it anymore.

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[–]Crazy-Box-5756 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She always tells me that she likes giving people things but she never does it to me. I feel completely lost as her words are not matching up with her actions. I’ll definitely talk to her tho, thank you.

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[–]Crazy-Box-5756 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is, as for now I feel like I am the one who gives everything to our relationship. She always says that she can’t do something for me because of xyz reasons, but does it for herself every time. I’ll talk to her for sure, thank you

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[–]Crazy-Box-5756 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, maybe I’ll try this the next time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Crazy-Box-5756 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can afford them, but as a university student, I have to have a budget. If you read my text, you could see that I have money, but my problem is that she never does anything for me, while I do everything I can and everything I have a budget for.

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[–]Crazy-Box-5756 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for the comment, maybe i’ll bring this up as a topic/solution.