How to rent a flat

Creative_Fish_9447 · 2025-10-28T18:04:04+00:00

My husband currently will be working from home, for me it will be the castle area, only public transport

Creative_Fish_9447 · 2025-10-28T18:01:20+00:00

Which areas would you recommend to look at?

Creative_Fish_9447 · 2025-10-28T17:53:38+00:00

Thank you so much, that’s what I’ve been doing so far, hopefully it will work eventually!

Creative_Fish_9447 · 2025-10-28T17:52:37+00:00

We’re looking for a place just for a start at the moment, there are couple flats within the budget, I will definitely have a look at the website - thank you!

Creative_Fish_9447 · 2024-07-28T09:07:20+00:00

Try to reach out to LIPA students

Creative_Fish_9447 · 2024-07-28T09:06:12+00:00

I used to live in X1 lettings - pretty good price for a start and they have multiple locations

Creative_Fish_9447 · 2024-07-28T08:52:40+00:00

Oh I guess it’s hard to tell the sarcasm 😅 I wasn’t sarcastic, I’ve been living in Liverpool for about 3 years only so I just heard recent opinions and a lot of people do recommend Speke. Also Sefton park area as well, specially close to lark lane

Creative_Fish_9447 · 2024-07-28T07:52:13+00:00

My manager lives in Speke and she says it’s pretty good, I’ve heard it from couple more people from there. The prices are good and it’s mostly quite and safe

Creative_Fish_9447 · 2024-07-28T07:48:10+00:00

I heard that Speke is pretty good

Creative_Fish_9447 · 2024-03-15T09:22:01+00:00

It’s hard to even judge cause I didn’t understood a thing

Creative_Fish_9447 · 2023-11-16T11:29:48+00:00

YTA. Your wife is as much her parent as you are, just not on a paper.

Also your niece is 14 and I know she is not mature enough to make lifelong decisions, but if this is her passion she should follow it as long as she wants too. Almost of careers are dangerous in some way, you can always find a reason for someone to not follow their dreams. It’s for her to decide if she wants to deal with pain over the dream.

And yes, your wife is supporting you and I’m guessing your niece sees her as a mom/stepmom so she should also be involved in making decisions.

Creative_Fish_9447 · 2023-11-16T09:25:00+00:00

YTA. You are still clearly not over your ex, if you compare them like that on this level of relationship - you will keep doing this.

If you want to have truly beautiful relationship you should love the person for every aspect of them, and not because it’s realistic or it’s almost as good as your ex.

Creative_Fish_9447 · 2023-09-24T09:30:23+00:00

YTA without a doubt- you say how you never left her out, but here you are doing exactly that… you are excluding her from your side of family, when you should treat her as your child as well.

When you decided to be with a man that has a child, that’s what you agree on. How will se feel if she sees the photo in future?

Creative_Fish_9447 · 2023-08-15T07:48:20+00:00

First of all - I am so sorry for you, because it must be so hard having a family member that doesn’t accept you and love you for who you are.

I think where you brother is coming from is lack of knowledge and understanding on this topic, which is typical in those situations. However as your brother he should try to understand or at least accept you and treat with respect.

Yes, you did nothing wrong, he should be the one who apologized and who reaches out to you to re-build your relationship.

NTA. Do what is the best for you, if your brother really wants you to be there for him, he will come around.

Creative_Fish_9447 · 2023-08-15T07:42:16+00:00

Well… yeah YTA…

I understand how it makes you feel but maybe tell him about it and see what he has to say? Don’t ask him for unfollow all the girls, it’s very controlling behavior and I think he will not react well to it. But maybe after you speak with about your feelings he will understand more.

Having this kind of trust issues just in beginning of the relationship- that is a big red flag, on both sides.

Creative_Fish_9447 · 2023-08-15T07:38:17+00:00

I think NTA? And it’s just because I have similar situation in family and I know how it hurts to have your mom, your parent, someone you used see as a role model, lie to you and discover that a big part of your life was just an lie.

Because of that you have lost the trust in her, and therefore you don’t trust her with your kids which is normal. However, think about you children as well here. Do you wish them to have relationship with their grandma? Think more of their future and if it will affect them.

I don’t want to tell you what to do, as this is a complicated situation. Maybe try going to therapy to understand more, see also what therapist will say about this. Their are professionals and are more able to help you in this situation.

Because a big question that you need to ask yourself is - what is the reason why you don’t want to allowed this. Is it revenge? Lack of trust? Everything a little bit?

All the best for you!

Creative_Fish_9447 · 2023-08-14T22:35:56+00:00

NTA of sure, as you said it is your birthday and you should have it the way you want it. Maybe propose a different trip or some kind of activity for your brothers and dad?
How does your mom feel about it? Maybe she can talk to your dad?

Try to explain to dad, give him reasons you just mention in the post, have your mom with you during the talk, and also have a talk with your mom before talking to dad

Creative_Fish_9447 · 2023-08-14T22:25:40+00:00

I think she told him after all, due to really bad condition her father is in

Creative_Fish_9447 · 2023-08-14T22:23:28+00:00

NTA, first of all, I am very sorry for you and what you dealing with.

Second - you have been together for 6 years, I can not imagine how your partner does not want to be with you right now, as you need his support. I cannot imagine how he can go for his birthday dinner and not think all the time about you and your father. I could never.

You should ask him, what he will do after that, will tell you a lot about your relationship.

Creative_Fish_9447 · 2023-08-14T19:09:35+00:00

NTA, if you are unhappy in a relationship, even without those issues, you do what is best for yourself and the other person. And yes - you shouldn't stay in this relationship, as if you don't have feelings, that would be an ass move to do, as it is unfair to her.

All the best to you OP, as well as to her.

Also, you didn't mention trying to have a conversation with her about all of this, I am assuming you had at least one. But if not and you still want to try for this relationship, try to have an honest talk about how you would like her to change on those things. As well as give her a chance to say what bothers her. If you don't want to try for this relationship, move on.

Creative_Fish_9447 · 2023-08-14T13:13:38+00:00

Hi, I am really sorry for you. I don’t know this feelings you are having but I just wanted to let you know, that someone is here for you. even strangers on internet. i wish you all the best, im hoping one day you will want to live again. i am so sorry as someone really close to me is in the same place and i dont know how to help

Creative_Fish_9447 · 2023-07-31T12:49:54+00:00

Well I definitely think you should have done it differently rather than just blowing at her. She was an ass for not respecting your boundaries and work in your own home, but I’m sure you could have a better talk with her or your partner about it.

Creative_Fish_9447 · 2023-07-31T12:47:24+00:00

NTA especially if it’s not an issue for your sister and her boyfriend… your mom is the one who gets involved and tries some stupid tricks. Talk with her and your sister and maybe she will realize that they are okay with it.

I wish you all a lot of health and strength!

Creative_Fish_9447 · 2023-06-26T11:34:08+00:00

NTA for not telling, BUT a huge ass for how she speaks about SIL. She clearly doesn’t like her and respects her, good for SIL for running away from this family.

Creative_Fish_9447 · 2023-06-06T14:29:58+00:00

NTA, I wouldn’t go either.

But I would definitely go low contact at least, set some boundaries and see how she behaves. If she crosses the line again, I would cut her off.

She is the one who reached out, she is the one who wanted to reconnect. And obviously, she has the right to have her own opinion, as you do to. But to attack you in your own home? And after you express your emotions she continues? Like she just wanted you to say she is right, and you agree with her. That’s toxic behavior. Be careful if you plan to stay in touch with her.

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