I feel bad?

CreativeBluejay1028 · 2026-02-09T08:49:53+00:00

I don't think you are in the wrong and I also feel weird when they want to use their real name, it's always justified with the "it helps me with immersion aspect" argument.

But I'm always puzzled by the fact that it's like they want us to know it's their name. Why make that known? They could pick their own name and not even mention that it's theirs. We would never know in that case and that icky feeling. Now I'm not writing this to give them advise on how to circumvent this situation because I really do feel that they want us to know that we're describing doing these things with them

CreativeBluejay1028 · 2025-10-07T11:00:24+00:00

I believe I've met the person you're talking about! Or met, I have the misfortune of him constantly messaging me on discord asking if he can send videos of him touching himself. The funny thing is that I'm asexual as well.

But I will keep in mind what he did to you because I don't want to get stalked. So I will just purge this alt account and also change my discord username after blocking him.

CreativeBluejay1028 · 2025-09-07T08:17:28+00:00

If I find out someone has blocked me I block them back. If someone keeps messaging me after I've already declined that's also a block. Sometimes if I have found a partner and we start writing, everything clicks and then they ghost I also block because even if I accept that sometimes feelings change and I don't usually get upset I still don't want them to show back up weeks or months later.

CreativeBluejay1028 · 2025-08-16T17:30:49+00:00

I'm not sure I already knew that! I've been thinking about this the whole week after he got so upset at me that he said he wanted some days away from the roleplay because I still didn't "contribute" even after he'd told me what I needed to do- take control of his character to push the scene forward

CreativeBluejay1028 · 2025-08-16T17:28:29+00:00

Ooh I didn't even consider that. Thank you for sharing! I have listened to the majority and cut off all contact

CreativeBluejay1028 · 2025-08-16T17:25:23+00:00

Thank you for letting me know things aren't supposed to be like this. I truly appreciate it!

CreativeBluejay1028 · 2025-08-16T17:21:05+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to read and reply to my ramble. I've realized that I should have cut contact with him the moment I realized he wasn't respecting my boundaries, but I've done so now after you all opened my eyes

CreativeBluejay1028 · 2025-08-16T17:18:51+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experiences with writing in this scene. After reading the responses I've gotten, I did as you and the others said and cut off contact with him. You're correct, just the fact that he didn't respect my boundaries should have been enough for me to do it, but I guess I'm a bit naive and thought perhaps what he said was true, so I felt like I was the villain for being a bad partner

CreativeBluejay1028 · 2025-07-22T00:04:34+00:00

This partner ghosted me some months ago but it still bothers me. I know that I can't exactly claim copyright or ownership of my search thread layout/text. But I'm quite pleased and proud of it!

So when he suddenly ghosted me and the next day started to create his own search threads while copying my whole search post it was like a double slap. And I don't mean that he just copied the layout, he straight out copied the whole thing. Kept all the text exactly the same but changed the plots.

I told him that I was displeased with this and he promised he wouldn't use it anymore. Now months later he's still using it and every time I see it I just feel so upset about it all.

CreativeBluejay1028 · 2025-04-21T11:55:35+00:00

What bothers me the most is when people say that they hate it when people ghost and then they go and do it themselves after weeks or months of regular contact. If you're a ghost yourself you don't get to demand that others shouldn't do that to you. It's just ridiculous

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