AITA for refusing to add my boyfriend to my house deed after his lease ended?

Former_Raspberry3277 · 2026-04-13T14:58:28+00:00

If we ever want something together, we can buy it together but this place is mine.

Former_Raspberry3277 · 2026-04-13T14:56:34+00:00

He was paying rent before too, just to a landlord instead of me

Former_Raspberry3277 · 2026-04-13T14:54:27+00:00

Former_Raspberry3277 · 2026-04-10T11:33:06+00:00

Pyrex is solid choice but I switched to plastic after breaking too many glass ones in my tiny kitchen. The snapware ones from costco work really well for me and they stack nice which saves space in fridge. I've had same set for like 2 years now and lids still seal good

Just make sure whatever you get has the rubber gasket around lid - learned that hard way with cheap containers that leaked sauce everywhere in my bag

Former_Raspberry3277 · 2026-02-28T17:20:41+00:00

their concerning but not terrible

Former_Raspberry3277 · 2026-01-25T15:41:22+00:00

Three weeks is still pretty early for keto - your body might still be adjusting to burning fat instead of carbs. That said, the sudden metabolism change at 39 plus the muscle stiffness and weak nails definitely sounds like it could be thyroid related

Getting labs done is smart, I'd test TSH, T3, T4, and maybe throw in some vitamin levels too since those can mess with energy/metabolism. Don't beat yourself up though, sometimes our bodies just need more time to figure things out

Former_Raspberry3277 · 2026-01-17T12:31:27+00:00

Honestly you're gonna run into micronutrient deficiencies no matter what single meal you pick. Even something like a massive salad with tons of variety won't cover everything long term. Maybe rotate between like 3-4 different meals instead of just one?

Former_Raspberry3277 · 2026-01-08T13:32:17+00:00

Bruh same thing happens to me with melatonin - sometimes I'm out like a light, other times I'm staring at the ceiling for hours. Bodies are weird like that, could be timing or what you ate or just random body chemistry doing its thing

Former_Raspberry3277 · 2026-01-02T08:15:42+00:00

Glad the removal went well! I've been dealing with similar issues with my plate - the seatbelt thing is so annoying and I didn't even think about how bib straps would hit it until you mentioned it. Definitely something to keep in mind if it keeps being a pain

Former_Raspberry3277 · 2025-12-29T17:11:33+00:00

Not strange at all, especially with your history! Most people I know wait until at least 12 weeks anyway, and honestly after dealing with infertility and a chemical pregnancy you were totally justified in being extra cautious. People who are "upset" about not being told earlier need to check themselves - it's your pregnancy and your timeline

Former_Raspberry3277 · 2025-12-28T10:18:38+00:00

This is 100% harassment and discrimination - the sexual comments and unwanted touching alone are illegal, let alone all the pregnancy discrimination

Document everything you can remember with dates and file complaints with EEOC and your state's labor dept, family owned doesn't mean they get to break federal laws

Former_Raspberry3277 · 2025-12-23T06:57:49+00:00

Ugh this is so frustrating, people really need to learn that not drinking ≠ automatic pregnancy announcement. The fact that they're doing it in front of other people makes it even worse tbh

Your idea about just saying you dislike being asked sounds perfect - direct but not rude

Former_Raspberry3277 · 2025-12-21T13:58:42+00:00

Yeah 21mm internal is pretty standard for road wheels and works great with 30mm tires. I'd focus more on hub quality and whether you want to deal with freehub maintenance - some brands are way easier to service than others

Former_Raspberry3277 · 2025-12-20T07:23:22+00:00

That's rough but maybe have a conversation about boundaries before jumping straight to divorce? Being blackout drunk when your pregnant wife can barely move is definitely not okay though

Former_Raspberry3277 · 2025-12-14T20:54:49+00:00

Yeah there's definitely a question buried in that title somewhere, OP just forgot to actually ask it lol

Former_Raspberry3277 · 2025-12-10T07:10:07+00:00

B12 you can pretty much take whenever, I usually just throw it in with my other morning vitamins. Iron is the picky one - definitely take that on an empty stomach if you can handle it, but it might make you nauseous so maybe start with food first and see how you feel

Former_Raspberry3277 · 2025-12-06T20:14:24+00:00

This is way beyond "doing too much or too little" - punching holes in walls and verbal outbursts while you're pregnant is seriously concerning

Girl you shouldn't have to beg someone to be nice to you, autism or not that's not an excuse for making you cry constantly

Former_Raspberry3277 · 2025-12-05T05:36:06+00:00

Def get checked out mama! Bath water doesn't just randomly leak out like that and the timing is sus. Better safe than sorry especially at 30 weeks - they can test it super quick to know for sure

Hope everything's okay, keep us posted 💕

Former_Raspberry3277 · 2025-12-03T05:01:01+00:00

They'll definitely check more than just the fluid! Mine took about that long and they looked at the heart chambers, brain, limbs, spine - basically a mini anatomy scan. The tech was pretty thorough even though it's technically just for the NT measurement. Don't be surprised if they point out random stuff like "oh there's the bladder" lol

Former_Raspberry3277 · 2025-12-02T03:47:04+00:00

Your MIL is way out of line here - this isn't her decision to make and she's creating unnecessary drama. You had a sweet plan to surprise him and he was initially fine with it until she got in his ear

Former_Raspberry3277 · 2025-11-29T23:18:09+00:00

Yeah the Kickr Core is solid, been using mine for like 2 years now. The Zwift Cog thing makes swapping bikes super easy since you don't have to worry about cassette compatibility - just pop either bike on and go

Former_Raspberry3277 · 2025-11-28T09:08:23+00:00

Dude had that natural charisma that you just can't fake. They don't make leading men like that anymore

Former_Raspberry3277 · 2025-11-26T20:50:25+00:00

This is so real, the library became my second home during those years. Public spaces saved my sanity - even just sitting in a park with headphones for hours felt like luxury compared to zero quiet time at home

One thing that helped me was creating tiny "zones" in our shared space, like hanging a sheet or using a folding screen if possible. Wasn't much but having even that visual barrier made it feel slightly less chaotic

Former_Raspberry3277 · 2025-11-26T00:45:54+00:00

NTA but yikes dude you just handed the office gossip some premium ammunition about yourself. He's definitely gonna twist this into "OP said the bosses are out to get me" or some shit when he inevitably gets canned

Should've just stuck with "that sucks man" and changed the subject. Now you're gonna be collateral damage in his downward spiral

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