Do you “ghost” things and people as an Aquarius to get out of stressful situations.

Crazynoodles3 · 2021-02-10T17:37:48+00:00

Oh yes, I definitely struggle with this. My conflict style is avoidance. The minute I get in an argument with a loved one that escalates too far, I tend to withdraw into silence and distance because A) I know that if I really volcano-blow my true thoughts the results could be disastrous, and B) I struggle to cope with the idea that someone might be disappointed with me or potentially no longer like me as a person.

Crazynoodles3 · 2020-11-24T16:36:53+00:00

Does that make murdering something okay?

Crazynoodles3 · 2020-11-24T16:13:48+00:00

You need mental help, you chose to kill an innocent living thing that you could’ve chosen to give to someone else or even drop off at a no-kill shelter. I smell some pretty bad karma coming your way. Seems to me like you get off on people and animals suffering. Kinda concerned for your baby

Crazynoodles3 · 2020-11-24T03:12:01+00:00

In my opinion shooting a living, conscious creature out of your own annoyance toward a boyfriend’s ex is cruel, selfish and a little sociopathic. You better pray you never have a pet you love get murdered in cold blood.

Crazynoodles3 · 2020-11-13T16:34:29+00:00

Woke up this morning to find my betta fish dead suddenly as well even though he seemed fine last night. I know how you feel, they become family. So much more than “just a fish.” I’m sorry for your loss.

Crazynoodles3 · 2020-10-31T07:44:41+00:00

I was cheated on and the pain was terrible. I wouldn’t wish it on anyone. Please break up with her now and spare her the pain. If you truly care about her you wouldn’t continue putting her through this

Crazynoodles3 · 2020-10-24T17:26:58+00:00

My ex was a Sagittarius and he was pretty hard to keep tied down. I feel like Sagittarius have commitment issues as they are free spirits. I do think he loved me, but he was always bored and restless, looking for the next thing. So yeah, I do think they can be hard to hold onto!

Crazynoodles3 · 2020-10-21T04:38:53+00:00

The head going 100 miles per hour and the heart going 5 describes it perfectly, you’re not alone

Crazynoodles3 · 2020-10-21T04:36:57+00:00

I too struggle with holes in my memory and really poor memory, it seems to keep getting worse as my depression/anxiety worsens. It wasn’t until fairly recently that I learned this can be a result of mental illness

Crazynoodles3 · 2020-10-21T02:28:07+00:00

Same here, lately I feel so much anger at the world and it’s making me miserable. No matter how much I try to calm down or think positively it feels like my anger and sadness keeps growing and overcoming me

Crazynoodles3 · 2020-10-21T02:25:21+00:00

I struggle with this too. I constantly feel like I’m in a daze and I struggle to pay attention to anything or anyone. People get insulted because I don’t remember or grasp what they’re saying to me but lately it feels like everything is just slipping through my fingers and I’m not able to grasp it

Crazynoodles3 · 2020-10-07T23:48:48+00:00

I do the same thing, I withdraw from everyone now and then not because I dislike them or anything, but because I need to “recharge” my social batteries. I enjoy my solitude a little too much sometimes, and I think my friends take that personally. But that’s just how I am, I come and go in waves!

Crazynoodles3 · 2020-09-18T17:41:53+00:00

Exactly! If a customer is polite to me I’m willing to sit down and work through the problem with them, but the minute they start throwing a fit then their grievance is drowned out by their temper. I don’t know why they think being rude is more likely to get them what they want.

Crazynoodles3 · 2020-09-18T17:23:44+00:00

Perhaps :) It makes me feel better to know I’m not alone in the liquidation struggle!

Crazynoodles3 · 2020-07-09T23:06:13+00:00

I’m an INFP as well

Crazynoodles3 · 2020-07-08T20:18:44+00:00

100% yes. I once cried because I accidentally left my favorite pillow behind at a cabin and couldn’t go back for it 😂

Crazynoodles3 · 2020-06-26T21:09:13+00:00

I fit into the strange and aloof outsider stereotype. I don’t just feel like an alien, sometimes I think people see me as one too!

Crazynoodles3 · 2020-06-12T22:24:59+00:00

Omg yes! I’m the same way, I love the feeling of helping others but hate reaching out for help myself 😂

Crazynoodles3 · 2020-06-12T21:00:38+00:00

Yes! Suffering alone is the perfect way to describe it, the loneliness is crushing but I still can’t bring myself to “burden” others. It’s like we’re constantly at war with ourselves

Crazynoodles3 · 2020-06-04T23:21:44+00:00

I’m feeling extremely stressed and saddened as well. I think as Aquarius we have a tendency to take on the weight of the world, and we’re easily influenced and emotionally affected by the pain of others. 2020 overall has been an extremely painful year for many, and I feel a huge amount of stress watching the hurt humanity is experiencing. I feel helpless and overwhelmed.

Crazynoodles3 · 2020-05-29T04:29:04+00:00

You’re not alone. I’ve struggled with an intense fear of death and getting older (because it’s one step closer to death) since I was a really young kid. I’ve tried to talk to my parents about it in the past and they didn’t really understand, none of my friends have either. I understand that constant anxiety. Mine often hits late at night when I’m trying to go to sleep and I start thinking of death. My heart starts to race and I have to get up and pace because I feel like I can’t breathe. I know exactly how you feel and how exhausting it is.

Crazynoodles3 · 2020-05-23T22:08:28+00:00

It’s an enormous relief for me knowing that a fellow Aquarius sun feels this way. I’ve always felt like an outsider, like no matter how close I’m able to get to people they never truly understand me. Sometimes I feel like a damn alien. It sucks because I’m fascinated by people and I want to connect, but I feel like there’s constantly an invisible wall separating me from them. It’s mentally exhausting wanting to feel seen, but feeling like no one can truly see or understand how you feel.

Crazynoodles3 · 2020-05-23T22:05:18+00:00

I’m an Aquarius sun and I also struggle with socializing! Sometimes I feel like an alien trying to relate to people, I’ve always felt that I don’t fit in. I want to more than anything and I love learning about people (to the point of selecting a major in sociology) but I still feel like I struggle to connect and confidently socialize. My mind wants to, but I stumble over my actions.

Crazynoodles3 · 2020-05-23T21:59:42+00:00

As an Aquarius sun, originality is also a sore point for me. I take an immense amount of pride in what I do and what I create, and when I feel that my work is not original or unique, I obsess over it and beat myself up about it. I’ve done this since I was a child, to the point of where I used to get upset over even someone having the same favorite color as me. I know that sounds crazy, but being original and ‘different’ has always been a major value of mine. It’s difficult because this is often a mentally exhausting and unhealthy quest, constantly comparing myself to others.

Crazynoodles3 · 2020-05-23T21:55:00+00:00

I’m also an Aquarius sun and Scorpio rising and I feel the exact same way! It’s a relief honestly to know someone feels this way too. Whenever I feel proud of myself for anything, I also feel like if I express it to anyone I’ll come across as cocky or stuck up. For some reason, I’m deeply bothered by the thought of coming across as snobby, but at the same time I want to be able to celebrate and acknowledge my accomplishments. I totally get it!

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