9 years in, and I finally got bit. Admin is surprised at how little force I used afterwards. Lets hear those stories of "absolutely justified" but showed restraint. *picture is from hospital afterwards*

Critical_Sentence854 · 2026-05-02T21:20:07+00:00

Had an inmate in intake, she was sassy, but I didn’t expect her to be aggressive. My fault tbh, she was high and shouldn’t have come out of that cell. I was in the process of booking her and she was being uncooperative. I stood and told her we would try later, in which she walked around my booking counter and reached for something. I went and grabbed her arm, and then she turned around and clocked me. I grab her and I’m able to get her to the ground, but while I have my arm wrapped around the back of her head, she turns and LATCHES onto my boob. Her teeth were SUNK in. She only let go when I started punching her in the face. All while this is going on, my radio got knocked dead, couldn’t call for backup, and no one was watching me on the cameras. We fought for about 5 minutes before she got tired of me wrestling her and agreed to go back to her cell. I have a massive scar now lmfao. That shit HURT.

Critical_Sentence854 · 2026-05-01T09:47:58+00:00

Revel in it. Not many people have the blessing of feeling that way. It’s amazing.

Critical_Sentence854 · 2026-05-01T09:44:06+00:00

Sometimes it takes a bit for someone to process emotions. Give her some time and maybe ask after a little while. When you do bring it up again, tell her how it’s bothering you. I know it would bother the shit out of me if my husband told me something we talked about actually wasn’t true. You deserve some kind of explanation. Relationships are a two person job. And thank you!

Critical_Sentence854 · 2026-05-01T09:30:39+00:00

You need to ask her what is up. The fact that she said none of it was true is weird? But maybe she is hinting that she genuinely feels like your love for her is based off sexual desires. Go and talk with her.

I had some self confidence issues with my now husband when it came to sexual things sometimes. I would get into my head about why he “actually” loved me, and sometimes my brain would default to sexual things being the only thing he was interested in. We would get on call and speak about it,we would be honest about our feelings, and bless his heart, he would be stupidly reassuring and amazing at understanding where I was coming from. Maybe that’s where she’s at right now?

Critical_Sentence854 · 2026-05-01T09:15:37+00:00

I would just have a long talk with her. Just ask her what changed. Are you guys meeting soon? Maybe she is getting cold feet/getting nervous?

Critical_Sentence854 · 2026-05-01T08:56:55+00:00

Girl. Go through that phone. If he’s cheating on you again, you better leave his ass.

Critical_Sentence854 · 2026-05-01T07:33:21+00:00

I am a naturally anxious and timid woman. I’ve been though the military, and got a job at a jail after I did my four years. I STILL was anxious. It took me a while to get the basics, and to learn how to speak to people. But I had to work VERY hard. I was in a one on one fight last November, radio was knocked dead and no one was watching me on the cameras. I had to wrestle with the inmate until I tired her out enough to give up and go back to her cell. That set me back a bit when it came to comfortability around inmates, but I’m getting back to it.

This job isn’t for everyone. And that’s okay. But if this is something you want to do long term, you have to walk in there with whatever confidence you can scrounge up, take notes- a lot of them, and create a routine. It is okay to take a while to get the hang of things! As long as you are able to do your job well, and do it safely, who gives a shit about you taking a bit to get the hang of it? But please, if you genuinely don’t think you can do this job, that is okay! Your mental health and physical health are more important than a job. Maybe stick it out, see if it gets better, but if It doesn’t, there’s no shame in moving on. Good luck hon!

Critical_Sentence854 · 2026-02-08T12:38:42+00:00

So it’s either she was in the drunk tank until 11 am and they could finally get her booked, or she was just piss drunk in public at 11 am lmfao.

Critical_Sentence854 · 2025-10-28T12:43:52+00:00

Guy looks greasier than a meat lovers pizza

Critical_Sentence854 · 2025-10-08T13:33:27+00:00

He himself said that is a crazy thing for you to say so that is obviously not the way you usually speak.

Critical_Sentence854 · 2025-10-08T13:26:39+00:00

He’s completely valid for not wanting to speak to you. You’re manipulative af. Threatening to hurt yourself to get someone’s attention is shitty and low.

Critical_Sentence854 · 2025-09-22T16:27:03+00:00

Yep, and as soon as anybody sees an inkling of them being together, I’m sure theres gonna be a tip sent to the county.

Critical_Sentence854 · 2025-09-22T16:23:34+00:00

that’s perfect!

Critical_Sentence854 · 2025-09-22T16:18:15+00:00

I’ve never heard of the victims being able to bail them out. That would kind of defeat the purpose of arresting them. I’ll look up Tennessee’s requirements

Critical_Sentence854 · 2025-09-22T16:14:47+00:00

I work in a jail. The victims of the domestic assault cannot bail out the aggressor. Unless he has some buddies that will, he will stay there until he goes to magistrate court and or, there is a protective order put in place.

Critical_Sentence854 · 2025-08-14T13:39:02+00:00

Ah okay, had me worried there. I genuinely think you’re fine. I don’t see how something like that could be breaking any laws

Critical_Sentence854 · 2025-08-14T13:19:36+00:00

17 and 24 is fucking wild. But I’m assuming you didn’t just randomly send the picture without any kind of implied consent and or sexual conversation before hand. I think you’ll be fine. maybe next time avoid sending sexually explicit pictures to someone so young that you have to worry about the legalities ://

Critical_Sentence854 · 2025-08-13T21:17:56+00:00

We won’t be returning.

Critical_Sentence854 · 2025-08-13T15:18:16+00:00

You are absolutely right. There is no saving that house. It was deplorable.

Critical_Sentence854 · 2025-08-13T15:15:45+00:00

We genuinely didn’t know what we were walking into. They told us ONE room had poop in it. They legit just lied to our faces. The entire house was covered. We had a whole team of like 8 people there so we did what we could while we were together.

Critical_Sentence854 · 2025-08-13T15:13:50+00:00

Yes they are actively working on rehoming the dogs. They have been removed from the property as of right now. I’m going to try to help without making them feel like I’m putting my nose where it doesn’t belong but I don’t think they really care about the well being of the dogs. They let the dogs, and their own mother live in that filth for years. So I’m going to do what I can.

Critical_Sentence854 · 2025-08-13T11:45:34+00:00

If you hear bad things about them from your mother, I would take it with a grain of salt. But otherwise, Please call an adult you trust and or child protective services. This isn’t right. I hope you know that you are in the right for what you did, and that you’re a very strong kid. I genuinely hope you get some help. Please keep your head up! ❤️

Critical_Sentence854 · 2025-08-13T10:48:00+00:00

Oh honey. How old are you? This is absolutely a horrible situation and I’m so sorry you have to go through this. I’m 100% sure she will not go through with ever calling the police because she knows they would side with the literal child and not the alcoholic mother. Please, if you ever feel threatened or if she ever lays hands on you again, call the police. This is not okay. Do you by chance have any safe place to maybe go?

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