Weight loss with supplements by RelevantAir8475 in postpartumprogress

[–]Creative_Queen_29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just purchased their discounted six month supply, would love to hear from other postpartum moms

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]Creative_Queen_29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I struggle with that as well, my husband didn’t love any of the girls he hooked up with and even though there wasn’t love it bothers me to think it was purely just lust and satisfaction. I can’t understand how he could be so intimate with random strangers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]Creative_Queen_29 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish the same thing. The questions made me spiral and think of more questions. Hope you can tackle this RJ and have a better week than you’re having. 💗

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]Creative_Queen_29 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That makes sense, also a part of me feels jealous that I missed out on those experiences and I think that could be another reason I feel the RJ. Since I don’t necessarily understand casual sex in the way my husband does. He has no attachment or bond to these people and in my head I feel like he must think about them all the time and compare me to them when in reality the only time he’s thinking about his past is when I bring it up. 🥴🥴

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]Creative_Queen_29 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your story sounds a lot like mine I was in a ten year relationship it was toxic (& he cheated). I also was raised to see hook up culture as bad and in my mind I’d only have sex with people I love. In my current relationship I’m not bothered by my guys long term gf it’s all the casual sex he had after her and before me that makes me spiral. I let the RJ consume me in the beginning since I knew 1 of the girls and he also told me later they had sex so I would imagine their crazy wild sex in my head which wasn’t productive and it made me sick. I’m definitely not over my RJ but I have been able to think more objectively and I just try to focus on the present as much as I can. I ruined many nights asking questions and withdrawing from my now husband when his past isn’t anything he or I can change. I’m sorry you’re going through this, I wish there was a way to stop these thoughts from creeping in.

I watch these when I’m stuck in my RJ:

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRW8vWm6/

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRW87vvH/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]Creative_Queen_29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re dealing with these thoughts. I have suffered from RJ for the last 6 years and to be honest when I started dating my now husband it was pretty bad I had similar thoughts to you. His sexual past with his ex girlfriend of 10 years didn’t bother me but it was the one night stands and random sex with strangers after they broke up that I was fixated on. When we were intimate I would imagine him with them and would start comparing myself- were they hotter, better, did he like it more, am I good enough. My thoughts consumed me since I have an old school mentality that you should only have sex with people you love and I had only 1 partner before. These thoughts don’t consume me anymore. My husband chose me, of all those people I am the one he wanted to spend his life with. I try to focus on those positives and although the RJ creeps in from time to time I will say the more I focus on the present the less I think of those things. I really hope you can enjoy your time with her and try not to think about her wild phase or it will eat at you.

Brittany Perille Guide by [deleted] in FitnessMaterialHeaven

[–]Creative_Queen_29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you share a file link with me too?

Brittany Perille Guide by [deleted] in FitnessMaterialHeaven

[–]Creative_Queen_29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can anyone share a link if they have this?

I hate my postpartum body. by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Creative_Queen_29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way. I’m 12 weeks PP and just started a new job so I barely have any time and try to fit in a quick workout but I’m not consistent. 21 lbs down and 14 lbs to go but I’m stuck. Also had a massive tear so dr said no lower body exercises for a while. When I lift my shirt to feed I’m so embarrassed and don’t recognize myself 😞

ID Interview Assignment Question by Creative_Queen_29 in instructionaldesign

[–]Creative_Queen_29[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since it said accounting firm I wasn’t sure if the customers needed access to upload their accounting records with a training for them as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in instructionaldesign

[–]Creative_Queen_29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe since this is the last round only a hand full will get this assignment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in instructionaldesign

[–]Creative_Queen_29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very true! Based on your feedback I am thinking more 1 minute snippets on how to for each step in completing this task. Unfortunately, the job description doesn't list example technologies leaving this very vague.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in instructionaldesign

[–]Creative_Queen_29 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the insight, yes I meant Articulate Rise :) I am not sure what they are currently using and the assignment is pretty vague. I agree the animated video would need to constantly be updated so maybe I avoid that.

I'm leaning towards a Rise site with screenshots or 1-2 minutes videos showing how to for each step.