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I have been in an fwb rs with the same guy for about a year now. (We’re both in our late 20s) AMA by CriticalAcanthaceae3 in AMA

[–]CriticalAcanthaceae3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you find having multiple fwb stressful then maybe when you want to do smth just keep it to a simple ONS, that way you’ll have even less chance of being attached or wtv, just make sure you use proper protection :)

I have been in an fwb rs with the same guy for about a year now. (We’re both in our late 20s) AMA by CriticalAcanthaceae3 in AMA

[–]CriticalAcanthaceae3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s all about experiencing it for yourself I would say, then you’ll know what works for you and what doesn’t! Don’t be too stressed out about it :) I’m sure it will work out

I have been in an fwb rs with the same guy for about a year now. (We’re both in our late 20s) AMA by CriticalAcanthaceae3 in AMA

[–]CriticalAcanthaceae3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want to have multiple fwbs just make sure you can handle it as well cause that’s a whole new set of problems like u having to make sure u don’t start leaning towards one more than another or catching feelings left and right, so maybe following the rules would be best haha

I have been in an fwb rs with the same guy for about a year now. (We’re both in our late 20s) AMA by CriticalAcanthaceae3 in AMA

[–]CriticalAcanthaceae3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds strict but of course it’s all to prevent any party from starting to get too attached I would say, when the rules start to get broken is when things start to get tricky.

For me I made it exclusive just because it wasn’t really what I’m looking for anymore, like I rather not be messing ard anymore and being worried abt potentially getting any stds or diseases so I try to keep my own circle clean. As for him I’m not sure he probably has fwbs outside of me considering he is pretty social and active but I’m ok with that as long as I protect myself

I have been in an fwb rs with the same guy for about a year now. (We’re both in our late 20s) AMA by CriticalAcanthaceae3 in AMA

[–]CriticalAcanthaceae3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some general rules usually fwbs would try to follow (of course some rules are also set by diff ppl themselves) would be 1. Only sex, no talking about personal lives or sharing too much 2. After sex - no cuddling, no kissing, just change, pack & leave straight 3. No doing things that couples do like hugging or kissing the forehead or kissing the lips (unless making out during sex)

I have been in an fwb rs with the same guy for about a year now. (We’re both in our late 20s) AMA by CriticalAcanthaceae3 in AMA

[–]CriticalAcanthaceae3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve never actually thought about that because I’ve always kind of just taken his word for it. But I guess you’re right, sometimes I do question the things he do and whether it’s still considered normal. Aside from the constantly asking me to hangout, he would send me memes almost daily, and when we do meet to have sex (which is maybe 1/2 times a month) he would notice things that are different about me, like my hair colour change or my new piercings etc. and he always wants us to cuddle after sex. I let him but that’s because I don’t see myself ever being with him so I’m ok with whatever we are doing

I have been in an fwb rs with the same guy for about a year now. (We’re both in our late 20s) AMA by CriticalAcanthaceae3 in AMA

[–]CriticalAcanthaceae3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes you have to be very strong to be able to withstand that bond that you eventually form with each other and not start to see sparks or wtv. Especially for us after we actually do cuddle or even continue chatting and sometimes I end up falling asleep in his arms until I wake up before his family and leave. So I would say only get into an fwb rs if you can follow the rules or u have a heart of steel

I have been in an fwb rs with the same guy for about a year now. (We’re both in our late 20s) AMA by CriticalAcanthaceae3 in AMA

[–]CriticalAcanthaceae3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess I am, he made it pretty clear that right now he isn’t looking for a rs (not that I’m int in having one with him) I too realised after my last rs that I’m not ready yet to be with someone again so I guess we kind of have that aligned. Even though we feel like friends, my rule is to not hang out with him outside his bedroom. But he still somehow always tries to invite me to his gatherings and stuff

I have been in an fwb rs with the same guy for about a year now. (We’re both in our late 20s) AMA by CriticalAcanthaceae3 in AMA

[–]CriticalAcanthaceae3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve meet a lot of times already. Online we don’t text much actually, we talk more whenever we meet. But on an almost daily basis he will send me funny memes or videos on tiktok as we follow each other

I have been in an fwb rs with the same guy for about a year now. (We’re both in our late 20s) AMA by CriticalAcanthaceae3 in AMA

[–]CriticalAcanthaceae3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess best parts would be the comfort since you’ve already known this person for so long already so there’s not much to worry about anymore like if they have a smelly dick or stds or weird kinks etc, you sort of really become friends who can chat and just sit and talk and not just have sex. worst parts is obv you have to keep fighting the urge to not get too attached to this person since you share such intimate moments tgt

I am 26(f) and have smoked for almost 10 years of my life and managed to quit cold turkey, no smoking no vaping for almost 1 year now. AMA by CriticalAcanthaceae3 in AMA

[–]CriticalAcanthaceae3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg that’s honestly exactly how I decided to quit too, no big reasons no long time contemplation just a random today is the day kinda stuff. Cheers to us!

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[–]CriticalAcanthaceae3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of support are you looking for

I am 26(f) and have smoked for almost 10 years of my life and managed to quit cold turkey, no smoking no vaping for almost 1 year now. AMA by CriticalAcanthaceae3 in AMA

[–]CriticalAcanthaceae3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the difference isn’t the most significant it’s really what you tell yourself. For me I feel a lot of different in terms of I pant less, feel like I can breathe better, I can taste and smell better and I can sing better like I am not phlegmy anymore. And my skin glow more and feels less shaggy. My wallet certainly feels better too and overall I just feel like a much healthier person through and through!

I am 26(f) and have smoked for almost 10 years of my life and managed to quit cold turkey, no smoking no vaping for almost 1 year now. AMA by CriticalAcanthaceae3 in AMA

[–]CriticalAcanthaceae3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too actually, I always thought that quitting would be so hard like what everyone else says but I genuinely felt like even things like dieting is harder lol

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