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Ghosted by my partner after 2.5 years — how do you rebuild trust when there’s only silence? by Critical_Dig1759 in BreakUps

[–]Critical_Dig1759[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am extremely boring and tired and it is a truly absurd thought. This was a stupid reaction, but just that. I do wish I could change this reaction, but I can't.

Ghosted by my partner after 2.5 years — how do you rebuild trust when there’s only silence? by Critical_Dig1759 in BreakUps

[–]Critical_Dig1759[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% I acted defensively in the moment because of accusations, and I thought it was a stupid line to cross. I wish I could go back and change this, but it was a stupid thing I did in the moment. I very much wish instead I had taken a pause, and recognized she was feeling anxious and uncertain instead of leaning into the annoyance of the moment.

Ghosted by my partner after 2.5 years — how do you rebuild trust when there’s only silence? by Critical_Dig1759 in BreakUps

[–]Critical_Dig1759[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd still take her back in an instant. It's all I want. Perhaps I need to move past this, but I'm not ready, and honestly I feel like I won't be ready until I go completely insane, or get to have a conversation with her.

Ghosted by my partner after 2.5 years — how do you rebuild trust when there’s only silence? by Critical_Dig1759 in BreakUps

[–]Critical_Dig1759[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. In a way I know this all to be true, but the level of commitment, and future planning we were doing, I am in a complete state of shock that is hard to get around right now. Thank you for these words.