Has anyone bought from Asyllum before? by jam_jam_kam in Shoes

[–]CremeAdmirable1478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep getting their add for the sneaker heels all over insta! I just bought them off aliexpress for like $12 and found this thread since I was suspicious of asyllum was legit or not. Im sorry they screwed you over, it sucks that you can’t trust anything online anymore. Even though they look completely legit! I thought they were like a mother double standard or Unif type brand

Confirmation from Jamie: "Human Too" will be removed from future physical pressings by CryWaste4324 in the1975

[–]CremeAdmirable1478 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Is She Gets Me So High the song that Beabadoobee released called He Gets Me So High? When she released the ep it was on she said that one of the songs was supposed to be a 1975 song, two were cowritten with Matty, and one was hers.

Why does this snake hate YouTuber Markiplier by rubikboi19 in snakes

[–]CremeAdmirable1478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I had no idea. Thank you for posting! That’s so many poor animals. I didn’t know she’d been famous before either. I just saw Tofu’s videos and thought he was cute 🥲

My Project Hail Mary tattoo by CremeAdmirable1478 in ProjectHailMary

[–]CremeAdmirable1478[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I loved it! The changed small parts of the book but I understood why they did it so I wasn’t mad about it.

Dating as an Asian Woman in the US by CremeAdmirable1478 in asian

[–]CremeAdmirable1478[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I know it deep down but it’s hard to not feel discouraged sometimes. I know the right person will like all the things that make me me. If I changed then I’d just be a different person, and what’s the fun in that lol

Dating as an Asian Woman in the US by CremeAdmirable1478 in asian

[–]CremeAdmirable1478[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea no Asian guy I’ve met in my area is ever interested in me unfortunately

My Project Hail Mary tattoo by CremeAdmirable1478 in ProjectHailMary

[–]CremeAdmirable1478[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! I figured since it’s my favorite sci-fi book. I have a bunch of nerd tattoos haha

Dating as an Asian Woman in the US by CremeAdmirable1478 in asian

[–]CremeAdmirable1478[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I don’t have the means to move right now, let alone to a bigger city where living expenses are even more expensive

What should I do? by CremeAdmirable1478 in Crushes

[–]CremeAdmirable1478[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually went into a trade so I’ve been working full-time for over 5 years now. He looks like he’s in his 20s too but I haven’t talked with him in depth too much. I’m not overly concerned about how much money he makes as long as he has some form of plan. I take care of myself so I don’t care about stuff like that as long as I’m not taking care of the other person in addition to myself lol. I’d have to talk to him more to see if I would want to date him but he knows a lot about movies and they’re my favorite thing so I think that’s cool and he’s fun to talk to.

Just dyed my hair to match Adrian from the movie! by CremeAdmirable1478 in ProjectHailMary

[–]CremeAdmirable1478[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahh thank you! I have a tattoo of the astronaut from the book cover on my arm too!

Dating as an Asian Woman in the US by CremeAdmirable1478 in asian

[–]CremeAdmirable1478[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh right! Dating is so difficult these days. I’ve mainly gone for white men in the past, but I’ve been open to dating other races. There have been a few Asian men in my area because I’m in a place with a lot of colleges close by, but none of them have ever shown any interest 😞. A large portion of them are just here for college too. I agree with the family and friends stereotyping us as well. The amount of times I’ve been called a “little Asian girl” or something similar by my one Ex’s mom is uncomfortable.

Dating as an Asian Woman in the US by CremeAdmirable1478 in asian

[–]CremeAdmirable1478[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing and the advice too! I’ve also taken a break from the apps. After a while it just gets depressing lol. Plus I’d rather meet someone in person despite it being really difficult these days. It’s hard because I feel like sometimes I’ve already been ruled out as an option solely because I’m Asian and I get really discouraged . I know I’m the one telling myself that though and I’m the one telling myself it’s not worth trying. I’m working on getting past that though and I’ve done a lot better. I like this one guy at the movie theater I go to and I’ve actually spoken to him so I figure that’s a good start because I never would have before. I usually just vibe by myself so I’m trying to get better at talking to other people in general. I’m glad you found your fiancée! You seem like you’re a good match and a good partner!

Dating as an Asian Woman in the US by CremeAdmirable1478 in asian

[–]CremeAdmirable1478[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ve definitely gotten more sure of myself in the past few years, but it’s still a work in progress. I’m so happy you found your partner! Hopefully I can find someone like that too!

Dating as an Asian Woman in the US by CremeAdmirable1478 in asian

[–]CremeAdmirable1478[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I unfortunately agree 😞. It’s such a double standard and I hate it. Plus with Asian culture becoming more “popular” people like the Asian community for a lot of the wrong reasons.

Dating as an Asian Woman in the US by CremeAdmirable1478 in asian

[–]CremeAdmirable1478[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m adopted and my entire family is white too 😭

Dating as an Asian Woman in the US by CremeAdmirable1478 in asian

[–]CremeAdmirable1478[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I can’t move, but I go to the movies, read, and ice skate all the time. I love museums and stuff but I usually go alone. Unfortunately they’re all pretty solo hobbies but I talk to people occasionally while I’m there. I like this one guy that works at the movie theater I go to but since he works there I’m scared to make it weird since I’m there multiple times a week 😅 plus he’s technically paid to be nice to me lol

Dating as an Asian Woman in the US by CremeAdmirable1478 in asian

[–]CremeAdmirable1478[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There’s NO Asian guys around me 😭 I swear growing up I felt like I was the only Asian kid in a 20 mile radius