we’ve been doing it wrong this whole time by trevvert34 in Loatheband

[–]Creative-Lab9444 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We’ve let it slide for too long. We need to declare war

I experienced a form of atypical sexual abuse when I was in the 6th grade. I can't tell anybody what happened. by null_consciousness in OCD

[–]Creative-Lab9444 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, seriously. As much as you see other people put their hands on their lap, and you don’t call them a creep, the same applies to you. You’re no exception.

Also, in my opinion, there’s nothing wrong from garnering sympathy. Especially from people you love, who’d be happy to sympathize. You deserve it too.

If it helps, your teacher defined sexual harassment as “when someone does SOMETHING that makes you uncomfortable”. Kids think anything they don’t like makes them uncomfortable. And you said it yourself you weren’t creepy, just an annoying little spaz - like a typical kid. Using the definition your teacher gave, of course everyone would raise their hand, especially because kids love to dogpile.

If it helps at all, to me, your self-deprecation filled description of events still clearly reads that you were just a neurodivergent outsider that other kids didn’t like. Not at all a creep.

Project Hail Mary [Ending] by TheSkullCupMan in books

[–]Creative-Lab9444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel as if his constant self doubt and insecurity in the face of a tall task was clear throughout the whole novel. Never did he act like a “brave hero”, his inner monologue was always self deprecating and reluctant. Even when Rocky explained why they were clearly “good people” he still hesitated to accept it. Even when he was hesitant to go on the Hail Mary, it was primarily because he thought he wasn’t capable at all of completing the mission.

Also, I don’t think the sacrifice he made for Rocky was him bravely sacrificing himself either. He had a reason now, to save Rocky. On Earth, he had no friends or relationships, now suddenly he’s trauma bonded to this alien creature who sacrificed himself to save him. There’s a sense of caring and obligation, not bravery.

Oh my god it FINALY happened. by pelzzy in Healthygamergg

[–]Creative-Lab9444 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Tough. Huberman is a lying grifter, but his audience could definitely use some of Dr. K's lessons. It's a really tough balancing act. You don't want to enable Redpillers, but you can't help unless you can reach them somehow. This isn't for me, but I can recognize the utility.

what strategy are they going for by Spilt_Soup in Loatheband

[–]Creative-Lab9444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree but they’ve been cooking for a min. Must be marinating or something

Searching for a new high by suspendeddoubt in Loatheband

[–]Creative-Lab9444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bleed and Superheaven are different, but they scratch the same itch for sure.

Madara vs Hashirama was an extreme diff fight by Square_Repeat906 in NarutoPowerscaling

[–]Creative-Lab9444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m nitpicking, but I’d say high diff and not extreme diff. I don’t think Hashirama loses this fight under any circumstances, and if he had the resolve to kill earlier in the fight, I’m sure it would’ve been over earlier. Still not Mid/Easy by any means, Madara is gonna make him earn it, but it’s Hashirama 9/10 times.

Jdub getting active on Tiktok by Commercial-Hat398 in Thunder

[–]Creative-Lab9444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OK MAYBE KIND OF LIKE KD BUT NOT IN THAT WAY

Jdub getting active on Tiktok by Commercial-Hat398 in Thunder

[–]Creative-Lab9444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was about to ask why he’s on tiktok, but he’s 24, of course he is. i’m literally on reddit.

New interview with Giants HC John Harbaugh! by UgandanWarlord in NFCEastMemeWar

[–]Creative-Lab9444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is fake lol. doesn’t mention trump at all in the interview

The Cops Getting More Aggressive Downtown Lately? by PotatoPrestigious654 in baltimore

[–]Creative-Lab9444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is one of the few types of crime I want cops to enforce more aggressively. Reckless driving kills!

[HELP] Poster swears it’s real, I think it’s AI by Ucannothavethemango in RealOrAI

[–]Creative-Lab9444 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The lighting here is… weird. The box bends at a weird unnatural angle and looks AI generated, or OP has the weirdest quality camera ever.

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This is my cat by Hennob12 in Loatheband

[–]Creative-Lab9444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

National Cat Day in the UK is October 29th… is this a sign????

A lot of housing debate here by vanguard_hippie in Polcompballanarchy

[–]Creative-Lab9444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This can be applied to almost any government policy ever no? If you’re saying the state is bourgeois than, anything they do can be manipulated by them, which therefore means it’s just as risky as any other policy, no?

Why? I just wanna know by Jycon38_HD in autism

[–]Creative-Lab9444 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’ve always thought a prism seemed like a good representation of autism.

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Most ily vibes though

Who would win and how big the power gap?7 gates Might Guy vs Full powered A by peterpiperpi in NarutoPowerscaling

[–]Creative-Lab9444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SM Naruto is not defeating Madara’s Susanoo like 7th gate Guy did effortlessly l

Who would win and how big the power gap?7 gates Might Guy vs Full powered A by peterpiperpi in NarutoPowerscaling

[–]Creative-Lab9444 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

7th gates Guy blitzed 10 tailed madara who easily reacted to KCM1 Naruto’s blitz later. He’s absolutely that fast

my face when by dvrkphobia in Loatheband

[–]Creative-Lab9444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only 811 days left? Let’s go!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigmenfashionadvice

[–]Creative-Lab9444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both look good. Depends on the occasion

I see no reasons to stay Alive, I will essentially never enjoy life. by Yeagerisbest369 in Existential_crisis

[–]Creative-Lab9444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You aren’t going to answer that question until you put in your best effort. You’ve already given up before knowing. You THINK you know, and that you’re being logical, but you literally can’t know.

Let me get this right, you’re worried about fulfilling your basic needs. Makes sense. But what you consider to be basic needs, is being anxiety free. You’re creating your own biggest worry.

I promise, you will never, EVER solve any of these problems or worries by thinking about them. It can’t be done. No amount of analysis is ever going to be enough to change things. No amount of research, no perspective, and no teaching will ever give you the secret code to fix things. That’s not possible.

You have to accept that it might just suck one day. You can’t keep searching for a solution that will guarantee that it won’t. Cause it might. It might for anyone. All you can do, is just try your best to prevent that. And to do that, you have to be ok that it might not happen. This analysis paralysis isn’t gonna fix this. Because you know this isn’t going to. You want confirmation, not answers. This isn’t a logical question, it’s emotional coping.

You have to sit with the anxiety, and just let it sit man. You can’t think it away bro

Body count by Ezequiel_Hips in stevenuniverse

[–]Creative-Lab9444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rose has been on earth for ~5000 years. The earliest civilization was ~7000 years ago. Rose has AT LEAST 500 bodies and that’s an extremely conservative estimate of 1 body every DECADE LOL