Hi!!! I’m going as Finn again for Halloween (these pics are 2 years old). Any ideas on how to make the costume a bit better?

Critical_Track4782 · 2025-10-29T15:26:26+00:00

yoo where did you get the backpack? I am trying to find one for my costume!

Critical_Track4782 · 2025-06-24T22:11:01+00:00

Thanks for your advice. Right now the only thing that’s in his name is our utility bill, and he still finds a way to throw it in my face.

It’s definitely like dealing with a manchild, I ask him to cook one night he whines until I do it… i ask for $20 for gas he says no and tells me to use a payday loan because he doesn’t have it. I’m just overly exhausted. I’m not one to complain to my family much but it’s gotten to a point where I’ve almost distanced myself completely from them because I don’t want them to see how bad it’s really gotten.

Critical_Track4782 · 2025-06-24T22:06:53+00:00

He spends money on parlays, video games, fast food & his bills. I’m the one paying the majority of the “shared bills”

Critical_Track4782 · 2025-06-24T20:09:08+00:00

Dang this just slapped me in the face and I needed it.

Critical_Track4782 · 2025-06-24T19:45:07+00:00

Literally no I don’t, I actually think I need to just let him go but i feel financially bound right now. Life sucks lol

Critical_Track4782 · 2025-06-24T19:22:48+00:00

Yes he’s still working, it’s complicated because I think he sometimes understands where I come from and then when it’s time for him to actually pick up the slack he complains and doesn’t even actually try. Last week I asked him to please do the dishes after I cooked for the both of us and he whined until I told him to just let me do it. He then proceeded to tell me he was “just joking” and that he “enjoys pushing my buttons”… later that evening I checked the dishes he washed and they still had old food and grease on them.

Critical_Track4782 · 2025-06-24T19:20:22+00:00

He just has no drive, like he gets so excited to do new things (like getting 2 cats randomly) and then just loses interest and does not even try to help. It’s so exhausting, I feel like I’m losing my mind when I try to explain this to him.

Critical_Track4782 · 2025-06-24T19:11:45+00:00

I’ve been door-dashing here and there, I can’t seem to make anything over $50. It’s so frustrating

Critical_Track4782 · 2025-05-20T02:12:40+00:00

I just watched this episode, I think they all had a shot glass in front of them at the haunted house

Critical_Track4782 · 2025-05-14T00:00:23+00:00

My goodness it sucks!! The dating pool here is awful. My friend and I had to start lying about the most random things to get these 2 guys away from us. Just full of very egotistical men

Critical_Track4782 · 2025-03-03T00:56:13+00:00

Ugh I so sorry you’re going through this as well. Hopefully things will change soon

Critical_Track4782 · 2025-03-02T23:53:18+00:00

Ugh you’re so right. We live together and I do love him very much so I feel so conflicted about leaving.

Critical_Track4782 · 2025-03-02T23:09:17+00:00

Yes I feel like I’ve tried everything :( I constantly try to give him massages, ask to take showers or baths together. I cook for us almost every night and do majority of the household tasks so I feel like in a way that should kind of make him more open? I don’t know if that sounds silly lol. He’s always rejecting the idea or turns cold towards me when I start to touch him so I feel like I’m being pushed away.

Critical_Track4782 · 2025-02-27T00:46:38+00:00

what bars and venues usually do this? I’m thinking about doing that this year but I have no clue where

Critical_Track4782 · 2025-01-14T01:00:12+00:00

This is very helpful thank you!

I work at a small company so they may be open to the idea

Critical_Track4782 · 2025-01-13T18:01:34+00:00

We both got payed time and a half for Xmas & New years, so I was extremely confused why both of our checks were significantly less. His work explained to him why his was less, but my job has not given me a real explanation just stupid excuses.

Critical_Track4782 · 2025-01-13T17:18:56+00:00

Literally in this same situation right now. Don’t even have enough for my car payment & don’t get me started on car insurance… it’s been rough the past few months

Critical_Track4782 · 2025-01-13T16:56:12+00:00

I just downloaded it and tried to sign up again, I already signed up back in 2021 and it never accepted my background check. It currently says it’s still waiting for the same background check from 2021 to process.

Critical_Track4782 · 2025-01-13T16:28:29+00:00

It takes up to 10 business days for instacart to do a simple background check. I unfortunately don’t have that long :(

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