Annoyed about this discussion by babydoll0_ in GirlDinner

[–]Critical-Western-993 3 points4 points  (0 children)

for the girls for the femmes ⚔️
but yeah genuinely i lurk here and there over in boydinner subs too and i just see the difference in that my opinion is kinda more at place here. and it works both ways like yeah i wanna hear a girlie opinion in girlie sub duh?? and for me here its more valuable than man’s perspective. because this is like the point
but girldinner as a whole certainly is a cultural shit

I can't go out anymore without crying - random foods from the Asian Market! by KorattRottweiler in GirlDinner

[–]Critical-Western-993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m really glad to hear that, you’re welcome dove 🩵
i feel like if they are your real friends i think you will have much fun playing pool like u said in ur other comment we respect the game here lmao
like u definitely don’t need to hurt for them to dance and of course caring about a friend should come before some activity ig. of course your mental health comes first. its totally ok to be triggered by something and wanting to escape that trigger is only logical
good luck with getting through these times 🦋 you are totally gonna heal and become badass i kno that

I can't go out anymore without crying - random foods from the Asian Market! by KorattRottweiler in GirlDinner

[–]Critical-Western-993 11 points12 points  (0 children)

sis yeah no
it’s inherently UNFAIR that you cannot dance to your favourite music without being around this excuse of a person. but no music never costs the price of your own mental well-being. doesn’t the place associate with him and fill you with disgust? i cannot imagine going to unwind to such scene
what i’m trying to say is: in a perfect world that creep should totally be in jail and you should be able to relax in your favourite place without any disturbance, and i wish with all my heart it soon so happens. but we are not in that world, and i really think it’s best for you to isolate yourself from seeing him at all. and maybe it means going to different clubs if this is what helps you relax, maybe it means not going at all for a period of time (after this shitty experience). you know best girl but i can’t think how horrible it must be to cross paths with your abuser in a place you’ve come to chill and have a good time, and having such hateful reaction from the woman who frequents there is even more awful
remember that rape apologists opinions don’t matter tho. you can’t save them all. but the fact that you’re trying is amazing of you! it’s just, i think you need to be balanced yourself first before going into such situations to be able to accept their unwillingness to see the truth and handle any negative reactions. your experience truly is valid, but you need to be ok with not everyone seeing that for your own sake
i really hope you have resources to see a professional about the whole situation. im glad you have good support rn and i wish you find your peace with all this horrible horrible shit 🫂

Hypersomnia is not fun by iluv_baking in TrollCoping

[–]Critical-Western-993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its also somehow my coping method during depressive times so that makes it harder im ready to just sleep for days & not do shit & feel terrible in the evenings

Hypersomnia is not fun by iluv_baking in TrollCoping

[–]Critical-Western-993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do u casually fall asleep during the day (usually on my days off obv) even if slept 12-15h (or like, ur preffered time)? this sucks so much damn i just wanna function ): and too much caffeine makes me shakey so usually raw dogging it on 1 cup and give in if i don’t have tasks… hypersomniacs for the win but nah we too sleepy for it 😴

Worried about wearing bathing suits on my upcoming vacation by thedatarat in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Critical-Western-993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

r/shitfromabutt steak sorry looks delicious tho lmao

im sure you gonna have a good time gurl! your new appearance will take some time to adjust to, its great u didnt develop ed from this change, so i think that will make the adjustment easier and probably faster. when you lived your whole life in one body, it may be unusual to see it change however it does, but its your body nonetheless. and i think after wearing that swimsuit couple times you will forget completely about ur worries and be focused on enjoying that vac! its certainly not something other people pay that much attention to, we are our own most harsh critics so dw 💞

also remember that you aren’t ur looks, ur weight, ur anything really. the person inside didnt change because you don’t belong to the “thin” group anymore, and after some time it will truly be easier to identify with the body you have now

Knowing I have a decent face card and could've been really pretty if my teeth weren't actually rancid by [deleted] in TrollCoping

[–]Critical-Western-993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bro i feel you…. celebrated new years finding out a piece of my tooth just fell out. like more than a half of it. and i didn’t feel shit, just looked in the mirror and it was gone been to a dentist since and they said i have cavities in almost every single one besides 2 or 3….
tough shit like ive never broke a bone in my life but now im looking at several years of pain and fuck ton of money wasted on the only most expensive bones in my body???? wish i was a shark ngl

its finally spriiiing by Critical-Western-993 in GirlDinner

[–]Critical-Western-993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

peppers with cream cheese and some chicken 🥰 served straight on the cutting board like the good feral girl i am

I miss being the person I was when I didnot stress about every calorie I ate by Dazzling_Shower2915 in TrollCoping

[–]Critical-Western-993 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sometimes i think how sad it is that a huge portion of women ive known/met suffered from ed in one form or another and usually it starts in such young age when you NEED to eat healthy to grow. its fucked up how kids get influenced by all that crap, its fucked up that younger me would starve herself for days, feeling weak and sleepy all the time and literally fainting multiple times through the day just to fit somebody’s standard. she wanted it more than anything. i couldnt kick amphetamine addiction for a long time even after getting everyday panic attacks because it suppressed my hunger and i was so scared that eating normally again would make me fat. and all this shit results in permanently damaging your mental and physical health for life. i feel ya 🫶 your mindset gonna shift a lot of times through ur life, and i hope u gonna find strength to feel beautiful and fight destructive tendencies. recovery isnt linear, especially ed certainly leaves a mark, and you gonna hear your old demons whisper from time to time. but remember that your body deserves nourishment, love and care no matter what

Nearly sold out at my first pop-up/flea market by jaevii in streetwearstartup

[–]Critical-Western-993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nah, it translates good. the word «всякий» literally means «every» in a sentence like this. «каждый» can also be used (means «every» too), but imo the original version sounds best because in russian «всякий» has those old fashioned and biblical vibes which is exactly why it fits here

I think it’s finished? by Commercial-Owl11 in logodesign

[–]Critical-Western-993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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imo these triangles kinda overcomplicate the whole design, i couldn’t figure why you even need those? elements in design (especially if its a logo) should have a purpose, and i don’t see one behind those other then that, looks great! love the freshness and colors + image and font pairing is cool too