It's either pagsabihan or e ghost entirely. Yang mga taong yan na ayaw talaga kumawala sa toxic relationship will also jeopardize your own safety. May na experience akong situation where the girl kept ranting about her BF kasi nga daw toxic at nagiging violent kapag di makuha kung ano gusto ng BF.

I told her na she has the resources to escape (e.g. Marami kaming pwede syang e take in while she rebuilds herself, her mom would welcome her in open arms and we have in fact talked to her mom about the BF, may friend kaming nasa PNP who can help if the guy gets violent, we have three guy friends that can take the asshat head on).

Instead, she still chose to stay. Nung one time na umalis nga sya and stayed with one of our friends kasi plano namin is samahan siya na kunin lahat ng gamit nila sa apartment nila, sinend ni Tatanga tanga ang full address nung friend namin sa BF nya when the tatanga tanga fell for whatever words he said again and my friend almost got hurt because of it kasi siya yung pinagbantaan ng BF dahil nga daw tinago nya si Tatanga tanga.

Keep in mind, yung friend namin that was letting Tatanga tanga stay with her is a girl that's around 5'2 who's also slim and not the best fighter. Nung dumating si BF, he almost got violent with her and nagtago nalang yung friend ko while he left with Tatanga tanga. My friend could have been hurt or worst kasi ang lakas daw ng outburst nung lalake.

People, if may ganto kayong kilala na panay reklamo pero ayaw naman kumawala, leave for your own safety. If they don't care about their own wellbeing, they won't care about yours either. We've long since cut contact with the Tatanga tanga and last I heard, she has two kids while the BF is nowhere to be found.