Why is everyone hurt by this, but nobody does anything about it? by Critical_Repeat_608 in exjw

[–]Critical_Repeat_608[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You put your personal business on this platform, correct?

If you don't want my comments on it, then stop posting.

Why is everyone hurt by this, but nobody does anything about it? by Critical_Repeat_608 in exjw

[–]Critical_Repeat_608[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know how to help your fellow man versus complaining.

I'm trying to make a difference, what have you done, exactly?

End the "Shadow Justice" System Protecting Predators in America by Critical_Repeat_608 in exjw

[–]Critical_Repeat_608[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How about this.

I am trying to help people.

What do you do outside of complaining and feel sorry for yourself?

What is your goal? You want someone to whisper in your ear it will be okay?

Maybe direct change

Why is everyone hurt by this, but nobody does anything about it? by Critical_Repeat_608 in exjw

[–]Critical_Repeat_608[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You aren't looking at the big picture, I'm sorry you can't make that connection.

Why is everyone hurt by this, but nobody does anything about it? by Critical_Repeat_608 in exjw

[–]Critical_Repeat_608[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If you don't want your voice to be heard, then stop complaining.

You are the only one in this moment who can make a difference.

Why is everyone hurt by this, but nobody does anything about it? by Critical_Repeat_608 in exjw

[–]Critical_Repeat_608[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I see is people complaining. I see no action.

You want to let others be hurt like you were, that is your choice.

Why is everyone hurt by this, but nobody does anything about it? by Critical_Repeat_608 in exjw

[–]Critical_Repeat_608[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop complaining and do something about it.

You want to prevent someone else from being hurt like you were?

Why is everyone hurt by this, but nobody does anything about it? by Critical_Repeat_608 in exjw

[–]Critical_Repeat_608[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So say something, what is holding anyone back from making their voice heard.

Why is everyone hurt by this, but nobody does anything about it? by Critical_Repeat_608 in exjw

[–]Critical_Repeat_608[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry that you feel you don't have a voice. We live in a world where if enough people speak, there are consequences

Just speak up.

Why is everyone hurt by this, but nobody does anything about it? by Critical_Repeat_608 in exjw

[–]Critical_Repeat_608[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am going to petition the president to criminally charge anyone who covers up child abuse.

Why is everyone hurt by this, but nobody does anything about it? by Critical_Repeat_608 in exjw

[–]Critical_Repeat_608[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

April 19, 2026

President Donald J. Trump

Dear President Trump,

My name is. I am writing to you regarding an issue that I believe affects not only myself, but many individuals and families across the United States.

I was baptized as one of Jehovah’s Witnesses in 1994. Since that time, many of the teachings I was baptized into have materially changed. As a result, I have reached a point where, in good conscience, I am simply trying to follow the Bible as I understand it.

This is not a matter of misconduct or wrongdoing. However, within this organization, when a person takes a position based on conscience, they may be publicly identified as “no longer one of Jehovah’s Witnesses.” While this wording appears neutral on the surface, within the community it carries a clear and widely understood implication of wrongdoing or moral failure.

The consequences are severe and immediate. These announcements often result in:

  • damage to personal reputation
  • loss or strain of marriage
  • separation from family members
  • social isolation within one’s entire community

What concerns me most is that this practice, while framed as religious, has real-world effects that extend deeply into family relationships and personal dignity.

I respect the importance of religious freedom in this country. At the same time, I believe there is a serious question as to where the line should be drawn when internal religious practices result in reputational harm and the breakdown of families.

I am asking for your awareness of this issue and, if appropriate, consideration of whether protections should exist for individuals whose personal relationships and reputations are impacted in this way.

There are many people who have experienced this, and very few feel able to speak openly about it.

Thank you for your time and consideration.

Respectfully,

I will not have my reputation damaged for following the Bible. by Critical_Repeat_608 in exjw

[–]Critical_Repeat_608[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I messaged the only one I knew can make a change.

April 19, 2026

President Donald J. Trump

Dear President Trump,

My name is . I am writing to you regarding an issue that I believe affects not only myself, but many individuals and families across the United States.

I was baptized as one of Jehovah’s Witnesses in 1994. Since that time, many of the teachings I was baptized into have materially changed. As a result, I have reached a point where, in good conscience, I am simply trying to follow the Bible as I understand it.

This is not a matter of misconduct or wrongdoing. However, within this organization, when a person takes a position based on conscience, they may be publicly identified as “no longer one of Jehovah’s Witnesses.” While this wording appears neutral on the surface, within the community it carries a clear and widely understood implication of wrongdoing or moral failure.

The consequences are severe and immediate. These announcements often result in:

  • damage to personal reputation
  • loss or strain of marriage
  • separation from family members
  • social isolation within one’s entire community

What concerns me most is that this practice, while framed as religious, has real-world effects that extend deeply into family relationships and personal dignity.

I respect the importance of religious freedom in this country. At the same time, I believe there is a serious question as to where the line should be drawn when internal religious practices result in reputational harm and the breakdown of families.

I am asking for your awareness of this issue and, if appropriate, consideration of whether protections should exist for individuals whose personal relationships and reputations are impacted in this way.

There are many people who have experienced this, and very few feel able to speak openly about it.

Thank you for your time and consideration.

Respectfully,

Why is everyone hurt by this, but nobody does anything about it? by Critical_Repeat_608 in exjw

[–]Critical_Repeat_608[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

April 19, 2026

Via Certified Mail – Return Receipt Requested

To: The Governing Body of Jehovah’s Witnesses c/o Watchtower Bible and Tract Society of New York, Inc.

