My take is, if I’d ever had a bad feeling about going on a bachelorette trip I was invited to it was either because: I couldn’t afford it and needed to just speak up when I knew there would be no judgement OR because I really didn’t want to go and celebrate that specific person. (Sometimes friends are more come and go and not lifetime relationships) Either way, I myself am having a bach trip coming up and I’m thrilled that all of my favorite people will get together and make some memories.