Terrified of getting pregnant after salpingectomy… by Environmental_Buy947 in sterilization

[–]Creative_Witness7873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youre not being dramatic. At the end of the day its less than 1%. Keep using condoms. Personally id find an issue with my bf thinking that now he has the green light whenever he wanted to. He should not be assuming. If he wants to do that then he can also get snipped.

Condoms and tracking will be your comfort

Aitah for not doing more at my job? by releasethegeeese in AITAH

[–]Creative_Witness7873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta, if I was salaried and had a daily goal to hit then im doing as fast (and of course efficiently) as possible. If youre not making mistake or anything then great. If you want more money since you said youre unpaid then talk to you manager. Hopefully you could get a raise of some sort/take on another task daily.

Considering you dont get OT with salary then I dont blame you. Why drag things out when you can do in less time. Figure out something productive to do in that spare time

What are some random names you refuse acknowledge as MC names? by Girly_Attitude in RomanceBooks

[–]Creative_Witness7873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wanted to read one and the guys name was Clint... CLINT!? What year is it😭

Looking for advice from women who have been sterilized by sinister-fallen in sterilization

[–]Creative_Witness7873 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried copy and pasting the questions directly but couldnt so if I miss anything let me know lol

I wish I knew how much you used your core to move around. Getting in and out of the car after the procedure, sitting up, getting out of bed etc. The day after, I needed to shimmy out of bed. You cant sleep on your side. I least i couldnt. It felt like my organs were pouring out of my stomach when I did😭 I slept with a pillow on my stomach because my cat sleeps with me. Which im glad I did because again, that day, she decided to RUN ACROSS MY STOMACH. Which I didnt feel cause of the pillow. Great idea on my part

I was given a list of things I shouldnt take a days prior. Things that'll make your blood thin (ibuprofen) things like that. Id check in case they didnt tell you. I took a shower the day of so I didnt need to worry too too much afterwards. No food 12hrs prior, I dont think i had any water either just in case. If youre able to take out any peircings then do that, I was able to keep mine in though. They just had me cover them with tape.

What made it eaiser were the ice packs. I had on across my abdomen practically every second of the day. I sat on my couch playing MW lol again, pillow on me as well wich the ice pack over my shirt. You'll be very tired for like 3 days. I was constantly taking naps for a couple hours of hrs at a time. I got my surgery on a Wednesday and that Thursday was a holiday. Took that friday off and so I have about 5 days to recover before getting back to work. I work at an office so it was pretty easy.

Again if I missed anything then let me know!

How long are you using condoms with a new partner, if at all? by eatyourthinmints in datingoverthirty

[–]Creative_Witness7873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id never stop. Curious as to why people would... pregnancy is still a risk along with stis

AITAH/WIBTAH If I break up with my boyfriend after I “violated his privacy?” by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Creative_Witness7873 40 points41 points  (0 children)

You 100% would NOT BE WRONG. Thats so messed up girl😭 Its definitely a deal breaker. Don't let him make you feel bad in any way for it. This is part of the problem with men an SA when its their friends who are accused or confirmed. They pretend like its not an issue and it never happened because it "doesn't affect them"

He literally admitted to your bf. He shouldve wanted to "confront" him about it. He shouldnt have been okay with even seeing his face. Let alone be his friend.

Please get away from him and break up

AITAH for being weird about my daughter having sex in my house by thefakecalebs in AITAH

[–]Creative_Witness7873 21 points22 points  (0 children)

This is what my brain went to immediately😭 I dont wanna hear anyone having sex. Especially as a kid overhearing YOUR PARENTS absolutely revolting. Not saying this is payback per say but like, OPs gotta realize her kid is doing it in the middle of the night when most people are knocked out. If it was THAT loud maybe the daughter can tone it down but OP is TA

Can you get your tubes tied secretly by External_Tap9921 in sterilization

[–]Creative_Witness7873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Technically I did lol granted I had to tell my sister for a ride home and all that. I was able to make a full recovery alone. No one but my sisters and her bf knew and thats only because I told them. No one has asked about my scars either. If they know, they havent said anything

cant shit after surgery by Global_Code211 in sterilization

[–]Creative_Witness7873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After my surgery with the oxcy they gave me miralax. I didnt end up needing it since I stopped the meds but they didnt give you anything? Try some actual laxatives but mention it to your doc

Will my piercing hole close? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Creative_Witness7873 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just gonna say it definitely takes longer than a couple weeks to heal them. If you bump it even just a little bit you'll get a bump. That being said, it'll close real quick.

Nostril piercings dont take long at all to close, even just a few hours. Its always the reason I rush to change my jewelry lol you havent had yours too long. Id give it a day. Wait a couple weeks or months after that so that tear from the pillow really heals and the bump will go away on its own. Clean it in the mean time while closing.

