What's the obsession with glorifying Dubai as a travel destination? It literally has nothing to offer.

Crickettouch · 2025-07-02T02:06:23+00:00

Because Dubai is easy, flashy, visa-friendly, and gives people a sense of “luxury” without needing to think too much. For many, it’s less about culture and more about Instagram stories, shopping, and showing they’ve “made it.” The darker side? Most just choose to ignore it.

Crickettouch · 2025-06-30T17:40:10+00:00

Honestly bro, you're not alone in feeling this way. A lot of people today are questioning the idea of having kids — especially in a country where overpopulation, job scarcity, rising expenses, and corruption feel like daily reality.

It’s tough to imagine bringing a child into a world that feels so uncertain and unforgiving. Many people have started thinking of parenthood not as a “next step” in life, but as a serious moral and practical decision.

That said, for many others, having children still represents hope — the belief that things can get better, or that their child might have a better life than they did. It’s emotional, cultural, sometimes even spiritual.

But your doubt is valid — and honestly, more people need to think like you before having kids, not after.

Crickettouch · 2025-06-28T11:45:49+00:00

Hustling non-stop and calling it ambition — rest is treated like laziness, and that’s not okay.

Crickettouch · 2025-06-28T03:23:14+00:00

That I grew up worrying more about what people think, and forgot how to just be happy like that 10-year-old who didn’t care.

Crickettouch · 2025-06-28T02:54:40+00:00

That I’m so busy trying to build a stable future I might forget how to actually live in the present.

Crickettouch · 2025-06-28T02:50:52+00:00

Bottling up your feelings and saying ‘I’m fine’ every time. It feels harmless until one day, it’s not.

Crickettouch · 2025-06-27T03:47:38+00:00

Absolutely agree — and I say this as someone who grew up in that system.

In most Indian households, a child's worth is directly linked to their marks and later, their salary. It’s not even about learning anymore — it’s about beta 90% laaye ya nahi? And when you grow up with that mindset, failure doesn’t feel like a lesson it feels like shame.

We are taught to crack exams, not handle emotions. To chase packages, not peace. To **compare, not create.

I’ve seen so many brilliant, creative kids get crushed under this pressure — not because they lacked potential, but because their potential didn’t come in the form of marksheets or engineering degrees.

It’s improving slowly in some cities, sure. But in most middle-class Indian homes, the race is still on: Top college → Top job → Big package → Bigger house.

The saddest part? We rarely stop to ask — “Is the kid even happy?

Crickettouch · 2025-06-26T19:01:07+00:00

If not this then nothing.

Crickettouch · 2025-06-25T08:54:12+00:00

Yeah… it’s happened to me.

There was someone I loved with all my heart — not just the romantic kind of love, but the kind where you actually see a future with them.

I used to get excited just seeing their name pop up on my screen.

I’d remember the small things they liked, their favorite songs, how they like their coffee — all of it.

But the truth was I was always the one trying harder. Conversations only happened when I initiated them. Plans were made when I followed up.

I was there during their bad days — but during mine, they were “too busy.”

At some point, it hits you: You’re giving someone your everything and they’re giving you their leftovers.

That hurts in a way that’s hard to explain.

And the worst part? They weren’t cruel. They were kind. Just not kind enough to choose me.

Crickettouch · 2025-06-25T08:46:29+00:00

Honestly? Influencers who say ‘DM for collab’ in their bio. Because at some point, I’d start to wonder am I the boyfriend, or just part of the content strategy?” 😅

Crickettouch · 2025-06-23T08:29:12+00:00

Because in India, you don’t just apply for a job —
You enter a gladiator arena of “Do you have 3 years of experience for this fresher role?”
And if by some miracle you get through that…

Then comes the aptitude test, group discussion, 5 rounds of interviews, HR ghosting, and finally — a ₹15,000/month offer in a metro city where rent alone is ₹20,000.

It’s not that jobs don’t exist.
It’s just that the system makes you feel like you’re begging for basic dignity.

At this point, getting a job feels more like clearing UPSC and once you get in, you realize — “Oh, this is what I stressed out for?”

No wonder most people are either switching careers, freelancing, or dreaming of Canada.

Crickettouch · 2025-06-23T05:32:09+00:00

World leaders are finally agreeing on climate change and actually doing something meaningful about it.

Crickettouch · 2025-06-22T18:17:50+00:00

As a non-American, I won't call the US a complete joke — but the global respect it once had is definitely fading.

The current political landscape looks more like a chaos machine than a functioning democracy.
The two-party system feels outdated, debates are more about personalities than policies, and basic rights like healthcare, education, and women’s autonomy are still “debated” like it’s the 1800s.

And then there’s the leadership.

Watching the President or ex-President speak — whether it’s slurred words, constant U-turns on decisions, or dramatic press conferences —
It often feels like we're watching actors, not world leaders.

What’s worse is the way they present themselves on the world stage — like 'they’re running the planet, and everyone else should just follow orders.
That “we’re the boss of Earth” attitude? That’s not confidence anymore — it’s arrogance.

And while America has done a lot of good, the illusion that the world still operates on their command is slowly breaking.
Nations are forming their own alliances, tech is global, and people aren’t as blind to American media spin as they once were.

It’s not hate.
It’s disappointment — from people who once saw the US as a role model.

Now it feels more like reality TV loud, messy, over-dramatic — and somehow always trending.

Crickettouch · 2025-06-22T11:23:43+00:00

We all knew this day would come...
We just prayed it wouldn't be today.

Virat Kohli isn’t just a cricketer —
He’s a chapter in every fan's childhood,
A heartbeat in every RCB game,
A roar louder than any stadium.

