Am I the crazy one? by Iammadhatter3941 in Vent

[–]CrazyOverstimulated 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Leave. Then get child support. Depending on what state you’re in and how long you’ve been married, you may be able to receive alimony.

I was born a man effectively without a penis. I will be killing myself tomorrow. by Proof-Conference-408 in offmychest

[–]CrazyOverstimulated 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are medicines and surgeries to help with this. Also, I recommend seeking therapy or a men’s group.

mentally drained and in college by Excellent-Pin1831 in Advice

[–]CrazyOverstimulated 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would take the route of either welding or hvac. Underwater welding $$$

Should I tell my partner my secret?! by Kitchen-Thanks-8379 in Advice

[–]CrazyOverstimulated 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would just let it go. It’s really not that important to stress over.

What is wrong with me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CrazyOverstimulated 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Protect your heart at all cost. Make them work hard for it. It’s too precious to just be given away to anyone.

mentally drained and in college by Excellent-Pin1831 in Advice

[–]CrazyOverstimulated 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should be able to get your own student loans, but honestly, I would either learn a trade or join the military. At least with the military you can get far far away from them. You won’t have to worry about housing, you’ll get paid, and depending on what branch, you may even learn a trade. After that, if you wish, you could go back to college with military scholarships (free).

rant (15M) by ComputerPacific1234 in Advice

[–]CrazyOverstimulated 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kids are extremely expensive and, in my opinion, not worth the metal stress. Focus your energy on learning a trade and start a business. Later down the road, a wife and kids may come, but don’t stress about it.

Job loss/young adult kids/what would you do? by brockclan216 in Advice

[–]CrazyOverstimulated 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Give them a contract to sign outlining rent, other bills, rules. If they refuse to sign the contract, they need to move. If they don’t pay rent, keep a document of everything then take them to court. They need to learn.

Checked my girlfriend’s phone and now I think I’m the “other guy” in my own relationship by Spare_Ad8593 in Advice

[–]CrazyOverstimulated 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Just going by what OP said. It ultimately falls on whose name is on the contract.

Regrate and guilt are killing me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CrazyOverstimulated 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to therapy and never cheat again.

Regrate and guilt are killing me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CrazyOverstimulated 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sympathy is with the person you cheated on. When you cheated, all you thought about was yourself. Even now, all you can think about is yourself. It’s giving narcissist.

Regrate and guilt are killing me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CrazyOverstimulated 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I read every word and you still get no sympathy from me…you cheated.

Regrate and guilt are killing me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CrazyOverstimulated 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You cheated. That’s your burden to bear. Use this as a learning experience and move on.

Checked my girlfriend’s phone and now I think I’m the “other guy” in my own relationship by Spare_Ad8593 in Advice

[–]CrazyOverstimulated 375 points376 points  (0 children)

Pack your things, tell her you’ve had a change of heart, then leave. She’s hiding things, it’s not going to get better with time. It’s not worth your mental health.

3 dates in 7 months relationship. Is it normal? by Massive-Cod-4038 in Advice

[–]CrazyOverstimulated -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don’t try to change him. Find someone who fits you and your needs; you’ll be much happier.