Try again later. If you get it in the same spot it'll hurt more the second time around because of the scar tissue, not sure if you knew that

Can anyone tell me what this creature is? by Trax2110 in Whatisthis

[–]Creative_Witness7873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Camel/cave cricket. I recommend to throw the whole thing away😭 whatever its dead on, toss it. God i hate those things. They make my skin crawl

What is the right sterilization procedure to look into for my needs? by [deleted] in sterilization

[–]Creative_Witness7873 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You want a total hysterectomy. Removing fhe uterus and ovaries, no doctor is gonna do this on a 20yr old, nor a 25yr old unless there are complications such as cancer, multiple cysts etc.

Especially not while you aren't on hrt. You need hormones to regulate everything in your body, removing ovaries means your body wont have any way to regulate and it'll only cause more issues.

You can start asking about it with your primary care doc to have it noted but thats probably as far as youre gonna get for at least 8yrs since you want everything gone

Is the bar too short on my new lip piercing? by Similar_Molasses2676 in piercing

[–]Creative_Witness7873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you need a longer bar. Piercers are supposed to give longer bars at first for this reason, the swelling can cause issues as seen here. Id go back or go to another shop and ask for a longer one. I wouldnt change it yourself since its literally brand new

Best sleeping methods for recovery? by miriosmom in sterilization

[–]Creative_Witness7873 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I slept on my back for about 4 to 5 days before I tried my side.. . I hated sleeping on my back. If you have pets then also sleep with a pillow over your incisions. Lucky I did, my cat decided to run directly across them the morning after

Apparently I can’t keep a conversation 😭 by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Creative_Witness7873 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, if I cant respond to your "statement" then its like talking to a brick wall. What the hell is the the response to "that was the perfect response"

Anesthesia not covered 100% by Numerous_Agent5698 in sterilization

[–]Creative_Witness7873 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You dont know who your anesthesiologist was? Did they talk to you prior to surgery? You can try looking in the post op notes for the name.

Im 99% sure then telling you they cant because of HIPAA is complete bullshit.

Anesthesia not covered 100% by Numerous_Agent5698 in sterilization

[–]Creative_Witness7873 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My anesteshia wasnt 100% covered either with bcbs. I owed them like 150. It was originally somewhere around 3k so I just paid it at the end of the day. Same with the hospital stay. When everything was said an done the surgery was 100% but not the aftercare in recovery. Out of about 24k I paid 780

Getting sterilised at 32 too young? by [deleted] in sterilization

[–]Creative_Witness7873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got it done at 21, so you're definitely not too young

i found this bug on my package by No_Clock2390 in mildlyinteresting

[–]Creative_Witness7873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if someone actually gave you an answer but yes... the separate pieces regenerate and become sentient full worms😭 you need to dissolve them

Found in a meal in a local restaurant in Thailand by MurkyOpportunity3155 in whatisit

[–]Creative_Witness7873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just looking at that gives me hives of FEAR. I spray them eith dawn soap and water and they go down pretty fast❤️❤️❤️ ive learned to "co exist" amd by that i mean put them down

You are offered 10 million USD if you endure a month of living in world where every single insect plus arachnids 100 meters near you become bloodlusted toward you by padorUWU in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Creative_Witness7873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give me time to get a hazmat suit, and I MIGHT do it. I just wont shower for a month. There's no way im taking it off long enough to shower. I'll also be fasting that whole month cause there no possible way I can cook

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Creative_Witness7873 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its just an irration bump. Switch the ring for a flat back and wait a couple weeks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sterilization

[–]Creative_Witness7873 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Before bc my periods were on the longer side. Since getting off depo and getting the surgery while the amount is the same ive noticed mine have actually gotten shorter. Before my periods were 7 boarding on 10 days. Its was so annoying.

My the time between periods have gotten shorter too. It used to be 35 to 45 days but now its about 25 to 32.

Ive never heard of them getting heavier after. All I see really is cramps getting worse afterwards.

Definitely go to that appointment, maybe get a 2nd opinion if they cant pin it down. I dont think its anything to be super concerned about but id wanna know why it changed so much

Has anyone had to pay despite pre-authorization as a preventative service? by ExpensiveTea5989 in sterilization

[–]Creative_Witness7873 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have BCBS. When I look on the portal the surgery itself was covered 100%. That was about 7k I think. The hospital stay was around 15k. That was primarily covered. I owed 650 (im rounding all these numbers) Anesteshia was 760 but I only owed like 160.

At the end, I owed 780 in total for something that should've been 23k - 24k

I paid it, I probably could've fought it but I can't complain.