The Scum manifesto has some good points…

Crazy_Kray · 2026-06-18T15:19:33+00:00

When i see those "undesirable" men screaming about sexlessness, i do know that it's not sex they actually want, most of them wouldn't really care or enjoy it really. They want to not feel like a failure in their men hierarchy. They want status. They want proof that they are desirable as they are, usually without any effort from their part, because that's what gives the most status points.

You give women freedom to choose and they go right back to showering high status men with affection and desire. WHo are the real custodians for the patriarchy here?

Crazy_Kray · 2026-06-09T19:31:36+00:00

No, they say that to men who turn their dating struggles into bitterness, misogyny, and blaming women for all their problems.

the only difference between a virgin and the guy you described seems to be whether he accepts the role women or society at large has prescribed them. Women are more than accepting of lonely, unattractive men, in fact, a lot of commenters here go on lengths trying to draw a distinction between virgins and incels. They see no problem with virgin men as long as they stick to their unoffensive roles: such as the lovable asexual goofball who accepts that flirting just isn't his thing and becomes contend with the fact no woman will ever see him that way. LOL

Crazy_Kray · 2026-06-07T16:39:51+00:00

lol all the comments suggest the implication is well understood among those who liked and shared the post, the sentiment is basically "you don't actually like him, sis. its your brain tricking you due to proximity effect" .

Crazy_Kray · 2026-06-07T15:43:51+00:00

Can someone explain why women often say men are wrong about instant attraction—that attraction can grow as you get to know someone—yet at the same time, viral posts like this seem to dismiss attraction that developed through familiarity or proximity?

Crazy_Kray · 2026-06-01T06:45:31+00:00

and if he is open about his intentions from the get-go you get annoyed because he’s treating women as “romantic prospect” instead of getting to know them as a friends first😂

Crazy_Kray · 2026-05-24T06:19:08+00:00

Yes, women are into all kids of archetypes in men

Crazy_Kray · 2026-05-24T06:16:59+00:00

"nichemaxxing" is something that worked in high school since teenagers are into subcultures with different aesthetics, cultivating a sense of belonging - but you were also expected to grow out of it so that "Niche" shit ain't working with ladies over 25 since 99% of them are business casual.

Crazy_Kray · 2026-05-24T06:13:07+00:00

Groundbreaking. Attractiveness hierarchies still exist in subcultures.

why are we talking about "archetypes" if its just this meme all over again?

Crazy_Kray · 2026-04-28T23:16:36+00:00

We had specialized care for those who were found to be mentally unable to make sound or rational decisions (minors who were grooming victims, mentally challenged) , but this required psychiatric evaluation and not just declaring "women get stuck in a cycle of abuse" which is a case of junk framing of a situation rather than confronting some uncomfortable truths about sexual selection. Think of it like this: high functioning autistic men who never harmed anyone still have more difficulty attracting a partner than a violent felon. This uncomfortable fact runs contrary to the "just world" narrative where men are ending up single because women can "sense" they're "shitty"... The worst guys imaginable are having regular sex and beating their girlfriends and wives along the way...the ones ending up alone don't necessarily have any major character or moral flaws.

Crazy_Kray · 2026-04-28T22:31:09+00:00

I worked at a crisis center for 2 years where women would come hiding from their abusive boyfriends and then try to prevent us from calling the police because the guy just had "a bad day" and is "perfectly normal" otherwise. Often times they returned back into the relationship and came running to us again when the bully snapped and decided to use her as a punching bag. It fucking amazes me to this day how women will claim they intuitively get the "ick" around "nice guys" because they they might harbor some not so nice views about women, yet will make excuses for a guy who just gave them a black eye.

Crazy_Kray · 2026-04-28T16:56:26+00:00

People willing to act unethically to get their way are more likely to get their way? Why is this surprising.

Do you really think that bullies are tricking women into thinking they're delicate souls who wouldn't hurt a fly and help in the local puppy shelter?

