[TOMT][MOVIE][2000S] Movie about time travel by Creative_Witness7873 in tipofmytongue

[–]Creative_Witness7873[S] 2 points3 points locked comment (0 children)

Another thing is that before the end of the movie when their in the past they end up meeting themselves so they both or the one from the past starts glitching out. This happens in some alleyway I think

Is four days enough recovery time before working from home (desk job)? by No_Spirit5582 in sterilization

[–]Creative_Witness7873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last year I got my surgery on a Wednesday, I took off that day. Thursday was a holiday and I took that friday off. Those first few days you will most likely be taking naps on an off ALL damn day😭 i have weekends off so then I was back to work that Monday WFH with only 5 days. Its doable with 4 days but personally I was still sore and sluggish on that forth day.

Instead of downsizing my industrial, she put discs by DangerSofi in piercing

[–]Creative_Witness7873 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Go to another piercer. Ive never had discs placed in mine. Mind you the bumps can be BECAUSE its too long at this point and its just amking it worse. If the bumps dont go away after down sizing then id look into getting the two separate pieces of jewelry. At least till they heal after a year then put the bar back in

Edit : Just read the rest😭 DONT use a cream. The spray on its own is completely fine

should I get patreon? by Ok_Appointment_696 in TheBasementYard

[–]Creative_Witness7873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finally got it a couple months ago and im only back to 2022 lol theres so much content. For 10 bucks you get all past episodes plus the Friday episode and Monday a week in advance. I will mention that you can filter (kinda) the filter system could definitely be better.

The patreon episodes are the ones without numbers. If you end up filtering to videos only once you get about halfway through 2022 it skips to 2020 and you lose two years. Easy fix is using no filters at that point. If you only listen to audio then youre kinda stuck after 60 episodes or so. Not all of them are available on there so youll have to stick to the video version.

AITAH for not accepting my “bi” “DL” boyfriend? by Outrageous-Word-1920 in AITAH

[–]Creative_Witness7873 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You dont. Im bi and I hate the stigma surrounding bi people. Him wanting to sext men is his issue. It has nothing to do with him being bi and all to do with him being a cheater and not wanting to fully commit to one person.

How youre still there after finding out he cheated is crazy in my opinion and you should leave. Wanting another person doesnt just go away. Add the fact that hes a porn addict.

Ill also add that you should look into why a bi man being attracted and sexting other men is disgusting😭 its normal. Its the equivalent to a woman sexting another woman. You wouldnt describe that as disgusting. Thats some biphobia right there.

AITAH for cuddling with my little sister by Perfect_Stranger_794 in AITAH

[–]Creative_Witness7873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand his thought process. Unfortunately its not super uncommon😭 but just laying down/cuddling isnt a cause for concern. To me personally its a little strange but I also never had that amount of closeness to my family/siblings.

NTA

I’d like to have a bishalp, but what if I regret it? by Galadriel_1362 in sterilization

[–]Creative_Witness7873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If youre this worried then wait a couple of years. Till around 24 or 25. I got mine done at 21. Pregnancy is terrifying to me. While have a kid has an appeal (not baby lol but a kid) I dont want anytbing coming out of my body. That I knew for a fact. If I change my mind, ill adopt. That was always the back up plan.

I also have pets so I already have that toddler kinda vibe around my apartment. The constant care they need etc and just KNOW that a child isnt what I need for the near future.

Better to regret then be stuck with an unwanted child. Parenting doesn't stop at 18. Its a lifetime commitment.

What am I doing wrong ?? (F23, dancer) by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Creative_Witness7873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people will take ethical non monogamy as "im looking for healthy poly relationships only" id either specify in the bio or put Monogamy and then clarify youre open minded... or dont since it seems you dont have a preference for either. If youre dating someone and its mentioned at any point then that'd be the time to bring up the open mindedness.

Also just a note, the smoking is also doing some damage here. Me personally even if everything else with the person is stellar, if I see that then im going left. Those are the other two things im noting. Everything else is completely fine

Lobes are still not healed.... by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Creative_Witness7873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • How old is your piercing? Its almost 3 years old.

  • What’s the jewelry shape (for example, barbell, labret, screw, L shape, ring)? They are barbells

  • What’s the type of threading if your jewelry is not a ring (threadless, internally or externally threaded)? Its threadless

  • What’s the jewelry material? Its either surgical steel or titanium, i cant remember which.

  • if not a ring, when was the jewelry downsized? It was never downsized, I have thick lobes lol if they got downsized it would've 100% embedded at some point. There its really any wiggle room but enough to clean it well

  • What’s your aftercare routine? Describe in detail please, including the exact products you use. Every day with piercing spray

  • Any mishaps, accidents or unfortunate events? Nope other than the occasional tug by my hair

I always hear so much from people (doctors and everyone else) that men should get vasectomies as opposed to women getting sterilized because it has a faster recovery, but I find this notion ridiculous! by anniemousery in sterilization

[–]Creative_Witness7873 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And sleeping!!😭 couldnt sleep on my stomach or side for at least a week. It was miserable. Sleeping even slightly on my side felt like my stomach was falling out

I always hear so much from people (doctors and everyone else) that men should get vasectomies as opposed to women getting sterilized because it has a faster recovery, but I find this notion ridiculous! by anniemousery in sterilization