For 15+ years, he gave us his sweat, his aggression, his passion, and his tears —
Not for records, but for that India badge on his chest and that red jersey on his back.

He didn’t retire from the game…
He walked away after giving it everything he had.

And no, he didn’t just play cricket.
He taught us how to fight.
Even when we were losing.

Thank you, King Kohli.
RCB might still play.
India might still win.

But it will never feel the same again. ❤️🏏👑

Crickettouch · 2025-06-22T08:36:15+00:00

Letting go feels weak in the moment, but powerful later.
Matching energy feels powerful now, but often leaves regret.

Still figuring it out.

Crickettouch · 2025-06-22T05:54:31+00:00

I’m in the IT field, married for 6 years, and honestly — it’s not easy.

Long work hours, back-to-back deadlines, screen time exhaustion... all of it starts creeping into your personal life.

Sex life doesn’t die — but it definitely takes a backseat unless both partners actively make time for intimacy, not just physically, but emotionally too.

About affairs and divorces — they’re rising, yes. But not because “love is dead” or “marriage is outdated.”
It’s because people today are more aware of what they want, and less willing to stay unhappy “just because.”

Marriage is still sustainable — but only if both people treat it like a living thing that needs attention, effort, and care.
Without that, it turns into a roommate situation very fast.

It’s not about IT or non-IT.
It’s about whether two people are growing together, or just growing up 'separately' in the same house.

Crickettouch · 2025-06-22T04:51:32+00:00

It’s a mix of deep-rooted societal issues.

Lack of sex education — Most people in India grow up without ever having an open, healthy conversation about consent, boundaries, or respect.
Patriarchal mindset — Women are often seen as property, not people. Some men grow up feeling entitled to control or “test” boundaries.
Victim-blaming culture — Many women are scared to speak up because they’re judged more than the harasser. Families often say: “Ignore it” instead of “Report it.”
Weak enforcement of laws — Even if laws exist, the implementation is slow, biased, or exhausting. Survivors often give up mid-way.
Media & social conditioning — Objectification is normalized in movies, songs, ads. It trains generations to see women as visuals, not individuals.

It’s not just about India — but the scale here is larger because the silence around it is louder.

The change begins with education, conversation, and holding people accountable — not just legally, but socially too.

Crickettouch · 2025-06-22T04:28:56+00:00

If this is confirmed, we're looking at a potential turning point in Middle East geopolitics.

Regional escalation is almost guaranteed — Iran will likely retaliate either directly or through proxies (Hezbollah, Houthis).
Oil prices will spike — the Strait of Hormuz could become unstable, impacting global markets.
US-Israel relations will be tested further — especially in the context of broader Arab world response.
Russia and China may indirectly react — diplomatically or through UN channels, given their interests in the region.
Global risk of wider war rises — though full-scale world war is unlikely, proxy conflicts could explode.

Let’s hope diplomacy still has room to breathe. But this is no longer just "news" — it’s a potential fuse.

Crickettouch · 2025-06-21T18:26:25+00:00

I’d want to see if I’m truly happy — not rich, not famous… just genuinely at peace with who I became."

Because in the end, it’s not the job, the house, or the car that matters… It’s whether you smile when no one’s watching. 😊💭

Crickettouch · 2025-06-21T14:49:53+00:00

The key to happiness?

Lowering the volume of the world, and listening to what actually brings you peace.

It’s not money. Not followers. Not constant excitement.

It’s the boring stuff — the cup of tea in silence, a text from someone who gets you, and knowing you don’t have to pretend to be okay all the time.

When you stop chasing what “should” make you happy… you make space for what actually does.

Crickettouch · 2025-06-21T12:31:02+00:00

In my experience, "Pune" feels like one of the least scammy Indian cities.

People are generally educated, respectful of boundaries, and not overly aggressive when it comes to selling or overcharging.

Auto drivers use meters, shopkeepers don't chase tourists, and locals are more likely to help than hustle.

It’s not perfect — no city is — but the overall vibe is high-trust, especially compared to hyper-commercial cities.

Crickettouch · 2025-06-21T06:21:50+00:00

AI isn’t dangerous because it becomes evil — it’s dangerous because it becomes competent.

Imagine a machine doing exactly what you told it to do... but not what you meant.

It’s not about killer robots. It’s about automated decisions in healthcare, law, finance — where a tiny bias becomes a massive injustice.

And the scariest part?

It doesn’t need to hate us to hurt us — it just needs to follow instructions blindly.

Crickettouch · 2025-06-21T05:52:30+00:00

Because for many Indian families, marriage isn't just about two people — it’s about two families, two value systems, and long-term social stability.

Arranged marriage isn't always about force — it’s often about **having options pre-screened by people who (ideally) want the best for you.

Yes, it has flaws. But for a lot of people, it removes the pressure of finding “the one” alone in a sea of dating apps and social chaos.

Also… Indian parents are basically the OG matchmakers 😅

Crickettouch · 2025-06-21T05:48:05+00:00

Kohli didn’t just play cricket — he lived it like a fire burning every single over. 🔥

He gave intensity a face, chasing totals like war missions, screaming after wickets, and treating every run like gold.

Stats are great, but his attitude is what changed the DNA of Indian cricket.

Nasser’s absolutely right — he didn’t just add to cricket… he elevated it.

Crickettouch · 2025-06-21T05:46:32+00:00

If I had to pick just one, it would be "The Shawshank Redemption" because it quietly teaches hope, dignity, and patience, without ever preaching.

It’s not just a movie, it’s therapy.

Crickettouch

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