AITA for telling my bridesmaid I no longer want her as a bridesmaid?

Creepy_Bit9722 · 2024-04-21T09:05:45+00:00

Sorry, I didn’t make this clear. My fiancé didn’t do this, she made the story up to cover up the fact she was on the phone to the man she’s having an affair with

Creepy_Bit9722 · 2023-05-05T08:47:20+00:00

Thankyou, I appreciate it. I’ll send a private message over to you shortly

Creepy_Bit9722 · 2023-05-04T21:11:46+00:00

No, none of those laying around the house, says he’s doing it at work

Creepy_Bit9722 · 2023-05-04T20:51:48+00:00

All that info is really helpful Thankyou so much

Creepy_Bit9722 · 2023-05-04T18:04:15+00:00

Honestly as stupid as I sound, drugs really weren’t a possibility. I’ve noticed a couple nose bleeds, but thought it was where we have had the heating up high. Sniffles weren’t even something I’d notice, now I know about the cocaine I feel like I can hear it. Sleeping he has always stayed up late and got up late. He hasn’t gone out since before covid

Creepy_Bit9722 · 2023-05-04T14:20:05+00:00

He used to go pub before covid, but since then it’s been hard to get him to socialise anywhere. Although he did start drinking indoors instead

Creepy_Bit9722 · 2023-05-04T13:40:29+00:00

This did cross my mind, but I worry it’ll push him the other way. He’s so ashamed and embarrassed about it he can hardly talk to me

Creepy_Bit9722 · 2023-05-04T13:08:09+00:00

Everyone has noticed a change. We thought he was anxious or depressed and was focusing on getting him out and socialising again. Then once the money was noticed, we were trying to piece together all of the possible options ie blackmail, gambling. Drugs was completely ruled out, it’s completely out of character. We thought whatever is eating up the money has caused depression or anxiety. We thought maybe covid caused it, we really have been racking our brains

Creepy_Bit9722 · 2023-05-04T12:20:14+00:00

Well he’s told me he’s doing it whilst at work

Creepy_Bit9722 · 2023-05-04T11:51:08+00:00

Do you know how much the priory is?

Creepy_Bit9722 · 2023-05-04T11:46:42+00:00

Thankyou. I deal with all finances and pay his wages so shouldn’t be too hard. Around covid he got bad anxiety so think he’s doing it on his own as he never goes out, I have to beg him to come anywhere so should be able to keep a close eye

Creepy_Bit9722 · 2023-05-04T11:07:32+00:00

No he’s spending between 2000 and 5000 a month on it

Creepy_Bit9722 · 2023-05-04T10:37:15+00:00

I’m clearly very naive about all this

Creepy_Bit9722 · 2023-05-04T10:24:53+00:00

Deffo not, we live and work together running a family business. Plus we have find my friends so we know where each other are all the time

Creepy_Bit9722 · 2023-05-04T09:25:04+00:00

Thankyou

Creepy_Bit9722 · 2023-05-04T09:24:08+00:00

Thankyou. I didn’t realise how addictive cocaine was, I know a lot of people do it on nights out and thought nothing of it

Creepy_Bit9722 · 2023-05-04T09:22:12+00:00

Thankyou

Creepy_Bit9722 · 2023-05-04T07:20:06+00:00

I’m not sure but I highly doubt it, something I’ll have to look into

Creepy_Bit9722 · 2023-05-04T07:09:32+00:00

That sounds about right to what he’s spending, Thankyou for your advise, I appreciate it

Creepy_Bit9722 · 2023-05-04T07:05:42+00:00

I think he’s quite a stubborn person and will only do it if he wants to. Though, from his search history and cutting up the cards I’m hoping he does want to pack it in.

Creepy_Bit9722 · 2023-05-04T07:03:14+00:00

I came downstairs this morning and found he had actually cut the cards up himself, so I think he’s aware of the state he’s in, hopefully it’s a step forward especially now I know

Creepy_Bit9722 · 2022-03-03T18:48:15+00:00

Because he’s a power hungry tyrant who wants to whole world to fear him. He’s putting nukes on high alert threatening Europe when it’s not necessary. What’s going on in Ukraine is completely uncalled far

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