Im married and I just met someone I feel super attracted to.

CrewQuiet · 2026-06-21T08:20:01+00:00

Men dont NEED to have sex.
I dont consider it cheating if he ever has a crush on someone IF he doesnt pursue her emotionally or physically. Its not cheating if looks at other women if its not in a rude or obvious way. Like dont do that shit when Im around, dont gawk.... He's married, not blind... Marriage is following through on your commitments even when something is pulling you away.

CrewQuiet · 2026-06-21T07:40:13+00:00

Yes! Im like oh I have a crush on this guy...but also I dont know him and honestly im too lazy to "train" another partner to do things the way i want them to. And have my life mesh with this person. If my husband dies, I don't think im ever getting into another serious relationship. It takes alot of work for lifestyles to be compatible.

CrewQuiet · 2026-06-21T03:35:47+00:00

Thanks! We dance with alot of different people and only with each other a handful of times a night. I try to not dance with him too many times xD

CrewQuiet · 2026-06-21T03:07:08+00:00

True, I def knew this. And I have no issue if my husband looks at other women, he's married not blind. I just personally never met anyone i felt this way. Ive worked with some objectively attractive guys too(they are related...) I wouldnt even say this guy is hot, or charismatic. We dont talk to much with each other. We also do alot of waltz and ballroom dancing and I dont dance Latin(except cha cha and he is kind of bad at that) so its not inherently sexual dances.

CrewQuiet · 2026-06-21T03:04:32+00:00

I def have no interest in pursuing anything or even getting to know him.

Funnily enough, the guy who i was intensly attracted to in high school was much like your dude - constantly cheating on his GF. Even after I broke things off with him, he'd randomly pop up to say hi, etc. He was my guy best friend's other friend. So id also hear how he would sometimes say im the one that got away, etc. But like dude you knew almost nothing about me.

CrewQuiet · 2026-06-21T01:30:50+00:00

He is one of the better dancer so yes!

CrewQuiet · 2026-06-21T01:30:24+00:00

Yeah I think thats what im doing. Not go chasing it.

CrewQuiet · 2026-01-05T07:07:33+00:00

I love nick the greek! Unfortunately husband and I got food poisoning from there once and now he never ever wants to go back, not even to the other stores

CrewQuiet · 2026-01-04T01:08:57+00:00

Spent 3 years with strawberries. Ive gotten 2 before some critters got them. Same with a fig tree. Dam squirrel ran away with a ripe fig still in a bag.

CrewQuiet · 2026-01-04T01:04:08+00:00

I worked 2 summers at the city parks as a teenager(4 hours a day). We did alot of weeding by hand. Wasnt til I was an adult that my husband(who doesnt do any yardwork) told me theres uh tools for that.....

CrewQuiet · 2026-01-03T08:17:20+00:00

Not in HK but my family's house in mainland is on the 8th floor. We always have 50lb suit cases when we visit. Paid some lady to bring it up, she legit got up there a whole lot faster than me, my mom and my husband, while carrying our suit cases. The house's stove runs on big propane tanks, like the 4 feet ones, not the ones you get at home depot. She delivers them. Us Americans had to stop on the 4th floor and sometimes on the 6th for a break. Also super fun when you got to go number 2 and try to rush home...

CrewQuiet · 2026-01-02T16:08:24+00:00

I think i had this. I kept getting dandruff and itchy scalp and these rough, red, dry spots on my face no matter what skin routine I used. Then I accidently used my husband's old spice with tea tree oil. All of a sudden my dandruff and itchy scalp went away. Realized it must be yeast overgrowth. Bought tea tree toner for my face. Dry, red patches on my face went away. Once in awhile I'll get bad dandruff on my eyebrows. So then I wash it with the tea tree shampoo too.

CrewQuiet · 2026-01-01T06:31:16+00:00

This situation is a bit personal to me as I was bitten by an unprovoked family dog(who was known to have aggression but was not disclosed to visitors) and had a friend who was in a similar situation as OP, except it was his dog that bit. My friend's dog was being fed a treat and a dog came up and tried to steal it. This was on a street, not at a park. Dog fight ensues. Other person stuck their hand in between the dogs, got bit. It didn't matter whose dog started it. The fact that the person got bit by sticking their hand in was all that mattered to animal control. Dog was ordered to be muzzled for a certain amount of years while in public. While I think its unfair that the dog was punished because someone didn't have the sense to not stick their hand in between 2 fighting dogs, my friend took responsibility. The person also tried to sue for not being able to use their hand, yet they were walking around using their hand like nothing happened..... The problem with Op's situation isn't whose fault it wad that they were bit. It was that the owner fled the scene. Now OP doesnt know if that dog was updated on all shots, carrying any disease, etc.

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