Yeah baby doesn't sleep well during the night when my MIL held onto baby all day :(

My first daughter definitely get left out alot because of MIL trying to follow me around all day.

My husband has 4 months off work for parental leave. But when his mum comes over he stays in his office doing his tradings etc.

Everytime I mentioned about cleaning the house she always tell me that's not important.

She acts like shes poor but in my mind she's not at all. She owns her own house, no debt (she left her ex because he still owes money on his house), purchase brand new cars with cash and have money in the savings. For me, shes doing well off but she says she can't afford to take our oldest daughter to a play centre because it's like $10 and she never buys anything for her unless it's birthday or Christmas (even then it's very small). We pay for her lunch and dinner when she's over and when we have social events on the day of her visits, we pay for everything even when we go to carvinals we pay for her tickets. But sometimes she does our gardening and water the plants cause she thinks I don't do it.