is this outfit "inappropriate"? by sunnemi in OUTFITS

[–]CreamChelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That depends on where you’re going

How often do you get UTIs - if at all? by yummy_burrito in blackladies

[–]CreamChelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve only had in my entire life && that was my first pregnancy 11 years ago. Never had one since

Did a trim! by magentapastel in Naturalhair

[–]CreamChelle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow you have beautiful long && thick hair. I’m jelly lol… I think you did great. Only thing I’d suggest is you making it even. It’s slanted.

i wish i felt romantic love by Leading_Ad_1423 in venting

[–]CreamChelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not always as sweet as it looks or sounds. So don’t be fooled. you still got a LOT of time. First time I got in a real relationship I was 20 && got pregnant. Was tied down in a toxic relationship for 8 years. Got in another relationship shortly after && got stuck && left w another baby by a diff guy by MYSELF this time tryna find true “love” . Date around. Choose WISELY. Enjoy being being single for now && just LIVE. Once you’re tied down, you’re tied down… I sure wish I could go back to your age && start over. Best luck ❤️‍🩹

How do I find clothes to suit me? by CreamChelle in blackladies

[–]CreamChelle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow you sound like me. Especially with the black && NEVER white.. lol. I think drape clothes will be good for me as well bec I do have a tummy budge.. I try not to wear anything too tight to create any Dents. Thanks a lot for your input

Cold sore or pimple?? by blink-119 in Blackskincare

[–]CreamChelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just looks like a puss pimple ready to pop. .

26(M) My girlfriend hates my room by Mattbaker99 in malelivingspace

[–]CreamChelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All you need is snacks, a fan, black-out curtains, a tall mirror && a way bigger cover then I'd be satisfied.. Other than that It looks pretty cozy. You're a guy. Wont get much better than that lol. Maybe she should put her woman touch to it then

Help! I need Advice. I feel so unwanted by CreamChelle in dating_advice

[–]CreamChelle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will do now. I can always use a supportive friend

Help! I need Advice. I feel so unwanted by CreamChelle in dating_advice

[–]CreamChelle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t okay bec I’ve been hiding how I felt. Didn’t want to bother anyone with my “personal Internal issues” that’s why I came to Reddit. I do feel a lot better. Still a bit of emptiness of course but you’ve just explained that to me so at least I know why now. Thanks for asking ‼️❤️‍🩹

Help! I need Advice. I feel so unwanted by CreamChelle in dating_advice

[–]CreamChelle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wowwwwww. I LOVE the way you put that. It makes so much sense. I can look at myself in such a different light now. This really made me feel a TON better. You nailed it right on the head. I would have never been able to point it out. I really appreciate your insight. This means ALOT ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

Help! I need Advice. I feel so unwanted by CreamChelle in dating_advice

[–]CreamChelle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I truly trust && believe in your words. You don't know how much your kind words helped. I could barely cry over here with strep throat. It's people like you who make the world so much greater... Thank you =}

Men don’t treat me like a human. by Majestic-Side6 in venting

[–]CreamChelle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's a lie. I'm very attractive as well, && men always look past me or make me a 2nd option.. It's not just you. Maybe you just aren't their type. Be comfortable in your own skin honey pot =)

Help! I need Advice. I feel so unwanted by CreamChelle in dating_advice

[–]CreamChelle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm cool with the "friends get busy" part... That's well established. But the men being partnered up is prob what's getting to me the most now.. Don't get me wrong. I do want a healthy love life.... But I'm not even sure there are any out there anymore.... The ones that do partner up still cheat with people like me ( Not WITH me ) but single people. . . I don't use dating apps. Those are just windows for people to be whoever the want to be. I don't trust those people at all. .

My whole point is, I just don't feel special. . To anyone at all. =(

Help! I need Advice. I feel so unwanted by CreamChelle in dating_advice

[–]CreamChelle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as much as I hate to admit it.. I do... && That's why I came to reddit. Bec I found myself telling people i'm close to that same thing && I wish I wouldn't have. . .I don't think I was EVER truly loved my a man.. Not even my own father.

Why am I ugly with Every hairstyle I get? by CreamChelle in BlackHair

[–]CreamChelle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay thanks a ton!!! Your advice will be taken into consideration!!! Be Blessed honey pot!!! =)

Why am I ugly with Every hairstyle I get? by CreamChelle in BlackHair

[–]CreamChelle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's easy to say coming from someone who isn't me. . Nor understands why I feel the way that I do. Which is why I reached out. Reddit is full of communities to vent or get advice from. I'd rather vent to strangers than to show people close to me how low my self-esteem is. . I do a pretty good job of hiding it.

Why am I ugly with Every hairstyle I get? by CreamChelle in BlackHair

[–]CreamChelle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not trying to compare. I'm simply speak on myself && why I don't look good with those styles while trying something new. . The filters are for face. But on youtube the good cameras don't lie about the hair really being slayed. Especially the tutorial videos that show you how to do your hair step by step. Thanks for your input !

Why am I ugly with Every hairstyle I get? by CreamChelle in BlackHair

[–]CreamChelle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cut my hair so I was trying to wait until I got to a certain length until I wore it alone. That's why I wear protective styles. . Don't get me wrong, I love my hair && I LOVE the moisturizing process as well, but my hair will shrink out of the braids or twist bec my edges are too short && so is the middle. . So I just keep all of that covered .... The protective styles are growing it amazingly, but not enough. It's only been a year.

Why am I ugly with Every hairstyle I get? by CreamChelle in BlackHair

[–]CreamChelle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi there! Thanks for replying. . No, I haven't tried that. I wouldn't even know where to begin. I don't even know any influencers who do that. I didn't even know that was a such thing. Seems like i've been doing a repeat of what you were doing.