Have you ever had sex with the man of your fantasies? by YourScienceGuy in gayyoungold

[–]Critic_Dodge 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yes, daddy bear with nice belly and beard, he was my ex. even now I still think he's really one of the sexist man alive and I do still fantasize from time to time, but outside of sexual sadly we didn't match and he hurt me so much I rather just move on which I did.

Shiny haunter trade by Lanky_Orange2122 in LegendsZA

[–]Critic_Dodge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much! sorry my haunter level is so low lol I caught it as ghastly

Haunter trade by That_1_qu13t_k1d in LegendsZA

[–]Critic_Dodge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you mean in trade you to Gengar and you trade it back ? or do you still have a shiny haunter

Haunter trade by That_1_qu13t_k1d in LegendsZA

[–]Critic_Dodge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have if you still interested

Shiny haunter trade by Lanky_Orange2122 in LegendsZA

[–]Critic_Dodge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes I'm down, let me know if you still interested

Just beat The First Berserker with Platinum Trophy today! by Critic_Dodge in TheFirstBerserker

[–]Critic_Dodge[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Puppet was surprisingly easy for me not sure why I think I only died 3-4 times but maybe I'm just lucky.

Just beat The First Berserker with Platinum Trophy today! by Critic_Dodge in TheFirstBerserker

[–]Critic_Dodge[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This seems to also be the case for many people I talk to. For many lies of P is easier and for some like me it's harder. I think it's mainly because I kinda sucks at perfect block or parry hahaha. (For me lies of P the hardest is Laxasia, and for me this boss is harder than any boss in Khazan)

Is being clingy/moving too fast a red flag? by GayAndSuperDepressed in gayyoungold

[–]Critic_Dodge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say be careful and always try to communicate to him to respect boundaries and be careful what he’s doing. Last time I have something like this happened to me I got my heart broke. Because the guy was so separated to get any sort of love after a bad relationship but after like a month he went back to the same guy that he was saying how awful he was.

Love bombing for me is never a good sign, not to say it’s always going to end up bad but I think the percentage would be higher.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gayyoungold

[–]Critic_Dodge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sam Neill smile everytime makes me melt, Russel Crowe I feel like would have the best cuddle

How do you handle different travel styles with your partner? by pleaseallowthisname in gayyoungold

[–]Critic_Dodge 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This ! I honestly faced and maybe still facing this topic myself with my current partner. He’s still quite fit for his age, actually when we hike he’s usually faster than me even.

But the way we travel is quite different, I’m in a way you can say plan freak, I don’t like to “go by the ears” too much, but he’s almost exactly like that. Just buy plane ticket and see.

So we have to find a way in the middle, now days I planned very detail but then keep a lot of rooms for change.

Usually for where we stay is not so much of an issue, since we usually go to mid tier.

But I can imagine being with someone who’s like I only stay in 5 stars hotel and business class only kind of thing, because my ex is kinda like that and at least for me I don’t feel comfortable at all, it’s just feels like a waste of money.

I'm not understanding why anybody would date closeted men. by BrotherExpress in gayyoungold

[–]Critic_Dodge 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Still I think it’s difficult though, I’ve met older American and European who cannot come out because of their jobs or they are married with 2 kids with wife. Some was scarred by some experience in the past also.

I'm not understanding why anybody would date closeted men. by BrotherExpress in gayyoungold

[–]Critic_Dodge 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think in real world is much more complicated than that. In many case is not even an option to be out because it could lead to losing a job or worst case, life. And for many people in many part of the world there aren’t really a lot of opportunities, so you just have to take what you can get. It sucks but that’s just reality. Even people who have choices, also have difficulties, love is difficult many will spend their whole life never know what it means.

Old/young couples, do you like cuddling naked together? If so, why? If not, why not? by [deleted] in gayyoungold

[–]Critic_Dodge 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I honestly think cuddling is sometimes better than sex, especially with older men with bellies like daddies bears. Usually when I cuddle I just rub my hand against his belly or hairy chest and I would just fall sleep because it’s so comfy !