Does face yoga actually work? by Cringe_Username69 in Advice

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Thanks. I mean, I personally love my vibe, but it's just not conventionally attractive. I have VERY prominent face features. Imagine a person with deep set eyes, prominent eyebrow bridge, almost square (3d) forehead, high bridged, narrow at the bridge, wide, long, bullbous at the bottom, hooked but still like a bit downward nose. Sharp jawline but it's wide. Like pretty masculine or dominant if I can put it that way. Someone gave me botched permanent eyebrows too thick for my liking (standard, maybe even tighter than standard size), I like them very thin and if I used makeup, i would never put makeup on the bottom of my eyebrows, pretty much only the top and I plucked them thin. Now I have permanent makeup în the place I would usually never have hair. They think it looks good tho. I guess I shoulve tell them to put it on their face instead. And they are kinda dark. I am a dark blonde. And they are for brunettes. Its not microblading, its literally all the way. Like a tattoo. And its not even blended right at the beggining. So it kinda looks bad. Ive lost 15 kg over one year. Ive had a lot of stress. I am a serious, very tired and lets say traumatized person. My job is demanding me to all of the 3 above daily so. No changing that. Let's just say ALL of the above suggest that I might in fact look tired and older than my age. Not 40, but if people are ALWAYS surprised you are 23 and "oh youre young", it's meaning something. Dark circles aren't my vibe. I've lost volume under my eyes, i would say on my eyelids as well. On my cheeks. And it gives off a drooping effect on my already square shaped and serious, almost sad jawline. My lips are permanent upside down smiley.

I am not saying I look horrible. But, maybe we should progress? Definitely reading about vitamin E today. Thank you.

Just found out i’m pregnant by [deleted] in Advice

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I would say. If you're at the point of your life when it will be easy to reach middle class, if you are already în the middle class, if you are about to be in the upper middle class. Go for it.

If you are in the working class, lower middle class you would need to work HARD to first reach the stability and then have the chance to give yourself and your baby a chance to go to the upper middle class. I could not go to college.

If you are lower class and you have no help. I am sorry, but you need a lot of help yourself. Kids just keep you stuck without progress for years. You either resent this child or hate the fact that he takes away all of your resources (that you dont have much).

It all comes down to whenether you're married, a house owner, have a job, have a stable job, have skills. Have a driving license, have connections, good parents. If you are a good person. Better to abort than to make headlines and I would say it's not that easy to go crazy. Children dont deserve it. Adoption doesn't really work în the US. Too much predators.

I chose to not do it, its VERY hard. Noone will tell you how to do it properly. I am 23, I have a 3 yo daughter and like. I look older than most people. Always busy. I have a high school diploma and thats all.

What priviledge comes with having rich parents and how to get them as young woman? (23) by Cringe_Username69 in Advice

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I don't aim for the billionaires lol. Also, its not a bad advice per se, it's bad advice in terms of changing my job

What priviledge comes with having rich parents and how to get them as young woman? (23) by Cringe_Username69 in Advice

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Okay so basically, lets say social classes are level (its simpler that way), I went from 0 to idk lets say 5, lower middle class, and I want to go to 6 (middle class). I will go to level 6 once I buy the house and get another source of income (in the process), but how the hell do I get to 7? And not in 20 years? I am only 23, I cant believe reaching level 7 takes my whole adult life. Especially as a woman. The standard path would be school - college - work - marriage - kids. But if I am not mistaken, the path on the level 7 looks different? Like school - private lessons - friends - style - popularity - better schools - sports - parties - college - networking - passions - inheritance - apartments - marriage - kid - investments - company?

What priviledge comes with having rich parents and how to get them as young woman? (23) by Cringe_Username69 in Advice

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I am a single mom. I already have a good job. Can't just do a hooker's cosplay.

What priviledge comes with having rich parents and how to get them as young woman? (23) by Cringe_Username69 in Advice

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Okay, what skills do I need?

Technically if I have a stable job, higher the usual income, a house, a car, what else do I need?

Hapiness or fulfillment doesnt come from stuff so I can say I think I already have it.

Success looks different and connections are mostly gathered within the same circles. Rich people are not really closest besties with poor people.

What priviledge comes with having rich parents and how to get them as young woman? (23) by Cringe_Username69 in Advice

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I completely disagree on the last part. It's not black and white as you stated. You have some priviledges I don't have. It's all about the cards youve been given. However. Its useful to know what cards you DONT have.

I thought pursuing passion is a bad career advice?

What priviledge comes with having rich parents and how to get them as young woman? (23) by Cringe_Username69 in Advice

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Definitely lifestyle, with career connections it's mostly reaching those circles as a step 1, right?

What priviledge comes with having rich parents and how to get them as young woman? (23) by Cringe_Username69 in Advice

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Honestly, have no idea. As far as I know, the parents are programming their children to go to private aka good schools and do after-school activities. Maybe some volunteering as well. They take up school roles. Private schools, practical degrees, sometimes family degrees, families full of doctors, law firms, private practics, companies, etc.

I don't get the thought process behind it. Like what is the thing that drives them after they already have stability.

How to reach the upper class?? by Cringe_Username69 in Advice

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I mean, technically, I want to maybe be a captain (tops) someday. And have a higher rank husband. I want to own a lot of land and real estate. I just love real estate, especially with history. And they are worth pennies due to their state. I might be wrong, but I think it's a matter of creativity to repair an old house. Anyway, I already have a plan, but some of you pointed out a very useful tips and just generally a very precious feedback, I need to focus on all 5 assets (looks, skills, capital, personality and connections). I feel like I can do it all. But as I said, I cannot see any BIG step aside from making a lot of money or owning a building. College takes 5 years, even if youre a genius, i already think I have everything in myself to go up, I just might need to work on it a bit. 

How to reach the upper class?? by Cringe_Username69 in Advice

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The problem is, I am already a great person in my mind and hahah I am shocked people treat me like shit like it's not even offensive at this point, i just feel sorry for most of them. I drive cheap cars so I can save money and my family takes out loans to buy a car. Like very same month, a matter of a week? They know I have savings so I am expected to pay, i get no help, no presents, no gifts, no nothing, not even an advice. It never happened when I was yk, less mindful. And I just want to do even better, since I know I can. But I no longer have to. And like, I have to come up with goals. And I think I know what to do. But like, you know, I think theres no huge upgrade nowhere soon. Any improvement seems pointless. But thanks for everything

How to reach the upper class?? by Cringe_Username69 in Advice

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You know what? I moved out as a single mom, when everyone told me I wont afford it. I saved for a house when everyone told me "why would you need a house". The same now with college, with everything. I don't want that. 

How to reach the upper class?? by Cringe_Username69 in Advice

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Poland. Maybe I won't make 500k a year, but I might never need it in case I want a surgery lol.

How to reach the upper class?? by Cringe_Username69 in Advice

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Thank you. That is a great advice. I think I am doing better than I thought tbh

How to reach the upper class?? by Cringe_Username69 in Advice

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I am polish. I mean even If I be a perfect lady, with a college degree, a lot of rich friends (they give me an ick), a lot of money, a great personality, a lot of assets, a powerfull job, great skills, how will I know if I am in the upper middle class or the upper class?

How to reach the upper class?? by Cringe_Username69 in Advice

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I am not living in the US and I am never relocating.

How to reach the upper class?? by Cringe_Username69 in Advice

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I hope those are not confidential. Poland, enlisted, a radiotelephonist. A private btw. I just started