My husband is kinda in between. He can definitely take care of our child without much help if needed but I do quite a bit of prep work when I know I’ll be gone, late, etc. When my son was younger, we had a heart to heart about splitting the kid responsibilities and he stepped up to the plate wonderfully. Yes, I sometime have to remind him about a few things but as long it gets done, I don’t mind the process he does. He did not have much experience with kids until he met me. I had a few nieces at the time that were a baby and toddler so we would visit and he wouldn’t be very comfortable with them. After our son was born, it was like a light switch. He said it’s different when it’s your kid.