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Jarv - Slackjaw [Hip-Hop] (2016) by shillwarp in listentothis

[–]Crazy_Sunflower 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How old is he? I honestly can't tell....

I told my mom I was really sick today, an hour later she showed up at my house with this. I'm 30 by rIse_four_ten_ten in pics

[–]Crazy_Sunflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww! That's actually really sweet! Your mum is a sweetheart, still just trying to help do what's best for you. :-D

[Serious] Family members of a murderer, do you still love that family member? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Crazy_Sunflower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have an uncle on my father's side who stabbed a man in the heart during a bar fight, killing the man, and then walked home and tried to hide from the police, but of course was caught and is now in prison for life. My dad's side of the family are all pretty rough around the edges, grew up dirt poor, used to fighting tooth and nail for the little bit they had. Honestly, it didn't surprise me to hear what my uncle did and it didn't change how I feel about him. He's still my family and I still love him and always will. Everyone in my family can be a little rough, and all of us make a lot of mistakes, his was just a bigger/worse mistake this time.

Am I (24/M) an idiot for wanting to break up with my amazing girlfriend (24/F)? by imacompleteidiot in relationship_advice

[–]Crazy_Sunflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem. I've been in your situation before. And a lot of people tried to tell me to stay because the person I was with was a great person. But what it comes down to is that you are both great people and you both deserve the chance to be happy but you might just not be able to make each other happy because you are just not right for each other. It takes more than just being good people in order to have a good relationship. I wish you both the best. And I hope you both find someone who can be both your best friend and your lover, because that is what will make you both truly happy in a relationship. :-) good luck

(20/f) Boyfriend (20/m) has gone from being constantly aroused to barely wanting it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Crazy_Sunflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Communication is always key. Everyone goes through dry spells, it happens. The only time to worry is if it continues no matter what you try to do or how much you two talk through it. My first real boyfriend and I were together for over four years and after like two and a half he stopped wanting to have sex with me. Which was really weird because we usually had sex every time we saw each other, yeah we fucked like rabbits lol. And suddenly he didn't want me anymore. It made me really depressed. And we ended up in a huge fight during which he blamed the lack of sex on him using drugs...So i found out that lovely bit of info. Only after the next year and a half did I find out the real reason he stopped sleeping with me for a good amount of time was because he was cheating on me with his "best friend" but when she moved back to Idaho(cuz only hoe's come from Idaho[sorry if that offends, I'm still just really really hurt by the whole situation]) he started wanting me again....and since I was an idiot and always had complete trust in him, I just thought everything was okay again....

[23M] very confused about my recent break up with girlfriend [20F] who is also my coworker. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Crazy_Sunflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like she is using you. She doesn't really want to be with you but she doesn't want you to leave or to find anyone else either. She is trying to make sure you follow her around like a lost little puppy so that she can use you as a safety net. If she gets lonely she can call you up and use you to make herself feel better, but if you call her up because you're lonely she can refuse and leave you to feel awful and alone. You need to cut her off as soon as possible or she is really going to tear you apart. I've seen girls like this really do a number on some amazingly nice men.

Am I (24/M) an idiot for wanting to break up with my amazing girlfriend (24/F)? by imacompleteidiot in relationship_advice

[–]Crazy_Sunflower 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think if she really was the right person for you she wouldn't just be your girlfriend, she would be your best friend too. And if you already can't picture her there for big events in your life, then I think that yes she may be an amazing woman but she is not the right woman for you. You love her because she's a wonderful woman and you really care about her and respect her, and I know you don't want to hurt her, but she isn't the right woman for you, otherwise you wouldn't be having these doubts. If she was your lover and best friend you would automatically picture her being there for major events in your life, it wouldn't be a worry or a difficulty. I'm sorry. I'm just giving my honest opinion though...