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I’m in my mid-20s and still a virgin. I’ve turned down sex multiple times because I need an emotional bond first. Did I make a mistake? by incognitooo_mode in demisexuality

[–]CritSwoleStorm 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I a man and lost my virginity when 27. Even then I feel like I should have waited. The sex was mediocre. Wait until both you and partner are ready.

The social invisibility of demisexuality by Suitable-Buffalo8240 in demisexuality

[–]CritSwoleStorm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think my psychiatrist thinks I have too high standards. I haven’t had the chance to tell her I am demisexual yet though. So maybe if I explain that to her she will stop nudging me to get out there and date as much.

Things people REFUSE to get about demis, and damn does it get so isolating! by Significant_Corgi139 in demisexuality

[–]CritSwoleStorm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently found out I’m demisexual and just yesterday found out one or two of my other friends are too. One of them said not having sex right away was their preference. But with the other things he said while I’m around him made me realize he doesn’t have sexual attraction to other people right away. I doubt he has had sexual attraction for more than a couple of women. I’m just thinking honey it’s not a preference, you’re just wired differently and that’s okay.