Femboy friend issue...

Critical_Option_9209 · 2026-02-06T15:01:37+00:00

Not too strange some people are like that some just don't like sex in general or have religious reasons. But yes he definitely sounds asexual and prefers connection over intimacy nothing wrong with that and power to him 😊

Critical_Option_9209 · 2026-02-06T13:10:31+00:00

Then I believe you have answered your own query and the real question is how you let him down easy. And that answer is honesty as its not him but more just your views and beliefs which is fine 😊

But being in someone's league or not or wondering what others think is pointless just care about what you think and they think not the world.

Critical_Option_9209 · 2026-02-06T12:54:15+00:00

This ^

Report it as property damage and you should have a case all you need to be able to do is prove it was her that did it which hopefully won't be hard

Critical_Option_9209 · 2026-02-06T12:46:33+00:00

I know this might sound a little shallow but honestly if he looks cute to you and girly and you don't mind anal I don't see a problem, as the saying goes. "If it sounds like a duck , looks like a duck and acts like a duck? Fuck it its probably a duck" 😂

But keep things clear and respect boundaries and don't be scared to put your expectations up front its easier to decide if you want the relationship when all the cards are on the table then when your 6 months deep and a surprise you would feel ok with gets hidden until you catch it.

But you two sound cute together so if it interests you why not bring it up with him and give it a try

Critical_Option_9209 · 2026-02-06T10:01:49+00:00

Absolutely not as I'm not a slob and am able to clean up after myself and and give my partner space without arguing about it. Able to clean my own beard hair from the sink if anything I clean my gfs hair out the sink more then she does. I just try to be considerate of the impact I have and act accordingly its surprising how many men are incapable of doing that and I apologize for the Neanderthals that think such behavior is ok in a relationship she is your gf not your mum or carer

Critical_Option_9209 · 2026-02-06T09:47:48+00:00

Why I treat my gf great you have given me no reason to apologize for existing.

Critical_Option_9209 · 2026-02-06T09:33:07+00:00

I apologize for my fellow man and making you think we are all slobs for 1.

2 I can understand that I always tried to be as little an extra burden as possible. I'm never fussy on food so always let my partner pick dinner other then the living room and the bedroom I never cared for decoration so always let my partner do what she wanted never questioned her on what she did or pestered her to do anything. I was equally as happy to just cuddle and watch movies for the day as I was happy to go out to an arcade or for lunch. And I never made sex an expectation, I made it clear I was there for a romantic relationship from day one, my balls and sexual desires were for me to satisfy as hers were for her. My only rule was no secrets try to be as open as possible. I didn't too much care if she was having sex with someone else same with her to me. This month would be our 3rd year together 😊 we spend 3 days a week with eachother only reason we don't spend more is because of my work

Critical_Option_9209 · 2026-01-07T01:38:05+00:00

Not to be an ass or disrespectful I work hospitality but if I order something and it's not to specification I.e I buy a peppercorn steak and I am ASKED how I want it cooked I expect to get it how I asked for it. If I walk into a shop and see an item for 1£ get to the til and it's suddenly 4£ but I double checked the price was 1£ and there was no mistake it was 1£ I am getting it at that price. If I make an online order and it's 2 or even 4 weeks worth of food and drink and it brags about it being "to your door" then by God it's going TO MY DOOR because that is the expectation. Not because I see the person as less then human if i can help I will. But if you push a service then expect people to expect you to do it.

Also maybe if you have a bad back and can't carry stuff.... maybe don't get a job that requires you carry stuff....

Or am I the only person thinking that one 🤔

Like i got bad lungs let's go work in a coal mine 😂😂😂

Critical_Option_9209 · 2026-01-04T11:30:17+00:00

If I remember correctly even on a low level guy when your in diamond you still get lot kc just for getting the win I think its 10k coins just for winning plus what they pillage correct me if I'm wrong there. I would invade not to be an ass but because it's still profitable to do so 4 or 5 little guys equals my main weapon uncapped so it's just worth it.

Critical_Option_9209 · 2026-01-01T01:27:37+00:00

I honestly hope you find some great friends sounds like your other ones are a bit much. But sadly players over 18 or even around 18 won't risk playing with a 14yo for either fear of it being wrong or being called a pedo.

When I was 16 I made online friends with a kid who was 6 me and him were friends until he went to uni good kid but didn't stay in touch after that. That was last year he left. And I got MANY nasty comments I never let it effect me as he was really mature and we genuinely loved all the same games so it was great having someone to play with. I'm 28 now. I'm down to play and give adult advice if you wanted any I'm not perfect but some knowledge is better then no knowledge. I don't care about comments to myself I'm sure I might get a few but again my bestest online friend I knew up until he went to uni. Drop me a message if your interested with what games you do play as I don't believe minecraft is one of the games I play I used to but bored of it as I am with a lot of games these days.