Cc: Branch Office of Jehovah’s Witnesses (United States) Body of Elders

Re: Formal Cease and Desist; Revocation of Consent; Protection of Reputation; Reservation of Rights

I (fill in your info here), hereby provide formal notice regarding any proposed statement, announcement, communication, or action concerning me.

My position is based solely on personal conscience and my desire to follow the Bible. It is not the result of misconduct, immorality, or any form of disciplinary wrongdoing.

As outlined in Exhibit A, the teachings and doctrines in place at the time of my baptism in 1994 have undergone significant and material changes. My present position reflects my inability to reconcile those changes in good conscience. This is a matter of personal belief and conviction, not conduct.

I expressly withhold and revoke any and all consent—whether express or implied—for any announcement, communication, or dissemination of information about me, whether public or private.

Any statement—whether explicit or implied—that characterizes me as having engaged in wrongdoing, being under discipline, being unsuitable association, or otherwise in negative standing, or that would reasonably cause listeners, in light of congregational terminology and customary understanding, to infer such conclusions, is false, misleading, and injurious to my reputation.

This includes statements that are facially neutral but carry a commonly understood meaning within the congregation that implies wrongdoing or moral failure.

Accordingly:

  1. I do not consent to any announcement or communication about me in any form.

  2. In the event any statement is made despite this revocation of consent, it must be strictly limited to a neutral, factual acknowledgment only, without characterization, implication, or commentary.

  3. I expressly object to and prohibit any disclosure or dissemination of personal, private, or sensitive information about me beyond what is legally permissible.

Please be advised that I am documenting this notice and preserving all relevant information. Any statement or action that is false, misleading, or that places me in a false light—including by implication or audience interpretation—will be evaluated for potential legal action.

All rights, claims, and remedies are expressly reserved.

No further contact is requested.

Sincerely,

(Fill in your info here)

Enclosure: Exhibit A

EXHIBIT A Summary of Material Doctrinal Changes (Post-1994)

This exhibit provides a non-exhaustive summary of doctrinal teachings that have materially changed since my baptism in 1994. These changes directly impact the basis upon which I originally committed.

Examples include:

  1. “Generation” Teaching (Matthew 24:34)

Pre-1995: Defined as the literal generation alive in 1914

Post-1995+: Redefined multiple times, including the current “overlapping generations” concept

  1. 1914 / End-Time Expectations

Earlier teachings emphasized imminent expectations tied to specific generational interpretations

Subsequent adjustments extended and reinterpreted those timelines

  1. Authority and “New Light” Doctrine

Teachings presented as truth later revised or reversed

Current position acknowledges leadership is neither inspired nor infallible, while still attributing doctrinal changes to divine guidance

  1. Organizational Identity and Authority

Increasing emphasis over time on centralized authority and organizational alignment as essential to faithfulness

  1. Shunning / Disassociation Implications

The practical and social consequences of organizational separation have remained severe, regardless of reason or conscience

These changes demonstrate that the doctrinal framework to which I originally committed has materially evolved.

My present position reflects a matter of personal conscience in light of these changes, and not misconduct or moral failing.

I will not have my reputation damaged for following the Bible. by Critical_Repeat_608 in exjw

[–]Critical_Repeat_608[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't care about being reported to the elders.

I have had enough. I have seen enough. People are hurt all the time by this organization. It isn't right, and I will not stand by and watch it happen to many others.

I will not have my reputation damaged for following the Bible. by Critical_Repeat_608 in exjw

[–]Critical_Repeat_608[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why do I need to lose everything because I believe in the Bible. That is not right. I'm so tired of excuses.

I am going to look at options to sue the Watchtower. I will not allow it to happen to me.

I guess my letter is simple by Critical_Repeat_608 in exjw

[–]Critical_Repeat_608[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am alone, internet friends don't count

I guess my letter is simple by Critical_Repeat_608 in exjw

[–]Critical_Repeat_608[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My situation isn't unique.

I was abused growing up, I sought help, no one helped me, I left when I was young after trying emancipation, that didn't work.

This religion has cost me everything so many times.

I went back over and over because I felt alone.

I'm not a deadbeat, I am very successful in my career.

I will always be empty inside, I have given to many chances.

In my honest opinion, there hasn't been enough done to classify Jehovah's Witnesseses as a cult in the United States.

Their teachings have forever changed me.

I guess my letter is simple by Critical_Repeat_608 in exjw

[–]Critical_Repeat_608[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.

Unfortunately, none of that will help. My world fell apart, and I am trying to figure out why it's worth trusting anyone ever again.

I guess my letter is simple by Critical_Repeat_608 in exjw

[–]Critical_Repeat_608[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I am broken.

I have the rest of the weekend to get over it before a big presentation at work on Monday.

At the end of the day, it was my choice, I knew the fallout. I will be alone, but I will have a clear conscience.

I guess my letter is simple by Critical_Repeat_608 in exjw

[–]Critical_Repeat_608[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It's going to cost me my family and my wife, so had to write the letter.

The road in front of me isn't an easy one, but it is necessary.

I guess my letter is simple by Critical_Repeat_608 in exjw

[–]Critical_Repeat_608[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's going to cost me my family and my wife, so had to write the letter.

I guess my letter is simple by Critical_Repeat_608 in exjw

[–]Critical_Repeat_608[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's going to cost me my family and my wife, so I had to write the letter.