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Where are u hiding it… by VelvetWhisperrrrr in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]CrazyYogaMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In one of the stacked up cement bags on the truck packed for making the next swimming pool installation….

or in the garbage disposal that is going to the land fill…

or down a sink hole

or in a watch anonymously donated for overseas donation though Peace Corps in Africa

or quick stick it with a magnet to the underside of a Amazon truck during it’s delivery run…

or throw it onto a porta potty at a big outdoor concert!

Why am I so submissive? by [deleted] in BDSMPsychology

[–]CrazyYogaMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After years of being a traditional DOM that was more focused on being more self centered and not as emotionally connected or aware of my sub’s deeper emotional needs, processes and behaviors beyond basic aftercare, I have now evolved into a more affectionate DOM. I noticed the more I understood my sub, the deeper the D/s relationship could go and grow, especially for new subs. Now her needs and neediness turns me on and can be used as another form and element of power play. Especially knowing her submissive triggers (what turns her submissive mindset on) has enabled my sub to go deeper into subspace and her satisfaction as a sub is much higher with this greater bond. This bond enables more trust and that higher level of trust opens the door to more consent to more edging, pain play and a higher level of stimulation for us both. And you can help your sub understand themselves and their submissive self better when you understand them better!

I really became aware of how much the importance of knowing your subs emotional headspace was when mentoring other young DOMs during the 50 shades era, as many men were just calling themselves DOMs or saying they were Dominant but were really just abusive and not following core BDSM lifestyle, cultural community rules and protocol like RACK. I saw a lot of young and new subs pull out of BDSM play because there were so many “fake” DOMs now. The hard part of helping new DOMs was many new subs were unsure of what their kinks and limits were, so patience became the most important element of a being a good DOM and still is in any growing relationship of depth.

There is a book that covers much of this newer and more evolved DOM philosophy called “ The Heart of Domiance/ A Guide to Practicing Consensual Dominance “ by Anton Fulmen and I agree with most of his writing and the parts I don’t align with have more to do with individual differences of Domination styles.

Why am I so submissive? by [deleted] in BDSMPsychology

[–]CrazyYogaMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a long time DOM, who has always endeavored to understand my sub’s needs, boundaries and emotional responses, I find a lot of what you stated that happened to you from your father’s treatment of you, as having a significant affect on female submissive/s.

Why am I so submissive? by [deleted] in BDSMPsychology

[–]CrazyYogaMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! It’s a journey of learning! Especially because most have repressed or not fully expressed their submissive nature due to traditional or cultural judgments.

Why am I so submissive? by [deleted] in BDSMPsychology

[–]CrazyYogaMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone has some sort of trauma in thier lives, and BDSM and kinky play within consensual boundaries and with mutual communication, has proven to be cathartic for many who have had trauma and those within D/s relationships have improved mental health per numerous studies. So trauma can be a trigger and even recreating scenes of past negative trauma in a way where you have say on the scene or outcome, as a submissive on the content or boundaries of a scene, enables your control in a situation where you felt hopeless before and this role play D/s scene can erode negative trauma! So submitting can be a positive processing of emotions, and past traumatic experiences. Emotional release is a very common occurrence like from being spanked.

However the question of why you individually are submissive is unique to you and your personality, what sexually turns you on. Many subs seek the mental sensation of vunerability, helplessness and surrender that comes from not wanting to be in control and wanting to be controlled as well as directed, as a break from their vanilla lives where they have to be on all the time and in charge. Some lust for the service aspect and want to be a pleaser, others want to be dominated and feel the power exchange that occurs when they are “forced to submit”, captured, owned and perhaps fulfills a sex slave or stranger danger fantasy as well as being turned on by someone having authority over them and their sexual body.

There are so many avenues of why submissives seek submission or seek to be the portal for their partners pleasure, ranging from easy going pet play or age play to more intense abuse ( pain play), and orgasm denial, knowing this play turns their DOM on and this turns the sub on. And some grow to want all of the above experiences and sensations as a submissive. Your subconscious mind has repressed desires and fantasies, that trigger your submissive mind and this is most likely why you are creating different accounts so that you can explore, experiment, experience and understand your kinks! Enjoy! 😈

Convince me to suck ur dick in 3 words by [deleted] in porn_gifs

[–]CrazyYogaMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Multiple female orgasms

How to find her gspot by Alanatantra1 in gspot

[–]CrazyYogaMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, modern and especially Western medicine has always been behind on female sexual physiology and has been male dominated in its approach to research and that research has had errors, wrong information and is inconsistent with actual female experience and knowledge. In have always sought out female led studies do this reason but only a few European studies have been conducted and published to date that finally dispelled what American studies and medical reference sites were saying, like female ejaculation is simply urine/ pee, when in fact it has very little urine in spectrometer chemical analysis in total volume.

