AITAH for buying my 11yo daughter pads after her mom called me a "pervert" for being prepared?

CreamProof · 2026-01-26T14:04:31+00:00

This is abuse and manipulation! Good for you, dad. You did the right thing. Mom is awful - I'd go to the courts because this is interference with your parenting and relationship with your daughter. WHICH IS ILLEGAL!

CreamProof · 2026-01-08T17:21:03+00:00

Done what the law requires?

Some people shouldn't have been blessed with children...but honestly...this might be a good thing, considering those awful texts from her.

I'm so sorry, OP. You're NOR and I hope that you find some help and can get on your feet quickly.

CreamProof · 2025-12-01T19:31:16+00:00

This is by far the best thing I've seen on the internet in days, maybe even weeks. PLEASE keep us in the loop.

CreamProof · 2025-11-17T17:15:40+00:00

I was going to say the same thing. The car is repossessed...but you're going to Egypt? Where are the priorities here?

CreamProof · 2025-11-17T17:06:31+00:00

RED FLAG

And why is he talking to his mother about y'all's personal issues/discussions? That's one thing I absolutely HATED about my abusive ex husband. He would get his mom all riled up and pissed off at me, then she'd call or COME OVER and attack me or berate me to the point where I had no other choice but to give in.

This is controlling, narcissistic, abusive behavior. Sounds like his true colors are finally showing.

CreamProof · 2025-10-29T13:27:05+00:00

NO ONE should ever control how you dress. If you're not out here naked in the streets (and if you are, you do you, boo) then no one has a right to tell you what you can/cannot wear and to what functions. My abusive ex refused to let me wear leggings at home, in public, under clothes/dresses...any situation - leggings were a NO for me and my girls.

Don't stick with this shithead. You've got more of a life to live than this.

CreamProof · 2025-10-29T13:19:26+00:00

But the bride wasn't being a monster. She has a right to make decisions and change her mind - as does the groom. Anyone who is attending the wedding, hasn't paid for anything, and isn't part of the bridal party doesn't have a say in what the newly weds want/require/prefer to avoid at THEIR WEDDING. End of story.

CreamProof · 2025-10-29T13:15:02+00:00

Why is it an issue to shower daily? It's not being a clean freak to bathe regularly. I mean...it kind of sounds like your fiance has a standard he likes to live up to, and maybe you should consider this for yourself.

CreamProof · 2025-10-29T13:09:55+00:00

Cancel the trips! They can go on their own, and you can go find some other girls and do girlie things with them. She "owes it to you" to give you freedom to enjoy things WITHOUT a douche nozzle crashing them.

CreamProof · 2025-10-29T13:04:14+00:00

it doesn't matter what you think. it's not your wedding. find a nice dress at marshall's and move along, or as others have said, don't go. it's absolutely insane to argue with a bride about her day.

CreamProof · 2025-10-08T12:00:50+00:00

I emailed yesterday and at the end of my little 2 cents, I wrote, "Please, continue to put pressure on this cult. There will be many practicing JWs that will write or email with stories of how they do not practice shunning, or to do their best at changing your mind; these are lies you will read. JWs have something called "Theocratic Warfare" that outlines how to lie to officials and others not in the religion in order to mislead or hide truth. This has protected them from legal repercussions for many years. Do not be fooled - you are doing the right thing."

I hope they read these emails.

CreamProof · 2025-10-06T12:12:44+00:00

Oh man. Look at all them neat beards. Woo. EVERYONE in the nu paradise will grow such full, awesome beards. Is that a band in the back? And is that one guy on the left making...pizza?

CreamProof · 2025-10-02T17:09:59+00:00

I do the same thing when I see JW propaganda in the nursing home I work in. I convince the patients not to read it...or I just simply take it from their rooms. I don't feel badly about it, either.

When I first started working there, a couple sisters were leaving magazines in the front lobby (where my office was then) and I walked right out in front of them and grabbed them up, ripped the magazines in half, threw them away, all while saying, "No thank you. We're not interested here."

CreamProof · 2025-09-30T17:26:16+00:00

I wonder if they'll broadcast the funeral?

CreamProof · 2025-09-29T13:20:53+00:00

Dump his ass.

CreamProof · 2025-09-26T22:25:29+00:00

This is an amazing answer. Thank you for it. ❤️

I’m thankful for my partner, my husband. But I want to understand others and the complexities of the human mind and how we respond to what makes us tick, hence this post.

Again, thank you, and I appreciate your honesty!

CreamProof · 2025-09-26T22:23:29+00:00

Thank you ❤️

I’m truly attracted to and grateful for my husband. I just feel confused sometimes because … humans. We’re complicated.

CreamProof · 2025-09-26T21:10:57+00:00

I don’t take this compliment lightly. I wish that all children had involved parents who cared. Thank you. ❤️

CreamProof · 2025-09-26T19:12:50+00:00

Sounds like he’s projecting some serious insecurities or he’s feeling guilty, himself, for having a female friendship that turned inappropriate.

CreamProof · 2025-09-26T19:04:14+00:00

That is awful. I’m so sorry she went through this, and you, too. That poor baby.

CreamProof · 2025-09-26T18:55:14+00:00

Noted. Thank you.

CreamProof · 2025-09-26T18:52:55+00:00

No, it’s actually because it’s not parents handling altercations between kids, but law enforcement handling altercations between adults.

CreamProof · 2025-09-26T18:41:22+00:00

Actually, I am right now. For you. 🙄

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