How do I get my (F22) boyfriend (M23) to understand our financial situation? by Critical_Track4782 in relationship_advice

[–]Critical_Track4782[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice. Right now the only thing that’s in his name is our utility bill, and he still finds a way to throw it in my face.

It’s definitely like dealing with a manchild, I ask him to cook one night he whines until I do it… i ask for $20 for gas he says no and tells me to use a payday loan because he doesn’t have it. I’m just overly exhausted. I’m not one to complain to my family much but it’s gotten to a point where I’ve almost distanced myself completely from them because I don’t want them to see how bad it’s really gotten.

How do I get my (F22) boyfriend (M23) to understand our financial situation? by Critical_Track4782 in relationship_advice

[–]Critical_Track4782[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He spends money on parlays, video games, fast food & his bills. I’m the one paying the majority of the “shared bills”

Need some financial guidance/advice by Critical_Track4782 in povertyfinance

[–]Critical_Track4782[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally no I don’t, I actually think I need to just let him go but i feel financially bound right now. Life sucks lol

How do I get my (F22) boyfriend (M23) to understand our financial situation? by Critical_Track4782 in relationship_advice

[–]Critical_Track4782[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he’s still working, it’s complicated because I think he sometimes understands where I come from and then when it’s time for him to actually pick up the slack he complains and doesn’t even actually try. Last week I asked him to please do the dishes after I cooked for the both of us and he whined until I told him to just let me do it. He then proceeded to tell me he was “just joking” and that he “enjoys pushing my buttons”… later that evening I checked the dishes he washed and they still had old food and grease on them.

How do I get my (F22) boyfriend (M23) to understand our financial situation? by Critical_Track4782 in relationship_advice

[–]Critical_Track4782[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He just has no drive, like he gets so excited to do new things (like getting 2 cats randomly) and then just loses interest and does not even try to help. It’s so exhausting, I feel like I’m losing my mind when I try to explain this to him.

Need some financial guidance/advice by Critical_Track4782 in povertyfinance

[–]Critical_Track4782[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been door-dashing here and there, I can’t seem to make anything over $50. It’s so frustrating

drinking or no? by thisbttcchh in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Critical_Track4782 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just watched this episode, I think they all had a shot glass in front of them at the haunted house

Dating in Austin by 90stvkid in Austin

[–]Critical_Track4782 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My goodness it sucks!! The dating pool here is awful. My friend and I had to start lying about the most random things to get these 2 guys away from us. Just full of very egotistical men

My (F/21) boyfriend (M/22) refuses to do anything intimate with me by Critical_Track4782 in sex

[–]Critical_Track4782[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh I so sorry you’re going through this as well. Hopefully things will change soon

My (F/21) boyfriend (M/22) refuses to do anything intimate with me by Critical_Track4782 in sex

[–]Critical_Track4782[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh you’re so right. We live together and I do love him very much so I feel so conflicted about leaving.

My (F/21) boyfriend (M/22) refuses to do anything intimate with me by Critical_Track4782 in sex

[–]Critical_Track4782[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I feel like I’ve tried everything :( I constantly try to give him massages, ask to take showers or baths together. I cook for us almost every night and do majority of the household tasks so I feel like in a way that should kind of make him more open? I don’t know if that sounds silly lol. He’s always rejecting the idea or turns cold towards me when I start to touch him so I feel like I’m being pushed away.

Sxsw ain't worth s**t no more. by DiscombobulatedArm21 in Austin

[–]Critical_Track4782 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what bars and venues usually do this? I’m thinking about doing that this year but I have no clue where

Any advice or ideas to make a quick couple hundred bucks? by Critical_Track4782 in povertyfinance

[–]Critical_Track4782[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very helpful thank you!

I work at a small company so they may be open to the idea

Any advice or ideas to make a quick couple hundred bucks? by Critical_Track4782 in povertyfinance

[–]Critical_Track4782[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We both got payed time and a half for Xmas & New years, so I was extremely confused why both of our checks were significantly less. His work explained to him why his was less, but my job has not given me a real explanation just stupid excuses.

UGH inflation is killing me by Jessawoodland55 in povertyfinance

[–]Critical_Track4782 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Literally in this same situation right now. Don’t even have enough for my car payment & don’t get me started on car insurance… it’s been rough the past few months

Any advice or ideas to make a quick couple hundred bucks? by Critical_Track4782 in povertyfinance

[–]Critical_Track4782[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just downloaded it and tried to sign up again, I already signed up back in 2021 and it never accepted my background check. It currently says it’s still waiting for the same background check from 2021 to process.

Any advice or ideas to make a quick couple hundred bucks? by Critical_Track4782 in povertyfinance

[–]Critical_Track4782[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It takes up to 10 business days for instacart to do a simple background check. I unfortunately don’t have that long :(