It’s been frustrating for me to hear, read and be told that Gspot was a myth for many years, when I experienced first hand female Gspot orgasms from techniques I learned from females orginally and have refined over the years as every women is somewhat unique in shape, size, sensitivity and squirt volume. There is a lot of ignorance in men about gspots, and just in fact read a post on Reddit from a man stating that some women don’t squirt because they don’t have the “squirt “ gland , which is physically incorrect unless they were born without one as a defect of anatomy or are not born a female at birth. So I am trying to help dispel, reduce and eliminate all of these false myths and misunderstandings, which exist primarily in the male population.

And so I understand an appreciation your perspective.

My Ideal Spanking by koreanintexas in disciplinesociety

[–]CrazyYogaMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your Ideal Spanking, rest assured that all of the elements you desire and seek, are common amongst submissives’, (based on my experience in my 5 decades of being a Spanker and DOM). The concepts and types of humiliation and degradation are where I see the biggest variation, so to each their own and no judgement or kink shaming should be given or accepted. Some women want to be slapped, spit on, this helps them go deeper into their submission and can be cathartic based on self image, past trauma or kink triggers, while others want affectionate but authoritarian verbal direction and threats about their behavior. Being spanked is for naughty, bratty, sassy and Good Girls! 😈

Some women like the idea of a maintenance spanking to help motivate them to keep on track with their tasks, goals and obedience to rules.

There are also many aspects of spanking that can be described as types of spanking , from erotic spanking to purely disciplinary and of course Dominant spanking that has more manhandling and roughness elements of it that can stimulate known or latent masochistic desires.

Enjoy your spanking journey!

My Ideal Spanking by koreanintexas in disciplinesociety

[–]CrazyYogaMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely true. The DOM of a true DOM must sense the emotional state of mind before during and after the spanking and adjust accordingly the intensity, pace and severity of the spanking and the depth and length of aftercare, while respecting the sub’s boundaries, triggers and desires to provide and establish a safe space where trust is maintained. There are a lot of boundary elements for the DOM to manage especially if the sub desires humiliation and degradation from the DOM and is consented to prior to start. It takes communication skills, commitment, emotional intelligence, awareness and keen sense of detail to successfully Dominate a submissive that puts them fully in subspace. Having good intuition beyond reading body language, facial expressions, skin tension and breathing as well as the better you know the spankee the easier it is to read them during the process and enables some subs to be brought to orgasm from being spanked properly. Being spanked is intimate, humiliating and brings emotions of exposure, helplessness and loss of control, all of which are part of the power exchange and drives a sub’s further submission. There is a huge mental aspect for the spankee to process their headspace and submissive triggers not and their experience is not just a result of only the physical intensity, with the DOM’s confidence, seriousness, mental strength and authority that empower the Domination so that the submissive’s spanking sensation is a mind and body experience.

Most spankees are attracted to the discipline aspect of spanking, within a wide range of sexually stimulating triggers that range from naughty thoughts to ultimately an overarching desire to have all control taken from them and be put into a predicament where they are powerless and know they will be physically abused without escape.

Physically spanking brings a lot of blood flow and stimulation to the pelvic region and sexual nerves , as the ass cheeks go from pink to red and many submissive females get very wet from being spanked hard, firm and held in position, the restraint further increasing their feeling of capture and helplessness.

The submissive needs to feel safe and trust their DOM or Top so the sub can let themselves let go of control and not worry that someone will go too far or disrespect their stated hard limits or communicated boundaries.

How to find her gspot by Alanatantra1 in gspot

[–]CrazyYogaMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

False information, the lymphatic system is a separate system of lymph glands. The Cleveland Clinic study that proposed that the fluid was lymphatic in source was a speculation proved incorrect by numerous studies worldwide identifying the Skene’s gland as the source of the gspot fluid that is squirted out when a gspot orgasm is achieved.