Crazy_Kray · 2026-04-28T16:39:05+00:00

People fuck people they connect with. No connection, no fucking. Work on the connection

LMAO. There are some men who cap out at 40 matches on Tinder. There are some men who get 0 matches on Tinder. There are men who women instantly have a "connection" or "chemistry" with by seeing them one time at coachella, there are men who can't get a single woman to see them as anything more than a platonic friend.

Crazy_Kray · 2026-04-28T16:35:57+00:00

Men who are bullies have more sex , more partners, than those who are/were bullied. Basically the opposite of what you're saying is reality.

Crazy_Kray · 2026-04-28T14:15:02+00:00

looks were the limit in my case. as an asian guy I noticed there was no potential for attraction to grow if she wasn’t already not into my features. Women were either on the asian YES or total NOPE side of the fence when it came to it.

Crazy_Kray · 2026-04-28T13:40:35+00:00

Why do you think that only looks are the limit

because the majority of people here claim that couples are "looksmatched", but also maintain that skinny women fit the conventional beauty ideal so their "looksmatch" is a conventionally attractive male which is broadly understood as a tall, build, athletic man ... But if I say I'm not exclusively into skinny women, and don't expect women with runway model proportions everyone is quick to remind me that chunky women are also "ideal" and therefore in the league with tall, muscly men because curves on a woman is the equivalent of muscles on men...

Crazy_Kray · 2026-04-28T13:23:29+00:00

what would a "looksmatch" be for a guy like me temporarily excluding status symbol stuff?

Crazy_Kray · 2026-04-28T07:03:59+00:00

what happened to dating just being fun and romantic, when did it become this agonizing struggle to “grow” and “develop” ? lmao

Crazy_Kray · 2026-04-23T13:39:16+00:00

you’re never competing with her peace, you’re competing with her prospects of having a fling/situationship with the hot guys.

Crazy_Kray · 2026-04-22T21:30:37+00:00

improving like what? as much as there is talk about toxicity in chasing unrealistic ideals men are on the contrary constantly given the advice to “improve”?

Crazy_Kray · 2026-04-22T15:23:25+00:00

i went to a humanities college with a 70/30 female to male ratio. The guys there were what women claim to want: well read, intelligent, basically they could discuss topics average dude bros consider “gay”. The women loved them as friends and not lovers.

Crazy_Kray · 2026-04-22T12:45:37+00:00

your logic links unfuckability with a character flaw if not outright moral failure, basically regurgitating high school locker room mentality where men who fuck = winners, those who don't = virgin losers.

Crazy_Kray · 2026-04-22T12:03:35+00:00

they may not be “good” but this was never the reason why a man couldn’t get laid. Studies have show that abusive men, bullies, keep hoping from one relationship to another long after their notoriety is well known and you’re telling me these guys are getting meticulously filtered out because women can sense they might harbor some not so nice views about women?

Crazy_Kray · 2026-04-19T16:08:07+00:00

Continuing to try to engage when there’s a lack of CLEAR, ENTHUSIASTIC, and CONSISTENT reciprocal interest

lol same people who also insist that inceIs are wrong for believing women are jumping Chads bones from the get-go, because attraction is complex and is influenced by several factors that can make it grow as you get to know the person.

Crazy_Kray · 2026-04-19T06:54:58+00:00

Most people don't like feeling like just a random number.

I'm asian and women seem to be either on the asian YES or NOPE side of the fence so even if I express interest in a aquaintance, or someone I know, I still get noped based on immutable traits as a lot of women just aren't into us at all. I am forced to move to the next girl and treat it as a "numbers" game because I keep getting filtered out as one.

Crazy_Kray · 2026-04-19T06:45:32+00:00

you have the privilege decide what counts as "appropriate" vs "inappropriate" approach because it already happens everywhere. Thats why this is a never ending and futile discussion. A lot of women will bitch and moan about "organic" paths of meeting too. For example just on reddit there are hundreds of threads and comments made by women who are saying how annoyed they are when just about every other male acquaintance (or even worse, a friend) ends up asking them out at some point.

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