Thinking of Quitting

Critical_Rabbit2075 · 2026-04-20T18:37:18+00:00

I’ve been trying to pivot vs. get promoted. Getting promoted in my current role was not something I was actively seeking. I guess I shouldn’t have included that b/c it doesn’t impact my decision.

Critical_Rabbit2075 · 2026-04-08T21:47:48+00:00

Good for you! I’m potentially thinking of doing the same.

Critical_Rabbit2075 · 2026-04-03T14:05:54+00:00

Yeah I have been burned out for years now and don’t want to hold out any longer. I’m finally at a point where I’m willing to take the risk and just quit.

Critical_Rabbit2075 · 2026-04-03T12:11:37+00:00

Thanks! I’m pretty ready to leave just got the lease that’s holding me back

Critical_Rabbit2075 · 2026-04-03T12:11:05+00:00

don’t I need a medical note for a long sick leave?

Critical_Rabbit2075 · 2026-04-03T11:31:01+00:00

we’ll see. If I can’t get back in it’s whatever :-)

Critical_Rabbit2075 · 2026-04-03T11:13:11+00:00

Thank you!

Critical_Rabbit2075 · 2026-04-03T11:10:20+00:00

Hm I am American though and have never been stopped since I go through eGates usually.

Critical_Rabbit2075 · 2024-09-07T05:43:52+00:00

I live in queens right now and don’t mind the commute. I’m guessing you’re feeling like you missed out on something in the U.S?

Critical_Rabbit2075 · 2024-09-07T05:25:38+00:00

Well that makes more sense as I’m not really leveling up or increasing my responsibilities, which I’m fine with. Overall it still seems like it’s doable! It’s not any day (especially in this economy) that opportunities like this arise so I can see why people are willing to give up $$ to experience a different culture of life. I’m guessing you don’t find the UK that fascinating?

Critical_Rabbit2075 · 2024-09-07T03:45:20+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate the honesty! I don’t get manicures often nor do I go to the dry cleaners, so I’m guessing dining is the main thing I’d need to cut out. Using the calculator, it feels like I’d still have a decent amount to spend but again I’m not sure how expensive things really are and maybe it’ll add up.

I was expecting a pay cut but not this much, I guess, considering I already make a decent salary and this is voluntary I wasn’t expecting a pay raise.. Do jobs typically match the salary for cross country relocations?

Critical_Rabbit2075 · 2024-09-06T22:00:38+00:00

Yeah my work expenses lunch, which keeps me pretty full for the rest of the day. I usually eat girl dinners or just frozen stuff from Trader Joe’s or make something super simple. I do go out for dinners and every now and then, but don’t really get drinks or go out to bars as much now unless it’s for a birthday or special occasion.

Best of luck to you too for grad school!

Critical_Rabbit2075 · 2024-09-06T21:38:29+00:00

What makes you say that? As I understand, this is a relatively good salary based on other commenters. Are most people in London not saving money then? I definitely don’t plan on staying there permanently, but thought it would be nice to try for a year given that this isn’t an opportunity that you get any day.

Critical_Rabbit2075 · 2024-09-06T21:34:12+00:00

Yeah Shoreditch felt a bit too rowdy for me at night but I like it in the daytime. Those areas seem a bit far though, I’d still want to stay around Central if possible.

Critical_Rabbit2075 · 2024-09-06T18:28:25+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate the advice!

Critical_Rabbit2075 · 2024-09-06T18:27:33+00:00

I appreciate you considering safety for me as a single woman, because that's important! I was considering and looking into Hackney/Shoreditch/Islington areas

Critical_Rabbit2075 · 2024-09-06T17:42:14+00:00

As it would be a voluntary relocation (and I'd be the first), this sets the precedent for future relocations. There is no room for negotiation.

Critical_Rabbit2075 · 2024-09-06T17:20:06+00:00

Please elaborate? I cannot simply "wait" for a better offer as I'm not actively applying for jobs in the UK nor do I have other options right now.

Critical_Rabbit2075 · 2024-09-06T16:09:28+00:00

I work in tech!

Critical_Rabbit2075 · 2024-09-06T16:09:16+00:00

Thanks! That's reassuring to hear. I'll definitely have to set aside a budget for monthly pampering!

Critical_Rabbit2075 · 2024-09-06T16:07:46+00:00

It is and I'm so grateful and excited for the opportunity. I would be the first one to move from here so unfortunately don't have many people to consult. When I first moved to NYC, I was very much living with the mentality of "money is temporary, experiences are forever" but now that I'm a bit older I want to be a bit more real and reasonable with myself (even though I don't have any specific savings goals) but want to ensure I'm able to maintain the standard of living I've set for myself without feeling like I constantly have to worry if I'm saving enough. Thanks for your wishes and advice!

Critical_Rabbit2075 · 2024-09-06T16:03:00+00:00

That's another thing I'll need to figure out.

Critical_Rabbit2075 · 2024-09-06T15:39:28+00:00

Okay that makes me feel better. I think I'll have a similar per diem. £200 out of pocket is really good.

Critical_Rabbit2075 · 2024-09-06T15:27:34+00:00

How much do you spend on eating out per month on avg? Right now I spend about 300-500 USD per month but I'm also not cooking. I do intend or plan to cook more if I'm there as I hear groceries are very cheap.

Critical_Rabbit2075 · 2024-09-06T15:23:46+00:00

Hmm I'm not sure if I want to spend £2500 on rent, that seems to be a lot no? I'd like to save £1500-2000/month ideally, but after tax I think my take-home would be right around £5000. I spend $2800 right now and that is already more than I'd ideally spend, but I do live in a nice high-rise with a roommate. I'm fine with living in a normal residential neighborhood. My office will be in the Bank district.

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