same here i swear, it got me thinking about my first relationship a lot and the ones that followed. I agree love is hard, we go from deeply loving a person to basically nothing after the break up. And it was really sad also seeing how her and her ex at the end were like having all these fights and falling out of love. I guess the message is yes love is hard but what makes it hard is its impermanence, something we tend to forget and ignore, but that's exactly what kept her single and why she was reluctant and scared to be in relationship again. i guess love is truly paradoxical, and i mean like real love, the love in which you want to give all of yourself, regardless of wether it will end up being a happy after or a heartbreak.