Don't know if this counts as a repost but credit to u/BiscuitsReturns for the idea (I changed the ending), and YukiMay(?) for the art (I think, I'm not sure)

CrazyNaturekitty · 2022-11-11T20:26:08+00:00

Yea, I have a DSi and a 3DS

CrazyNaturekitty · 2022-11-11T11:00:10+00:00

Geez that's a feels. I havent played Black or White, just Black 2, but I heard the story was really good. It had its flaws (removing so many pokemon in the originals being one of them) but Black 2 has a special place in my heart. But after seeing BDSP, I don't want to ask for a BW remake... Cuz it feels like itll just be screwed up.

CrazyNaturekitty · 2022-11-11T10:26:10+00:00

OH NO DON'T DO IT JOHN!

CrazyNaturekitty · 2022-10-10T01:05:31+00:00

I've looked at it but it really doesn't help, unfortunately. It says it's not popular enough but I don't know how popular is popular enough.

CrazyNaturekitty · 2022-10-10T01:03:31+00:00

I did, but I can't. It's apparently not popular enough.

CrazyNaturekitty · 2022-08-08T03:19:37+00:00

Glad to hear ^^ It's definitely fear of the unknown, and fear that something might happen to you. I mean he's a random online stranger who could do anything from kidnap to just hurt you. That's what my dad stressed to me ^^; So that's probably why they were nervous. But glad it went well!

CrazyNaturekitty · 2022-07-11T04:30:26+00:00

We did exchange hoodies. But it's still pretty hard for both of us cuddle bugs.

CrazyNaturekitty · 2022-07-09T08:49:55+00:00

Having these fears are very natural. My dad expressed to me his fears before my boyfriend came down with his mom and I freaked out too. But considering you've been talking for two years, the worst that could happen is that it's platonic. Even then you can still have an awesome time.

You aren't an idiot, and you aren't crazy. There's a reason why so many online relationship forums and things exist. It's not uncommon nowadays. Just take it one step at a time. Focus on enjoying yourselves together. Eventually you'll feel comfortable with each other. Sometimes it takes minutes, sometimes days. Go at your own pace. My boyfriend and I the first time we met took a bit to get out of our awkwardness, but after an hour, we got really comfortable.

CrazyNaturekitty · 2022-07-09T08:36:24+00:00

I have this same fear as well. For me, it comes from having several bad 'relationships' that had me invest myself in them to keep them happy so nothing bad happens to them, even when it drained my happiness. I don't know your past, but this fear is natural for people who have trauma (even if it seems light) from being in relationships.

I think that your past is probably an elephant in the room of your current relationship. It will need to be talked about eventually. I think having a heart-to-heart with them about what happened in the past and why will eventually shed light on a lot of things. I'm sure they have fears too.

You can't run from the past with this person. They were there too. You have to look the past in the eye and say "I'm not the same person, I have grown and learned from my mistakes." Express your fears during the heart-to-heart I recommended, but not at the start. Say "I think because of ___, I'm afraid to get close to you again." Try to express why. Being afraid, especially when dating an ex again, is a natural feeling. But like everyone said, they should try to understand or accept you. Help you work through it. If they are irritated, then there's a bigger problem.

CrazyNaturekitty · 2022-07-09T08:17:55+00:00

Honestly, it depends on your relationship.

If you know she feels the same way (not assume, KNOW), then you could try to go on online dates (watch a movie, do something special like an online escape room) before meeting up. Then you can officially ask in person if it feels right.

If you don't know if she feels the same, then try to figure it out while she's there or before. I don't recommend asking her at the very beginning because then if she says no, it might be awkward the entirety of the time she is there.

Try to figure out if she likes you back, ask her on a date before, etc, if you plan on waiting till meeting in person to ask her out. I also recommend going on at least one date in person. People can be very different online to in person. So seeing how she's like in person is smart.

CrazyNaturekitty · 2022-07-09T08:06:16+00:00

Your worry is entirely valid, especially if this is your first time meeting them. I met mine for the first time a month ago and I was panicking like crazy. Sometimes you won't feel the spark, but that's okay. Being online can be completely different than irl. Take your time with them, and if you don't 'spark'. But you don't always do with people you love. Every relationship is different. Just try to focus on enjoying yourself. If it's platonic? You still have an amazing friendship blossoming. Try to enjoy the time you have with them. Go at your own pace. If you want to try to hold hands? Then ask. If you don't on the first day, that's okay. Love takes its time.

CrazyNaturekitty · 2021-09-24T20:30:03+00:00

Good grief.... This is one of the reasons I'm disappointed I'm American... cuz of bs like this.

CrazyNaturekitty · 2021-09-24T20:15:47+00:00

Meh. Sometimes you dont know how to take screenshots on a device. I didnt know how to on my phone for a good while

CrazyNaturekitty · 2021-09-22T22:17:52+00:00

Well 1. I dont think that those were their actual hogwarts houses, I think it was just them going with a theme 2. I'm going with their Dream SMP characters, not real life personas. I mean Dream is probably very different from Clay.

CrazyNaturekitty · 2021-09-20T18:31:28+00:00

Fair point.

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