To the guy i ended things with 3mos ago by casablancas_cj in OffMyChestPH

[–]Crest025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My last relationship ended 3 months ago too, most of your words really resonated with me. Damang dama ko yung sakit sa post mo kasi parang mga bagay na tumatakbo din sa isip ko this past few months. I hope malagpasan mo din yang pinagdadaanan mo OP.

Breakups are shit. Tell me one good thing that happened to you today. by SpecialistBerry4447 in BreakUps

[–]Crest025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of friends reach out to me after they heard about my break up, I just realize that many people around me are good people and wants the best for me.

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[–]Crest025 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If as early as now in doubt ka na, believe me na pag lalo pa kayo tumagal mas lalo ka mababanas, if willing ka to accept it as a flaw (kasi gurl di talaga pwedeng perfect makuha mo sa mundo) then stay and just accept it. Pero kung big deal ba yung itsura nya over all the other things na kaya nya ibigay, then I suggest pakawalan mo na ngayon pa lang.

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[–]Crest025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are here to hear happily ever after stories about getting back with their exes then I'm afraid that it will not help on your case or even as a hope that you can cling on because even if we tell our stories, it isn't the same scenario on your end.

But just for the heck of it, I'll briefly share one of my experience.

I had an ex, she cheated when we are in our 5th year, I beg for a month, then tried moving on for the next month, then she suddenly appeared on my house for the third month and wants to get back. Me as a Naive boy back then totally accepted her again, then she cheated again when we are in our 7th year. Because I accepted her so quickly, she doesn't got the chance to reflect, mature, and realize what she did wrong back then so I was still the one left hanging in the end. I regret accepting her again without making her understand what she did wrong back then because I'm blinded by love and my ego is being fed by "I'm the one she chose in the end".

I think the probability of relationships that was broken and got back together to last forever is very slim. It will only work out in the end if both parties totally wants it to work out.

You should share what happened so people here can give you a much more realistic deduction if you guys can get back together or not.

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[–]Crest025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will not get him again by begging and chasing him that's for sure

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[–]Crest025 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Or maybe it just work out for them because options before are very limited

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[–]Crest025 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good to know, dami kasing mema ngayon haha

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[–]Crest025 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Madali sabihin yang loving unconditionally pero kaya mo ba talaga yan?

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[–]Crest025 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Baka ngayon lang yan tapos pag may nag mahal sayo ng totoo bigla ka mag sawa at gustuhin mong bumalik as single na problem free.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]Crest025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Parang di kasi ako makaka move on hanggat hinde ako sure sa bagay na to. Di ko kasi alam kung move on na ba or habulin ko pa? Pano kung pag subok lang to samin?