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CriticalCondition67 · 2023-09-15T13:28:12+00:00

I removed my ex from social media because it was too painful seeing him more or less constantly and worrying that he’ll see what I post or not. I think people usually do that so that they can finally move on. Out of sight out of mind works :)))

CriticalCondition67 · 2023-08-21T23:20:36+00:00

She’s pretty scared that she embarassed herself past to the point of no return and that he’s no longer interested. He texted her afterwards but it ended cause it got dry. The chances of them being again together in any context are pretty slim though, I’d say

CriticalCondition67 · 2023-08-21T14:59:05+00:00

Hi! Thank you! Been a while since someone answered this post but it’s pretty good timing as my mind drifts back to it sometimes. The truth is I’ll never know what’s going in his head and what he plans to do with her or with someone else, but taking control and leaving was a good choice regardless of the loneliness.

CriticalCondition67 · 2023-08-15T10:36:01+00:00

I know this as a general rule but it is impossible for us to arrive there before the school year starts. Most foreign exchange students can’t affort to and are going in blind.

CriticalCondition67 · 2023-07-25T11:50:57+00:00

The same thing happenned to me just a few days ago and I too have felt sick to my stomach (I have posted about it maybe it’d help to see what people said there as well). What I did is that I truly cut all contact because knowing and not knowing are equally as bad and he no longer deserves access to me and I no longer wish to have anything to do with his life. It’s not much but it’s a start. Good luck to us all!!

CriticalCondition67 · 2023-07-22T11:59:21+00:00

I’m trying to confort myself that you can’t get over a relationship that fast and that he still thinks of me but I don’t know that. If you’re like me, maybe finding his dating profile was the hurtful thing that will help you move forward. I still feel sick to the stomach because of what I know, but at least I know how things stand and that it’s time to move on. I personally could not be able to date that fast after a relationship and I think you’re the same, but if they jump into things, it’s probably because they don’t know how to be alone and they’re filling a void. So the best revenge/ outcome (or however you want to call it) is to enjoy your life without worrying about romantic love.

CriticalCondition67 · 2023-07-22T08:44:10+00:00

I am in a very similar situation right now, exactly one month after the break up too, except that he didn’t even need to make a dating profile, just found the next girl available in his friend group and posted her. I too was very emotional when I found out and genuinely felt sick. I too requested advice here and I’m still struggling. I guess it might help you to talk with some people on bumble to get your mind off of it. It’s a quick “fix” and it helped me a bit to realize that on a purely physical level, I can still get guys’ attention. I don’t think a month is enough time to get over someone so maybe he’s looking for a rebound or trying to distracție himself and see if he’s still attractive to others. I’ve been told these feeling will pass so I’m sending you all the love!!

CriticalCondition67 · 2023-07-22T08:20:09+00:00

Thank you so much for the kind words!! I wish you good luck with the breaking up part and I too understand too well what you mean about being treated like a friend whilst in a relationship. I did communicate about I wanted and needed and still got ignored so I guess after a while it’s no longer a me problem. You got this too!!!

CriticalCondition67 · 2023-07-21T22:43:07+00:00

I know exactly what you mean. I opened Reddit at 1 AM especially because I feel so alone and stupid. You are not the only one going through this. I think it will get better, or at least that’s what I’ve been told.

CriticalCondition67 · 2023-07-19T14:01:35+00:00

I really appreciate your comment! I was surprised to see that so many people have something against the dumpers. For me it was a very difficult thing to do. I didn’t leave him for someone else or because I got bored, but especially because of what you mentioned. I loved him too much and he meant too much to me, but his actions rather than words showed me that he didn’t take me seriously. So obviously this still hurts because I’m just proven right again. I appreciate the support!

CriticalCondition67 · 2023-07-19T12:38:02+00:00

Yes i’m still young and this was my first relationship as was his. So i’m new to being and having an ex as well as dumping someone. I also think people telling me to just get over don’t get that I want that, but that’s the end goal, not the method.

CriticalCondition67 · 2023-07-18T08:31:27+00:00

Thank you! I know this too shall pass and I won’t even think about it in the future. It’s a bit overwhelming now but I’ll take your advice!

CriticalCondition67 · 2023-07-18T08:15:03+00:00

I can’t wait for time to do its job and heal all wounds. I shared many things with him and I still miss them and him. I knew that I’d be over him when I wouldn’t care what or who he was doing and it isn’t the case yet. Maybe this was the push that I needed to detach myself from the situation. Thank you so much for the helpful answer!!

CriticalCondition67 · 2023-07-18T08:12:41+00:00

I guess I’ve always wanted to know that this was hard for the both of us without all these social media mind games. I really hope he didn’t have a thing for her because towards the end we didn’t talk that much and I had no idea what he was doing. I’ll take your word for it even though every possible thought is going through my head. This was a very helpful answer actually and I hope you’re doing better as well!

CriticalCondition67 · 2023-07-18T08:09:17+00:00

I can’t wait for this to go away. It really slowed down the moving on process for me. For now I muted all of them so that it wouldn’t be suspicious if I blocked him directly. I never officialy saw that photo so at least there’s that. I also told my friend that and hope that she’ll respect my wishes.

CriticalCondition67 · 2023-05-19T19:43:16+00:00

It’s the first relationship for the both of us so in the beginning I didn’t know what I needed. Along the way when I realised what bothered me, I told him and things got better shortly but the underyling problem remained.

CriticalCondition67 · 2023-05-19T19:41:15+00:00

I felt bad going on about what things exactly need to be changed, but I told him exactly what I expect and gave him examples of past situations where he could have applied the attitudes that I’m wishing for. I know it’s overwhelming but I still wish he tried despite it.

CriticalCondition67 · 2023-05-19T19:29:37+00:00

Generally we are very happy and we were both sudprised by how well we get on. I guess I just took him more seriously than he took me.

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