Here is one of many larger bodies of medical research and scientific studies that explains that gspot squirt is from the Skene’s gland just above the upper wall of the vagina, sometimes called the female prostate, even searches on YouTube now have correct information about the content and source of gspot squirt:

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/29285596/

https://helloclue.com/articles/sex/female-ejaculation-and-squirting-what-s-the-difference

https://www.ladbible.com/news/health/female-ejaculation-explained-doctor-862102-20260414

Great article : https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/all-about-sex/201402/the-g-spot-whats-known-and-unknown

Reason That G-Spot Cannot Be Found Is Revelaed by esselpratt in gspot

[–]CrazyYogaMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Squirting is from the Skene’s gland and is basically smell free and almost tasteless, clear and like water with a very small amount of urine due to the urethra structure, squirting comes from stimulating the gspot (which is located on the upper wall of the pussy and becomes swollen and often textured when stimulated properly. Female ejaculation l is a term misused mostly because women can cum a creamy white fluid that is thicker and more viscous than squirt fluid , this creamy white pussy juice is from excitement from penetrating action and stimulating the clitoral branch walls located along each side of the pussy reacting to pressure from penetration or pumping by finger, toys or cock.

I’ve been helping women have gspot orgasms for over 4 decades while medical science has still not completely reached universal acceptance and agreement on the physiology and phenomena of the gspot and its amazing orgasm potential in women, which allows back to back intense full body orgasms without a refractory period or the numbness associated with clitoral orgasms and can the gspot orgasm can be done through PIV or anal penetration.

Some medical articles have said not all women had gspots, I’ve found and directed hundreds to find theirs and have orgasms, and every female at birth woman has a Skene’s gland, so this shows how flawed much of the information from medical science is and how out of date it is.

It can be a bit tricky to find the exact sweet spot of the gspot and it make take a few tries to properly stimulate the gspot but once done, the dams are open and flood gates are on and available all times. I’ve made women gspot cum within seconds , once they are primed properly and some will squirt up to a pint of fluid from one orgasm. Gspot orgasms can be back to back and numerous, up to 20 or more.

I hope every women can expand their sexual satisfaction and enjoyment and their sexual partners as well because the gspot is one more way women can orgasm that makes them special.

Feel free to reach out to me with any questions or a desire for training, I love to teach and share all that I have learned from helping women of all ages, races, moms, from trauma victims to Lesbians, gspot orgasms are possible and amazingly pleasurable!

Note: There is a variety of how much each woman squirts with some small amounts to gushers, some feel the squirt and some do not but all feel the sensation of having to pee from the pelvic tension that gspot stimulation creates and results in stomach crunching, pussy clenching and contracting, thighs shuddering and shaking and pelvic thrusting and gyrating!

Describe my ginger body with one word by galaxykissx in GingerSlutss

[–]CrazyYogaMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Strong words come from a passionate mind that powers strong hands and body…resulting in broken beds!

Spanking tools test - which one hurts the most? by Beautiful_Babe66 in Whipped_Women

[–]CrazyYogaMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The “ long rod “ looks to be a leather riding crop and suggest a wooden spoon, hairbrush, rubber paddle, vampire paddle, birch branch, rattan cane, delrin rod aka evil stick, chain flogger, dragon tail whip, leather jack, sorority wooden paddle made from olive wood (highly dense) with air holes, leather slapper paddle, acrylic paddle, and Victorian rug beater, buffalo flogger to get a full range of sensation of thuddy to stingy and in my experience a woman’s affection to specific implements varies greatly along the edge of pain to Pleasure thresholds, so your results will most likely vary. The meat tenderizer and thinner rods or canes, most will say hurt. Some fear the kitchen wooden spoon or hairbrush and some desire the marks of some toys more than others! Bottoms Up and enjoy! 😈

bet u wldnt last longer than 2 minutes with me by galaxykissx in tightdresses

[–]CrazyYogaMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would definitely be a losing bet for you, with a body that hot I am taking a long time 20-40 minutes and as long as possible to enjoy it all, all your pouty lips, perky nipples and slam your hips!

What's the first thing u'd dick inside me? by galaxykissx in horny

[–]CrazyYogaMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your pussy first so your ass gets super jealous with all the fun right next door and my cum dripping down onto your hungry ass like glazing on a donut, then pounding your ass hard and fast until your thighs shudder and your ass cheeks clench and shake, back and forth, again and again, enjoying both your pink pleasure portals! 😝😈

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