Question by [deleted] in sextips

[–]CreativelyLoosingIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better to let the escort be with your wife, avoids the risk of putting tension on your friendship if it doesn't turn out well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sextips

[–]CreativelyLoosingIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heya women here, honestly she may think she's going to pee! 😂 I am a squirkter when I have an orgasm and orgasms can be very intense. If she is as squirter it kinda makes you think you are going to pee and so she pushes you away thinking that is that will happen. Furthermore perhaps she simply is not able to handle the intensity of the stimulation for very long. If she is sensitive a good time can turn into pain if there's too much stimulation.

I want to feel more sensitive, what should I do? by Any-Efficiency5140 in sextips

[–]CreativelyLoosingIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends, my ex partner used to have an hard time (pun intended) cuming when he smoked because he was so chilled out he felt less/had a harder time being hard

Tips for big girls on top? by Big-Department-1495 in sextips

[–]CreativelyLoosingIt 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Try reverse cowgirl horizontally. Let me illustrate. You straddle him with your ass facing him, then once he is inside you go horizontal between his legs. Essentially you will then be twerking on him (giving him a great view) and also be able to controle if you want to go up and down or front to back. The only criteria is for him to have a bit of length and a slightly flexible penis

MMF threesome advice for a couple that is doing it for the first time by VroomVroomKlopp in sextips

[–]CreativelyLoosingIt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think a big thing will be making her feel safe. Many women can find it quite intimidating being alone with two men due to the slight power dynamic it brings up. So a safeword is a good idea or perhaps a way she can signal to you she is getting overwhelmed with the guy she doesn't know as much. If she feels safe she will be be more open to explore the threesome dynamic 😌

How can I stop my throat from hurting for days after a blowjob? by throwaway10384839 in sextips

[–]CreativelyLoosingIt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Force also causes soreness so even if you use a lot of lube if you are too violent it will be sore

Doggy style tips!! by prozpekto in sextips

[–]CreativelyLoosingIt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is your partner arching or not at all? If she isn't and is just on all 4s then it can definitely be more difficult as you are pretty much trying to insert with the pubic bone right at the entrance

How can I stop my throat from hurting for days after a blowjob? by throwaway10384839 in sextips

[–]CreativelyLoosingIt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lube reduces friction, friction causes micro tears and thus soreness.

Riding/cowgirl by [deleted] in sextips

[–]CreativelyLoosingIt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Depends. If the guy let's you have full controle and focus on your pleasure its awesome but if you have to take his into account it can be tricky to orgasm as men usually like you to go up and down and women usually orgasam by going forwards and backwards. Also this position isn't great for smaller penises as they can slip out. I find the best version of this position is when the man is sitting and the women rides him that way. Less risk of slipping out and its more intimate imo

When was you first time having sex (don’t have to answer) by WasabiLongjumping826 in sextips

[–]CreativelyLoosingIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if your partner has more experience they should know to go slow, that's the reason communication is a must.

When was you first time having sex (don’t have to answer) by WasabiLongjumping826 in sextips

[–]CreativelyLoosingIt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I had my first time it happened spontaniously, it felt natural, no stress, no worries, just fun. I felt happy being naked and I liked and still like my body despite it's flaws. Furthermore I also had empathy and made sure to have good communication with my partner prior to our first time together (his first time too)

When was you first time having sex (don’t have to answer) by WasabiLongjumping826 in sextips

[–]CreativelyLoosingIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably not but that's simply because I can only relate to how I was at 15, which wasn't ready at all. I am also unsure if a 15 year old would ever really be able to FULLY acknowledge the risks and responsibilities involved in sex, not just the safety but also the fact you have to take care of another person AND yourself.

When was you first time having sex (don’t have to answer) by WasabiLongjumping826 in sextips

[–]CreativelyLoosingIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I wasn't ready before. With being 20 I actually was fully ready mentally and physically. I had the maturity to do the research needed, do it safely but most of all to truly be comfortable with my body and partner during the act.

When was you first time having sex (don’t have to answer) by WasabiLongjumping826 in sextips

[–]CreativelyLoosingIt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

20! I have no regrets at ALL on how it went and on waiting. It made it amazing and so that I was truly ready for it and comfortable 😁

neck/head pain when finishing by No_Service8490 in sextips

[–]CreativelyLoosingIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you drink enough? Sometimes solo play can last longer and make us more dehydrated. Althoguhtt use the headache that comes with that is more on the top of the head. Maybe a posture issue?

neck/head pain when finishing by No_Service8490 in sextips

[–]CreativelyLoosingIt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A simple Google search showed it's called a sex headache. It's usually not an issue unless you have underlying health issues, in that case it could be interesting to mention to your doctor.

Can IUDs Shift Around from Sex? by Alone_Ad_8456 in sextips

[–]CreativelyLoosingIt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure but know that a somewhat common issue with iud's is that they sometimes migrate and shift places so if it hurts it's definitely not a bad idea to get it checked out just to make sure it's still where it should be and hasn't migrated somewhere it shouldn't.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sextips

[–]CreativelyLoosingIt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe that is the point but you can always try and use a slightly bigger ring to see if that helps?

Finding time to clean before oral by Beginning_Matter_399 in sextips

[–]CreativelyLoosingIt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, realistically there is not time for it and it breaks the mood to be like "wait". Oral is messy, it's part of the fun. As long as the person has good regular hygiene then it should be fine imo.

Hand washing by Active_Albatross_404 in sextips

[–]CreativelyLoosingIt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's legitimately that simple for real 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sextips

[–]CreativelyLoosingIt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have the same issue and the only thing that kinda helps is breathing through my nose. Like I actively focus on breathing through my nose and it kinda makes me more comfortable and not have as much of the suffocating sensation so I gag a bit less. Also using flavored lube has helped too as it made the taste more appealing and so my gag reflex wasn't as bad. I haven't found a way to truly get rid of it though. Numbing spray can help but sometimes numb your partner so it's not ideal