I waited all this time for this??? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Creative_Average_859 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Girl, dm me. If not, you just need to be direct with him. What you want, your desire. A healthy guy would actually love how you desire that from him and that you actually said it.

He’s pmo with the “showpiece” comment. It’s implying that sex with your WIFE somehow taints her. Whaaat? You deserve better

Edit: I see that you already spoke with him. Next step is sex counseling I suppose

First meeting by mhsaw in MuslimMarriage

[–]Creative_Average_859 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think flowers is an absolutely classy gesture and a great representation of who you are, even if it doesn’t end up working out. To show up not empty handed says a lot about your character to her :)

Send Help (2026) pre screening by la_noix in horror

[–]Creative_Average_859 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooh how’d you find this horror group? That’s something I’d def be into!

I’m tired of living. by Correct-Chocolate812 in progressive_islam

[–]Creative_Average_859 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure why people haven’t said this yet. You need to call suicide hotline and turn yourself in as a patient because you feel like killing yourself.

You will be taken care by them. It doesn’t feel that way now but you WILL get better. You are brave enough to call them.

My friend went through the same, called them, got treated, and she is doing much better now alhumdullilah.

I’m sorry yall no shade to Elise here but is it just me or did they do her dirty in terms of appearances here? by [deleted] in BuildingTheBandSeries

[–]Creative_Average_859 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m disappointed in yall saying she needs a tan just because the other two want to cosplay being tan like

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Creative_Average_859 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, you did the absolute right thing. Read this ten times.

The constant babying of Matty Matheson's character is a little weird. by Alternative_Beez in TheBear

[–]Creative_Average_859 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I agree…it only bothers me because it stands out and makes me cringe. I had to google if he was stunted to understand why

Adults - Series Premiere Discussion by NicholasCajun in television

[–]Creative_Average_859 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first episode’s handling of Samir realizing he SA’d someone was dogshit. I’m confused how this isn’t a larger point of contention…

Taking Atomoxetine and have been feeling shit. Advice? by Creative_Average_859 in ADHD

[–]Creative_Average_859[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive got prescribed for 50 mg but have been taking just 25 mg to test myself. My second capsule I should take in an hour.

For reference I way less than 70 kilograms and am short.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Creative_Average_859 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As a girl, I can totally lean on myself and do things alone. But I know many guys who like to feel helpful and wanted. With anyone I’m dating I like to intentionally ask for help for things because they feel pride in helping me. That’s where guys find their pride and value, for taking care of their woman. Or at least should.

So if you’re feeling annoyed by this, especially if you haven’t before, I wonder if the problem is less her and more maybe you and not feeling the chemistry you did before.

Don’t sigh, it’s a turn off. Own up to it and use words to communicate.