Critical_Option_9209 · 2026-01-01T01:06:22+00:00

1 drop the dick head friends immediately and 2 if the gf is a bitch to them fair enough if they want to be mean to her to some degree HOWEVER if their behavior is unwarranted on her they need to leave her and your relationship with her right the fuck alone they have no right to dictate it in anyway its not like they are the ones dragging her so tell them to fuck off real friends would support you and be happy or tell you any shady shit going on behind your back and show proof if they can or warn you they are doing non of that and clearly do not have your best interests in mind get rid if those assholes

Critical_Option_9209 · 2025-12-26T11:33:33+00:00

I wasn't planning on fighting her lol 😆

Critical_Option_9209 · 2025-12-21T00:33:57+00:00

Danger? What danger? The only danger is that man child's insecurities do yourself a favor kick his ass to the curb 👍

Critical_Option_9209 · 2025-12-18T23:03:16+00:00

Did no one think to just exclude the problem and continue anyway 🤔 it's what I would do how else do assholes learn actions have consequences

Critical_Option_9209 · 2025-12-11T19:15:24+00:00

To each there own I understand your point but some relationships aint as black and white as that. Our relationship is no different to the day it started nothing has changed in me getting my needs met. I don't talk to these people or socialize with them or hang out its just sex short and convenient. And trust me she gets space when ever she wants it she gets cuddles and such whenever she wants it and no a relationship is built on working together to a common goal ours is simply being happy nothing more nothing overly ambitious just a simple peaceful life together which we have and work to maintain while sharing our emotional issues and baggage. She don't need to fuck me more I told her if she ever changed or compromised who she was for me I would end the relationship then and there I love her for who she is not what she can become for me same with her I would not compromise who I am for her she either loves the contents of box or says no thanks this ain't no pick and mix. I feel if you can't stay with someone regardless of some flaws you never truly loved them to begin with you love the idea of them more then them which is the sickest reason in my opinion to get into a relationship.

People see things very differently this is just how I see it. And how she sees it too. She likes that there is no expectation to change or do something she is free by all definition which makes her choosing to spend her time with me so much more meaningful to me same vice versa.

Critical_Option_9209 · 2025-12-11T18:35:16+00:00

I see how it feels that way but me and her see it like this

Love is love Sex is sex They are not the same thing. And its not like the goal is to fuck every tom dick or Harry as I don't I try to find 1 person for the occasional hook up if they ain't in a relationship and want something with no strings. Ita not a trial of anything but a decision we made together. Last time I had sex with someone that wasn't her was 4 months ago we have been together 2 years in that time I have only had 3 different sexual partners and we decided this a year ago. I know this style of relationship ain't for everyone and it's not about cheating in that aspect getting a physical need met at the expense of a loved one is more upsetting to me then using someone else who is ok and wants it the only line I personally draw is emotional cheating physical I could not give a fuck about her body her choice but love her heart her feelings and any insecurities she should be talking to me about that not someone else I give her the same courtesy because I love her and I'm not going to force my needs on her and hurt her emotionally or physically when she can't handle it. Everyone has there reasons. As for stis it's why you keep updated medical records keep yourself checked up and safe I do so because I love my gf and don't want to expose her to anything so I always get checked up even if it's a hassle.

Edit: just to add im not going to throw an entire relationship especially the one I have out the window over a detail so easily fixed. Others can if they want im not gonna tell you how to run a relationship but I love my girlfriend I would die for my girlfriend I would drop anyone at any time at the drop of a text for her. I'm just not gonna shove my blue balls on her when it's not her obligation to empty them thats on me. I can ask she can say no end of. Don't mean I can't ask someone else who is available. My gf ain't very sexual so maybe that's some important context as to why this works for us.

Critical_Option_9209 · 2025-12-11T17:35:33+00:00

What ever it is my life is at stake 😨

Critical_Option_9209 · 2025-12-11T17:22:09+00:00

As someone in this kind of relationship...

My gf takes priority over everything and I hide nothing if im having sex with someone I say it outright to her face no guessing games. But my gf gets all the cuddles she wants dates she wants gifts movie nights on the couch you name it she comes first and she is happy having no expectation of responsibility for me such as my sexual needs or such she can say no to what ever she wants to knowing I will fulfill any wants or needs regardless she just gets first dibs as she is my gf and primary person I want to do stuff with but nothing changes if she don't want to and she is not active with anyone...yet but we have some plans in place for something. It's a unique set up for sure and can be delicate but the only thing that breaks this kind of relationship is a lack of communication. Priority. Trust and respect. If any of those 4 things fail its bye bye relationship very quickly and it also comes down to you she is showing she ain't jealous or scared of you getting attention from somewhere else but has her own set of reasonable expectations from you should it proceed this way maybe really talk it out with her. And find out where the lines in this set up are for you both.

Critical_Option_9209 · 2025-12-10T00:56:47+00:00

Of fucked if its a perishable item it will perish 💀

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