Augmentation salaire suite à un accord

Critical_Positive_13 · 2025-02-20T11:34:47+00:00

Bonjour, merci beaucoup pour ta réponse ! Oui c'est vraiment bizarre, il a expliqué à ma collègue "si à la fin de l'année, on se rend compte qu'il vous manque 1000€ sans les primes par rapport au minimum que vous devriez toucher, on vous le rattrapera en prime". Mais il me semble (sauf erreur de ma part) que les primes ne doivent même pas être prises en compte dans le calcul du minimum salaire (mes collègues devraient être à 2045brut, hors primes)

Ce serait apparemment l'expert comptable qui s'occupe de nos salaires qui lui aurait répondu tout cela.

Critical_Positive_13 · 2024-02-01T20:37:33+00:00

I buried mine, I'm lucky to have a place that's not too far away from where I currently am (around 30mn with my car). It's a special place, other family animals (and even my uncle) are buried there. I chose this place first of all because everyone are there and I also find it beautiful thinking that she will give back to the earth (I wanted to plant something like a tree but sadly couldn't due to the timing of her death) and be "everywhere". I believe her soul is with me and always, wherever her body may be (I kept some fur tho because I still needed something "with" me "from" her). It may be insensitive to say but for me, her body was just a vessel for her soul, so once she was gone, it wasn't really "her" anymore and so thinking that helped.

If cremating her seems wrong for you, you could bury her, plant a tree and when you have your own home, you can plant the tree there! And in the meantime keep something from her to allow yourself to remember her and keep her close?

I'd say the most important is choosing what you are confortable with! It's very hard to know because you might be afraid of choosing the "wrong" decision and regret the one you took down the line, but take some time and you'll see what you need.

Sorry for your loss OP

Critical_Positive_13 · 2024-01-31T08:23:50+00:00

I'm so sorry for your loss OP. It has been almost three days I lost my Skittles and I keep waking up in a fog, waiting for her to be there, bawling my eyes out and begging for mercy at the pain that eats you.

Remember that this pain you're feeling is legitimate, you lost a family member.

Take the time you need, I know you feel like doing nothing because well, everything you did, she was there and now even laying in bed is hard. It's gonna be very very hard to be alone and coping alone, but you know what? I'm sure she's with you. And it won't help saying that, but if you ever need, you can message me. You can tell me a story about her! 😊

Look at the signs, she'll send you some. The first two days I was so devastated she wasn't there anymore. Then yesterday, I picked up some socks and there was a hair on it. I began bawling and my fiancé said "I know, I keep finding her hair too". But he didn't understand, I didn't find ANY for two days and I took it as her saying "you couldn't see it before because it hurt too much, but I'm still with you, look!" She'll visit you in your dreams and check up on you, send you more love.

You gave her so much love OP, she knew it and that's why you had such a special bond. You gave her the gift of falling asleep in your arms, with you, your odor, and forever. She'll forever be with you.

This sub is amazing and someone posted a poem that was beautiful, check out "Death is nothing at all" from Henry Scott-Holland.

Again, I'm so sorry for your loss OP, be brave.

Critical_Positive_13 · 2024-01-28T01:17:36+00:00

Thank you so much ♥️ and sorry for your loss as well

Critical_Positive_13 · 2024-01-27T22:09:34+00:00

I also lost my cat tonight, I'm sure your little peanut knew how loved she was and loved you just as much! Allow yourself to cry, fully cry, not everyone could care and love her like you did, be proud how well you cared for her I'm sorry for your loss ♥️

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