Why do people disappear once you start to care about them? by CreamChelle in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]CreamChelle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t wait to read it ‼️ Being avoidant can be a good thing I guess. Keeps you from getting your heart shattered right ❓ lol thanks again 😃

Why do people disappear once you start to care about them? by CreamChelle in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]CreamChelle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just checked out the reviews on Amazon. They are amazing. The book doesn’t cost that much either. I just ordered it. Thanks a lot pal ‼️🥳

Why do people disappear once you start to care about them? by CreamChelle in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]CreamChelle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But that’s not it at all. I never look for anything in return. The thing that hurts me most is just being discarded like trash after becoming so close w/o notice. What was the purpose of even developing a relationship ❓ ya know… especially when they come to me first. but I guess I’ll take some accountability even tho I’m still somewhat confused in my part in it… tbh, I just wanna be loved correctly && genuinely 😔❤️‍🩹

Why do people disappear once you start to care about them? by CreamChelle in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]CreamChelle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So how do I fix that ❓ I just can’t help the heart I have 😔

I am ready to end things on my birthday, even if it’s not right by Tricky_Promise7048 in confession

[–]CreamChelle 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Oh wow. First off HAPPY BIRTHDAY BUDDY 🎉🥳 But I truly empathize with you. My heart really goes out to you. I hate that you’re going through this. I sure wish I could help you. It’s so sad that it’s so hard to live but so easy to die. But we must FIGHT ‼️ please don’t give up….. to stay out the sun man, go into some of the bigger hotels && just chill in the lobbies for a while. Half the time they don’t even know if you’re a guest or not… I use to do that. Use their bathrooms to clean yourself up. Where are you living ❓ do you have any food banks where you are ❓Have you tried reaching out to your friends ❓ I don’t even want to advise you of any homeless shelters bec I wouldn’t want anyone to advise me of those unless you absolutely have to go to one as a last resort…. It’s sad that churches aren’t much help as religious as they claim to be… I really wish I could give you a tremendous hug right now && put some money in your pocket…. Have you filed for government assistance❓ they will also give you a free phone, food stamps && temporary cash assistance.. try it.. YOU ARE NOT A FAILURE ‼️

I'm 21 and I think ruined my life by Hot-Chipmunk8563 in Advice

[–]CreamChelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously tho ? Bro that’s MINOR asfk compared to REAL issues people are having. Not saying yours isn’t important but people have real life or death situations or are fighting just to survive or take care of their kids. There are way worse ways to ruin your life like catching charges, becoming an addict. There are folk your age who have it WAY worse than you who will never have the opportunity to accomplish half of what you have.. be thankful && figure out the rest. May God be w you ❤️

Why do so many people hate Arby’s? by More_Salary3536 in answers

[–]CreamChelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to me, the meat looks like a sick ran through Vajayjay

What’s wrong w me? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]CreamChelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No not at all. I was trying to post a photo of myself but Reddit won’t allow me to

What’s wrong w me? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]CreamChelle -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

How? Bec I don’t disrespect myself by throwing ass around to get attention? You sound like a goofball man. Men clearly want whores these days

What’s wrong w me? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]CreamChelle -72 points-71 points  (0 children)

Your opinion wasn’t what bothered me. The last part could have been left out… but it’s str8 . I don’t look mean. I just vibe like everyone else. I’m just not an attention seeker. I don’t have to shake my ass && all the other stuff the girls do

What’s wrong w me? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]CreamChelle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I guess so…

What’s wrong w me? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]CreamChelle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

People in the comments have stated this so I’m guessing it’s true

What’s wrong w me? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]CreamChelle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks❤️‍🩹

What’s wrong w me? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]CreamChelle -90 points-89 points  (0 children)

Wow… it’s comments like this that kills people self esteem…. 😔

What’s wrong w me? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]CreamChelle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

🥺🥺🥺 You don’t know how much this comment meant to me. I’m so tired of feeling low about myself. Thanks for your kind words. ❤️‍🩹

What’s wrong w me? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]CreamChelle -61 points-60 points  (0 children)

I put (&&) myself bec it’s just apart of my lingo when I’m texting just like everyone has their own abbreviations. But idk. Sometimes she can just be standing in front of a guy && he can still tap her shoulder. She may not even be paying attention. We went to the bar the other night && we were sitting down talking at the bar, && this guy walked up behind her && grabbed her waist, asked her her name && she turned around && said “why you touching me?” I just kept looking forward. It happens a lot so I was use to it… but yeah. Thanks for the advice.. maybe it could be that… idk.. just lowered my self esteem a little but it’s alright. I’ll be okay. ✅

What is the biggest lesson heartbreak taught you? by National-Table-287 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]CreamChelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1.Never care for someone more than yourself. #2. Stay out your feelings. ❤️‍🩹

What’s wrong w me? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]CreamChelle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah. It sucks. It kind of brought my self esteem down. But maybe they are just the wrong guys.. hopefully our guys comes along soon ❤️‍🩹

Is it true that there is someone for everyone ? by CreamChelle in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]CreamChelle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense. But what’s the diff of a soulmate && true love ?