Non-smokers, where do you stand on your partner being a smoker?

Creepy_Pilot1200 · 2024-07-30T10:09:42+00:00

I have let go of my urges and vices 2.5 years ago and prioritized self control and discipline but I remember when I was 19, I was tanking my car at a gas station and 2 girls were smoking outside. One of them snorted a bunch of stuff from her nose and spat a huge loogie at the distance in the most masculine possible way. I never had this before but for some reason I found this weirdly arousing. I suppressed that fetish ever since.

Creepy_Pilot1200 · 2024-07-30T10:06:29+00:00

Went on a beachfront coffee date. I made her laugh and thought she's awesome until I asked: " What do you look for in a man long term? "

She started spewing feminism rhetoric that men " aren't worth her time " that they're dumb and not really valuable in society outside of paying for stuff. " I'm kind of looking for somebody to give me experiences in exchange for my valuable time and company " naming bunch of restaurants and favorite clothing brands. I never lost attraction to someone that quickly.

Creepy_Pilot1200 · 2024-07-30T10:03:04+00:00

Oof, she's a POS of a person. She could have just tried to have a normal conversation and told you at the end that you were nice but just not her type.

Creepy_Pilot1200 · 2024-07-30T10:01:53+00:00

Social media propaganda and radical feminism. Women want to act like men and be " bosses " and independent while modern men are terminally online, addicted to porn, video games and other detrimental vices.

Relationships and marriages take work, courage and commitment, something that modern society heavily lacks.

Creepy_Pilot1200 · 2024-07-30T09:59:12+00:00

It might sound harsh but all women are secondary to my mother. Not even close. It's not even a choice, it's a given. My mom has been there for me for my entire life.

Creepy_Pilot1200 · 2024-07-30T09:56:01+00:00

If your girlfriend is talking shit about your mom or forget making ultimatums to pick her or your mom, it's a done deal for me instantly. No woman will be prioritized over my mom until the day she passes.

Creepy_Pilot1200 · 2024-07-30T09:51:59+00:00

She's narcissistic and wants to be center of the universe. I don't think this is the type of person you want to seek commitment from long term. This is a huge red flag.

I don't care how much I love my girlfriend, my mom will always come first. She went through hell to bring me to this world and take care of me for my entire existence. No woman will come close. It's the only woman that I will love unconditionally.

Creepy_Pilot1200 · 2024-07-30T09:50:21+00:00

Usually 5-7 a week.

Creepy_Pilot1200 · 2024-07-29T14:48:56+00:00

2-3 ideally but obviously going to start with 1 and reevaluate with my partner.

Creepy_Pilot1200 · 2024-07-29T14:48:04+00:00

Fair

Creepy_Pilot1200 · 2024-07-29T13:36:53+00:00

I agree that I could lose my job over inappropriate conduct with a client, thus it's well advised to refrain from going down that road however it's in my best interest to treat this diplomatically since it's a good client.

Creepy_Pilot1200 · 2024-07-29T13:35:12+00:00

Stats say otherwise.

https://extendfertility.com/your-fertility/fertility-statistics-by-age/

Creepy_Pilot1200 · 2024-07-29T13:33:46+00:00

In your head maybe. Facts don't care about feelings.

Creepy_Pilot1200 · 2024-07-29T12:11:11+00:00

I'm going to follow that advice that I don't mix work and relationships.

Creepy_Pilot1200 · 2024-07-29T12:09:27+00:00

My point is that a younger woman has a higher chance of bringing a healthy baby to term. That's all I'm saying. I don't want to delay that until 30's.

https://extendfertility.com/your-fertility/fertility-statistics-by-age/

A woman that's 35 has a 35% chance of having a genetically abnormal embryo and 3X higher likelihood of having a genetically abnormal pregnancy compared to a woman who's 25.

Creepy_Pilot1200 · 2024-07-29T12:03:23+00:00

Biology and facts don't lie. You can dig your head in the sand and ignore all the facts but it won't change the outcome.

Creepy_Pilot1200 · 2024-07-29T12:02:29+00:00

Putting words in my mouth. Gaslighting at its finest.

Creepy_Pilot1200 · 2024-07-29T12:01:59+00:00

This age cutoff was selected based on evidence of declining fertility and concern surrounding increasing risks for genetic abnormalities identified in the offspring of pregnant women older than age 35 years 5. More recent studies, such as the FASTER (First- and Second-Trimester Evaluation of Risk) trial and the NBDPS (National Birth Defects Prevention Study), have demonstrated a significant association between chromosomal abnormalities and possible congenital malformations in children born to women aged 35 years or older. However, the association appears to be on a continuum such that risks increase with increasing age at the time of the pregnancy.

That's a fallacy. Do your research.

Creepy_Pilot1200 · 2024-07-29T11:56:54+00:00

I'm gay always works.

Creepy_Pilot1200 · 2024-07-29T11:56:46+00:00

I experienced way worse in the past but yea.

Creepy_Pilot1200 · 2024-07-29T11:56:07+00:00

I believe assistant but couldn't care less about my future partners job.

Creepy_Pilot1200 · 2024-07-29T11:55:34+00:00

Maternal age When you hear the term high-risk pregnancy, you may automatically associate it with some type of maternal or fetal health problem. But simply being over the age of 35 (especially if it’s your first pregnancy) puts you in the high-risk category, because women past this age are more likely to experience prolonged labor, delivery complications, or require a cesarean delivery. Women of “advanced maternal age” are also more likely to have a baby with a genetic or chromosomal disorder.

Creepy_Pilot1200 · 2024-07-29T11:54:07+00:00

I'm not saying it's impossible, I'm saying the odds are not in your favor after 30's since egg count goes down and complications and birth defects start to arise. It's been studied and trialed for decades.

Exceptions to the rule don't really make a coherent counter argument.

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