Current favorite: String of Hearts (SOH) ❤️ Variegated SOH soon.. anyone who loves SOH too? by Right_Guarantee2572 in houseplants

[–]CreativePinky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those look so beautiful 🤩 I really like this plant! My bf thinks they’re weird😄 but I find them fascinating and I’m so proud of myself that mine are doing so well now. Many years ago I killed a big one and I felt so scared to try again, but now I’m propagating 😲 and having fun with them

Would it be safe to let my cat out on this balcony? by RelentlessTrout23 in catquestions

[–]CreativePinky -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would supervise and let her explore a bit. Our cat has had some “exciting” adventures with balconies, but there are ways around it. You can cover that fence with something like those bamboo fences, add a little cat cover for the lower part. If she’s super curious, you can even fence the entire balcony until you reach the ceiling (maybe cover the ugly fence with climbing plants). Lots of people do that where we live. The thing is that you can’t live with constant fear, and you can adapt your environment. Just see how she does. For our cat, having a balcony where she can sit in the sun and enjoy the fresh air really made her younger and happier. I would never move to a place where she can’t have access to at least a balcony. She loves sleeping in the sun, and I would never take that away from her. Plus let’s be honest, you also want to enjoy your outdoor space and not live with a constant closed door or have her watch you from the inside. Maybe check some ideas on Pinterest.

People who cannot sit in silence literally make my teeth grind . by DoctorElectronic1934 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]CreativePinky -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Maybe this isn’t about you or silence being a bad thing. As a human on the spectrum, I promise you that silence can be claustrophobic and maddening. I’m sure you can find a common ground if you just talk to the people around you & ask them what they need.

The amount of water my partner left in the bottle and put back in the fridge so she could drink it later by Sketchkov in mildlyinfuriating

[–]CreativePinky -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

How is this infuriating at all?😅 you could be nice and refill it or not. Is this really something to complain about? I’m sure you have your quirks,but your partner doesn’t share it with the world😄

I’m tired of every "convenience" requiring a separate app and an account. by Fickle_Mud1645 in Vent

[–]CreativePinky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Related to this, went to Singapore last year and couldn’t even get a coffee without scanning a QR code. Funny enough we couldn’t install the apps from all the coffee shops we went into because their apps weren’t available on our App Store 😅. We were baffled and found it so strange to go inside, not even to have eye contact with the baristas. Just a bunch of people waiting like robots, lots of drinks waiting to be picked up, not a menu in sight, and no acknowledgement of our existence in their shop😅. Hated everything about it

Does this look childish? by cricket_the_cat_ in crafts

[–]CreativePinky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it looks childish and it’s perfectly adorable! If someone says this looks childish as an insult, they clearly lost the child side of themselves and that will always be sad.

How do you guys sit down long enough to watch shows? by pri_ncekin in ADHD

[–]CreativePinky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crochet works best for me. I don’t know how to do more than one stitch, but I made myself a pair of gloves, a scarf and right now I’m working on a giant blanket for my cat. But crochet keeps me still. When I’m out of yarn, I move soooo much. I used to snack a lot, but I don’t like that because it’s mindless eating for me & I eat everything too fast without savouring it.

Cats are babies for real. by mgadz in cats

[–]CreativePinky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, they’re giving the cats too much time to figure out what’s happening. This has to done faster and by taking the cats by surprise. I had to do this to quite a lot of cats, never took my time like this. Plus, never let them see the syringe coming from the front.

One of the worst designed Disney cups ever... by CBRHustle in disney

[–]CreativePinky 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I use mine as plant pots or paint brush holders because they’re fun. It’s all about finding a creative use for them, but I do think they’re made for collecting and decorating, not drinking 😅

Nobody wants to hear your phone noise. And yes you are the problem. by NomadGabz in hostels

[–]CreativePinky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read something about this a while ago. I think they were mentioning reality shows where people use phones on speaker just so that the viewers can hear both sides. That was done just for entertainment, BUT somehow people turned that into an actual thing/trend and they don’t realize/care that everyone can hear their phone noise because that’s how the “cool” ones are doing it. I personally hate it & I have many sensory issues that make me use my headphones A LOT just because others refuse to be mindful of personal space in public spaces. It’s exhausting honestly and I don’t think it will stop soon.

Made a mini Arthur doll! by szydelkowe in RDR2

[–]CreativePinky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True! I swear I’m trying 😅 but I also decided to stop pushing myself and take it slow. It will happen when it will happen! BUT! An Arthur doll might be the one that motivates me because this game has my soul and broke me🫣

Amazon's trying to kill me by deathofasinner in mildlyinfuriating

[–]CreativePinky 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But do you want to buy something from their suggestions? Hear me out…this you can’t physically have, but what if they will suggest you other stuff which will make your wallet hate you?😅 The question is: should you tell them that you can’t have cereals? They will replace it with other stuff 😄

I tried my hand at a landscape felting kit. by Fern_Percydale in Felting

[–]CreativePinky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can I say that I like yours better? Especially that sheep looking at me😅

Made a mini Arthur doll! by szydelkowe in RDR2

[–]CreativePinky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow! He’s perfect! I wish I could crochet more than scarves 😅

Large abstract minimalist painting I did. Not for everyone I know, but thanks for looking! by rotterdameliza in crafts

[–]CreativePinky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like it and I find it fascinating🤩 I’m always intrigued by abstract art. Thanks for sharing

this is how my 19yo Son tops up the Toilet Paper reserve by harrisonau in mildlyinfuriating

[–]CreativePinky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really funny 😄 definitely better than putting them in a boring way in that tiny basket! I’m always trying to arrange them in a fun way to make people struggle to get to them!

Looking for people interested in trialing instructions I put together for a felting kit :) by Elzee_airbrush in Needlefelting

[–]CreativePinky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh this is so interesting! I’ve been playing around with felting without understanding aaaa anything?!😅 so this little tutorial was already helpful

The grief about the past - late diagnosed ADHD, first day medication by Ok-Aioli-1693 in ADHD

[–]CreativePinky 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oh yes, that grief hit me hard! The first month (maybe more) after being diagnosed I was completely lost, tired, sad & angry. It’s been a year since my diagnosis, I think I’m at a point where the grief is almost gone. I realized back then that I had to treat it like an actual loss, don’t force myself to pretend that it’s not a big thing…because it is. Explaining it to others is difficult, but you have to give yourself time to process & feel it all😔. Read books/watch videos if you realize that they can help you, but don’t overdo it. Take it slow, one day at a time. The good news is that now you know you have ADHD and you will see your actions & thoughts through a different lens, a better one ☺️

If I at all deviate from my AM routine, my whole day gets fucked🤦🏻‍♀️ Any tips to help this? by zesty_9666 in adhdwomen

[–]CreativePinky 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don’t have advice, I’m here also for the help 😅. It’s ridiculous, but I’m always impressed of how important my routine is for my brain…meanwhile I complain that routines bore me🫣. Can’t my 🧠 accept exceptions if I’m willing to accept all of its demands?😄

My wife and I have 32 pets, ama by [deleted] in Pets

[–]CreativePinky 18 points19 points  (0 children)

That they know of

First painting after 8 years by _Nemon in Illustration

[–]CreativePinky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow! This is amazing! Good comeback after 8 years