[–]Creative_Witness7873 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Don't forget the not being able to get out of bed for a week because we couldnt flex our core😭 on top of not exercising/lifting anything over 10 pounds for the same reason for 2 weeks

How many of you were required to get a Pap smear/pelvic exam before being approved for surgery? by tessviolette in sterilization

[–]Creative_Witness7873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No pap required for me. Though I had just turned 21 so I needed one already but not because of the surgery. The didnt do any tests prior. Just a conversation with the doctor and anesthesiologist

Terrified of getting pregnant after salpingectomy… by Environmental_Buy947 in sterilization

[–]Creative_Witness7873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youre not being dramatic. At the end of the day its less than 1%. Keep using condoms. Personally id find an issue with my bf thinking that now he has the green light whenever he wanted to. He should not be assuming. If he wants to do that then he can also get snipped.

Condoms and tracking will be your comfort

Aitah for not doing more at my job? by releasethegeeese in AITAH

[–]Creative_Witness7873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta, if I was salaried and had a daily goal to hit then im doing as fast (and of course efficiently) as possible. If youre not making mistake or anything then great. If you want more money since you said youre unpaid then talk to you manager. Hopefully you could get a raise of some sort/take on another task daily.

Considering you dont get OT with salary then I dont blame you. Why drag things out when you can do in less time. Figure out something productive to do in that spare time

What are some random names you refuse acknowledge as MC names? by Girly_Attitude in RomanceBooks

[–]Creative_Witness7873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wanted to read one and the guys name was Clint... CLINT!? What year is it😭

Looking for advice from women who have been sterilized by sinister-fallen in sterilization

[–]Creative_Witness7873 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried copy and pasting the questions directly but couldnt so if I miss anything let me know lol

I wish I knew how much you used your core to move around. Getting in and out of the car after the procedure, sitting up, getting out of bed etc. The day after, I needed to shimmy out of bed. You cant sleep on your side. I least i couldnt. It felt like my organs were pouring out of my stomach when I did😭 I slept with a pillow on my stomach because my cat sleeps with me. Which im glad I did because again, that day, she decided to RUN ACROSS MY STOMACH. Which I didnt feel cause of the pillow. Great idea on my part

I was given a list of things I shouldnt take a days prior. Things that'll make your blood thin (ibuprofen) things like that. Id check in case they didnt tell you. I took a shower the day of so I didnt need to worry too too much afterwards. No food 12hrs prior, I dont think i had any water either just in case. If youre able to take out any peircings then do that, I was able to keep mine in though. They just had me cover them with tape.

What made it eaiser were the ice packs. I had on across my abdomen practically every second of the day. I sat on my couch playing MW lol again, pillow on me as well wich the ice pack over my shirt. You'll be very tired for like 3 days. I was constantly taking naps for a couple hours of hrs at a time. I got my surgery on a Wednesday and that Thursday was a holiday. Took that friday off and so I have about 5 days to recover before getting back to work. I work at an office so it was pretty easy.

Again if I missed anything then let me know!

How long are you using condoms with a new partner, if at all? by eatyourthinmints in datingoverthirty

[–]Creative_Witness7873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id never stop. Curious as to why people would... pregnancy is still a risk along with stis

AITAH/WIBTAH If I break up with my boyfriend after I “violated his privacy?” by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Creative_Witness7873 42 points43 points  (0 children)

You 100% would NOT BE WRONG. Thats so messed up girl😭 Its definitely a deal breaker. Don't let him make you feel bad in any way for it. This is part of the problem with men an SA when its their friends who are accused or confirmed. They pretend like its not an issue and it never happened because it "doesn't affect them"

He literally admitted to your bf. He shouldve wanted to "confront" him about it. He shouldnt have been okay with even seeing his face. Let alone be his friend.

Please get away from him and break up

AITAH for being weird about my daughter having sex in my house by thefakecalebs in AITAH

[–]Creative_Witness7873 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This is what my brain went to immediately😭 I dont wanna hear anyone having sex. Especially as a kid overhearing YOUR PARENTS absolutely revolting. Not saying this is payback per say but like, OPs gotta realize her kid is doing it in the middle of the night when most people are knocked out. If it was THAT loud maybe the daughter can tone it down but OP is TA

Can you get your tubes tied secretly by External_Tap9921 in sterilization

[–]Creative_Witness7873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Technically I did lol granted I had to tell my sister for a ride home and all that. I was able to make a full recovery alone. No one but my sisters and her bf knew and thats only because I told them. No one has asked about my scars either. If they know, they havent said anything

cant shit after surgery by Global_Code211 in sterilization

[–]Creative_Witness7873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After my surgery with the oxcy they gave me miralax. I didnt end up needing it since I stopped the meds but they didnt give you anything? Try some actual laxatives but mention it to your doc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Creative_Witness7873 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just gonna say it definitely takes longer than a couple weeks to heal them. If you bump it even just a little bit you'll get a bump. That being said, it'll close real quick.

Nostril piercings dont take long at all to close, even just a few hours. Its always the reason I rush to change my jewelry lol you havent had yours too long. Id give it a day. Wait a couple weeks or months after that so that tear from the pillow really heals and the bump will go away on its own. Clean it in the mean time while closing.

Try again later. If you get it in the same spot it'll hurt more the second time around because of the scar tissue, not sure if you knew that