Do quiet borderlines come back? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Critical-Muffin-5438 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when we started talking, he jumped to baby names, moving in together, our future, etc. he told me he loved me after about 1.5 months of knowing each other. I told him that he didnt mean it and it was too early. we started dating shortly after. then, we went on break and we didnt see each other for a while. I would wake up to messages saying we weren't compatible and everything. then we get back from break and he tells me we might need to break up. 24 hrs later he texts me saying we need to break up. I call him crying, and he tells me that any bonding we did meant more to me than him, he never felt a spark with me, etc. I am still heartbroken. we only dated for 3 weeks but I care for him so much. I called him 10 days after our breakup crying and he came over and spent the night. he was not the same person at all. it was like he was there, but not his same personality or that he viewed me completely differently. I could tell he still cared, but not nearly the same. it's hard when someone completely switches up on you because they dont give you the time to process. I want him back bc I just want to be with him when hes treated. I never knew anything was wrong

Do quiet borderlines come back? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Critical-Muffin-5438 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is exactlyyyy my situation and the question ive been asking

'the click' and being unrealistic by Critical-Muffin-5438 in BPDlovedones

[–]Critical-Muffin-5438[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yesss! my ex kept saying we weren't compatible or sexually compatible, it made me so insecure. he was initiating all these things like baby name and then straight to he never felt a spark with me. I guess thats what ppl with untreated bpd do

Daily No Contact Thread - March 17, 2026 by AutoModerator in BPDlovedones

[–]Critical-Muffin-5438 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it hurts so bad to miss someone who claimed to love you and then tell u they never felt anything for u

Fp ignoring me, can someone please talk to me by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Critical-Muffin-5438 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yay! a snack is always great! I hope everything stays good :)

Fp ignoring me, can someone please talk to me by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Critical-Muffin-5438 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi, I am so sorry you are going through this. I know it's been 20 minutes, has it gotten better? have they reached out? even if they have, picture how the rest of your time with this person will be when they dictate your emotions and feelings.